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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're profile is very good, lots of pics and the writing is nice (i know you didn't ask for that but i was pleased to see such a good profile i had to say so).
Could be the relationship is putting people off but if that's what you want i would leave it up there and fingers crossed you get what you want. 
If your pics are getting liked and messages being responded to then surely some people fancy you. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"I have message ladies near me liked pics been nice and flirty but i got no where is it because im ugly or to good looking for them ."
When I'm given a thanks but no thanks I use the latter.. only once have I had it actually said to me..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't think his pics were too bad, coz they were his body and not just his cock but yeah there is a lot of them i guess now i looked again.
I do like cock pics though OP, especially with the body in them so my opinion will be different to others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wooaaaaa.....major cock pic overload fella! Be a bit more imaginative! 
This!! "
Yep!
It's nice to see what's on offer but by the 37th cock pic I think we get a good idea .. Maybe limit it to 35?  |
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"I have message ladies near me liked pics been nice and flirty but i got no where is it because im ugly or to good looking for them ."
Suprisingly cock pics turn most women off on here...considering its called fabswingers and not blind date but try changing your profile pic (face or abs maybe) and try to offer a meet rather than a quick fuck. Most importantly read their profiles as most woman put secret words in their profiles to know whether or not you have read it. You would then have to message them with the secret word attached to the heading of the message. Lastly patience, the good women on here are worth waiting for  |
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"You're looking for a relationship, total turn off, this is a swingers site, maybe try dating ones? Or change the word for fwb - friend with benefits"
It's not a turn off for some afterall if you want to be in a swingers relationship there's really no better place to meet someone than in the presence of like minded people |
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"I feel your pain mate... I get very little attention here... looking for discreet regular fun with like minded females... can anyone see a fault there?"
No there's no fault there but you are one of many single guys to very few women and coupled looking for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel your pain mate... I get very little attention here... looking for discreet regular fun with like minded females... can anyone see a fault there?
No there's no fault there but you are one of many single guys to very few women and coupled looking for them "
That's good to hear! But yes that's very true... LADIES, TELL YOUR LADY FRIENDS!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mate im with you on that ive sent endless msgs to no replys really "
One line with spelling mistake and one not bad picture = no effort. Looking for 18-99 suggests desperate and shag anything, I mean seriously would you shag a 99 yr old? Not looking for single males yet been verified by one, helps to have mates here doesn't it but it does imply you're into meeting males too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel your pain mate... I get very little attention here... looking for discreet regular fun with like minded females... can anyone see a fault there?"
Maybe you need to read your profile as all your face pictures are set to public view which doesn't match the first line therefore no friendship request will come your way. And even if they were listed as friends only, no-one serious is going to bother as it's almost a random friendship request. Also you can't accommodate but no reason why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're looking for a relationship, total turn off, this is a swingers site, maybe try dating ones? Or change the word for fwb - friend with benefits
It's not a turn off for some afterall if you want to be in a swingers relationship there's really no better place to meet someone than in the presence of like minded people"
True but I'm going by the experience I've had and it's not something I'm interested in |
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"You're looking for a relationship, total turn off, this is a swingers site, maybe try dating ones? Or change the word for fwb - friend with benefits
It's not a turn off for some afterall if you want to be in a swingers relationship there's really no better place to meet someone than in the presence of like minded people
True but I'm going by the experience I've had and it's not something I'm interested in"
And that's fine if that works for you others are entitled to to do the opposite as everyone is allowed o use the site as they wish |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're looking for a relationship, total turn off, this is a swingers site, maybe try dating ones? Or change the word for fwb - friend with benefits
It's not a turn off for some afterall if you want to be in a swingers relationship there's really no better place to meet someone than in the presence of like minded people
True but I'm going by the experience I've had and it's not something I'm interested in
And that's fine if that works for you others are entitled to to do the opposite as everyone is allowed o use the site as they wish "
I wasn't actually implying anything different and if I wanted a partner, a swinger is what I'd prefer, I'm just saying it might put people off and could then potentially miss out on someone who could become more than nsa, if that makes more sense |
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"You're looking for a relationship, total turn off, this is a swingers site, maybe try dating ones? Or change the word for fwb - friend with benefits
It's not a turn off for some afterall if you want to be in a swingers relationship there's really no better place to meet someone than in the presence of like minded people
True but I'm going by the experience I've had and it's not something I'm interested in
And that's fine if that works for you others are entitled to to do the opposite as everyone is allowed o use the site as they wish
I wasn't actually implying anything different and if I wanted a partner, a swinger is what I'd prefer, I'm just saying it might put people off and could then potentially miss out on someone who could become more than nsa, if that makes more sense"
It does so wouldn't it be better advise to give to suggest he keep that he wants to meet someone but until that person comes long he's happy to just play NSA |
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"I think with my profile it's just coz I'm ugly "
When you've been on fab as long as me you'll be intrigued, nay, excited to learn that the most common reason men give for not having had a meet is something they have no control over, eg. Age/height/ 'ugly' - it's never something they can change.
Happily, even if someone thinks they themselves are ugly, it's totally subjective so someone won't think so. |
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"Suprisingly cock pics turn most women off on here...considering its called fabswingers and not blind date "
How is that relevant? I'm here to meet men, not cocks.
Think yourself lucky most of us judge you on more than a cock pic  |
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"I think with my profile it's just coz I'm ugly
When you've been on fab as long as me you'll be intrigued, nay, excited to learn that the most common reason men give for not having had a meet is something they have no control over, eg. Age/height/ 'ugly' - it's never something they can change.
Happily, even if someone thinks they themselves are ugly, it's totally subjective so someone won't think so. "
Do you work for the UN? |
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"I think with my profile it's just coz I'm ugly
When you've been on fab as long as me you'll be intrigued, nay, excited to learn that the most common reason men give for not having had a meet is something they have no control over, eg. Age/height/ 'ugly' - it's never something they can change.
Happily, even if someone thinks they themselves are ugly, it's totally subjective so someone won't think so.
Do you work for the UN?"
yes, for the LOS department  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're looking for a relationship, total turn off, this is a swingers site, maybe try dating ones? Or change the word for fwb - friend with benefits
It's not a turn off for some afterall if you want to be in a swingers relationship there's really no better place to meet someone than in the presence of like minded people
True but I'm going by the experience I've had and it's not something I'm interested in
And that's fine if that works for you others are entitled to to do the opposite as everyone is allowed o use the site as they wish
I wasn't actually implying anything different and if I wanted a partner, a swinger is what I'd prefer, I'm just saying it might put people off and could then potentially miss out on someone who could become more than nsa, if that makes more sense
It does so wouldn't it be better advise to give to suggest he keep that he wants to meet someone but until that person comes long he's happy to just play NSA "
Absolutely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You would be surprised how far correct spelling and grammar go on here. If someone messages me with "hey bae u k wan 2 fck" I pass them by. To me that means you can't be bothered to make a effort, so I don't see why I should in return. Make the message personal maybe mention something in it from their profile so they know you've taken the time to read it - goes a long way.
I noticed a few mention the relationship thing but I think that is each to their own.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have message ladies near me liked pics been nice and flirty but i got no where is it because im ugly or to good looking for them ."
hey this threads 4 days old and you've still got Dick pics up that's part of your lack of success ,get other pics up write sensible well thought out messages based on the target profile and send a smiling face pic a bit of humour helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get some new pics use the timer or get a friend to take them.
For the love of god, spellcheck and punctuate your profile.
Use pragraphs make it easy to read.
There is no need to ask for women only as you can simply block men.
" i work 5 days a week so please only single ladies get in touch"
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A lot of whats there doesnt really make any sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to say a cock pic does not get me horny seen one seen them all!!!
It's how you charm your way in and not because you expect us to be 24/7 horny..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to say a cock pic does not get me horny seen one seen them all!!!
It's how you charm your way in and not because you expect us to be 24/7 horny....."
but are you 24/7 horny ? |
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"You're looking for a relationship, total turn off, this is a swingers site, maybe try dating ones? Or change the word for fwb - friend with benefits"
Plenty women on here look for relationships too, just because its fabs doesn't mean two people cant get together if thats what they both want |
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"You're looking for a relationship, total turn off, this is a swingers site, maybe try dating ones? Or change the word for fwb - friend with benefits
It's not a turn off for some afterall if you want to be in a swingers relationship there's really no better place to meet someone than in the presence of like minded people
True but I'm going by the experience I've had and it's not something I'm interested in
And that's fine if that works for you others are entitled to to do the opposite as everyone is allowed o use the site as they wish
I wasn't actually implying anything different and if I wanted a partner, a swinger is what I'd prefer, I'm just saying it might put people off and could then potentially miss out on someone who could become more than nsa, if that makes more sense"
No, you told him this wasn't a dating site, this site can be used by anyone for whatever they want to use it for |
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"Thank u all for the comments i will look into my profile an erros "
Try writing in proper English. That way you won't upset those who don't like txt speak and lazy typing. So a spell check too. You might not think it's important but some people do so why put up barriers? |
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"The same thing happened to me when visiting Dubai. Sometimes you just can't win.
It's not you , sometimes you have to change location to have success. "
This is so true. I was sitting on a sofa the other day and couldn't find the remote and then when I moved sofas, there it was! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi am very new to this
Any advice please? "
Ditch everything thats negative/sorry for yourself.
Ditch im new to this im no wdonis etc.
Just put forward who you are what you like and show your personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The same thing happened to me when visiting Dubai. Sometimes you just can't win.
It's not you , sometimes you have to change location to have success.
This is so true. I was sitting on a sofa the other day and couldn't find the remote and then when I moved sofas, there it was! "
Lol |
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"I think with my profile it's just coz I'm ugly
When you've been on fab as long as me you'll be intrigued, nay, excited to learn that the most common reason men give for not having had a meet is something they have no control over, eg. Age/height/ 'ugly' - it's never something they can change.
Happily, even if someone thinks they themselves are ugly, it's totally subjective so someone won't think so.
Do you work for the UN? yes, for the LOS department "
That's proper funny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stay away from cock pics. I have one or two, but they're in my friends gallery. Be imaginative, dress up, show off. Have a look at my pictures and get an idea from them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question
If you were to approach a woman in a public place you were attracted too would you do it while waving your cock in front of her? "
Yes... Is this not acceptable behaviour? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have message ladies near me liked pics been nice and flirty but i got no where is it because im ugly or to good looking for them ."
I've found spending some time in the forums helps, people get a better idea of your personality and you can get to know people a bit better than trying to sell yourself in that first message. Oh and just be yourself..... Unless you can be batman, then always be batman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out fookin standing. Two pictures without your cock in shot.
This is not fishing my friend. You don't get your worm out and we queue up. "
yeah that's y I only have one of mine but only seen my ppl that are friends on here not saying a would go showing all my friends mine cos what's next getting it out at Christmas dinner table pmsl |
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"I have message ladies near me liked pics been nice and flirty but i got no where is it because im ugly or to good looking for them .
I've found spending some time in the forums helps, people get a better idea of your personality and you can get to know people a bit better than trying to sell yourself in that first message. Oh and just be yourself..... Unless you can be batman, then always be batman"
Yes, which is good however they say only 1% of the site use the forums, so if only wanting to meet that small proportion of people then forum banter is the way to go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have message ladies near me liked pics been nice and flirty but i got no where is it because im ugly or to good looking for them .
I've found spending some time in the forums helps, people get a better idea of your personality and you can get to know people a bit better than trying to sell yourself in that first message. Oh and just be yourself..... Unless you can be batman, then always be batman"
yeah right tho just been your self is the main thing cos over selling getting to in to trouble |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have message ladies near me liked pics been nice and flirty but i got no where is it because im ugly or to good looking for them .
Suprisingly cock pics turn most women off on here...considering its called fabswingers and not blind date but try changing your profile pic (face or abs maybe) and try to offer a meet rather than a quick fuck. Most importantly read their profiles as most woman put secret words in their profiles to know whether or not you have read it. You would then have to message them with the secret word attached to the heading of the message. Lastly patience, the good women on here are worth waiting for "
well said cos like some said y would not go round with ya dick out .and from me think with ya head and ya dick will have plenty of play time when the times right ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP still has cock pics and the "rough sex" would put me off."
He's thinned it down to just three from God knows how many.
Mind you; it still equates to 75% cock pics! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having exactly the same issue maybe cos I'm new here "
Welcome to fab.
You are very new but you look like you've got things sorted profile wise. Just be patient and put effort into tailoring your messages to the lady or ladies you choose.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the welcome
Sound advice all my messages I send I do put the time and effort in to each one. Patients is my middle name
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Took me nearly 4 months to get my first meet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just good to see the struggle is real for a few guys.
4 months fair play for hanging on hopefully you where rewarded well 4 or more months I've got plenty of time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the welcome
Sound advice all my messages I send I do put the time and effort in to each one. Patients is my middle name
Took me nearly 4 months to get my first meet lol "
Or you could pop a short skirt on;
First meet with a guy within 24 hours.
First with a couple was a week.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Brilliant unfortunately as much as I might look good in a short skirt I have the distinct feeling a skirt is not for me.
I shall do things the old fashioned way trousers and shirt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the welcome
Sound advice all my messages I send I do put the time and effort in to each one. Patients is my middle name
Took me nearly 4 months to get my first meet lol
Or you could pop a short skirt on;
First meet with a guy within 24 hours.
First with a couple was a week.
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I don't have the legs for a skirt lol I barely get away with a kilt lol x |
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Can anyone please give me some advice please?
