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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, you are a BBW
Yes that IS a good thing.
And yes, I would love to smother you in baby oil and fuck you till the neighbours complained about the smell.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, you are a BBW
Yes that IS a good thing.
And yes, I would love to smother you in baby oil and fuck you till the neighbours complained about the smell.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I or not? "
I would say most definitely and that is a very good thing. What a sexy body, amazing breasts; sexy arse and a very beautiful smooth pussy. ?? |
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"It's your choice whether your bbw?!!! 
It's what you identify yourself as, not anyone else!! If I get 'bbw' messages I just bin them."
Someone who understands! I didn't think of myself as bbw. Borderline. But not actually. I don't buy clothes from the fat shops. But I suppose it opens more doors. |
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"It's your choice whether your bbw?!!!
It's what you identify yourself as, not anyone else!! If I get 'bbw' messages I just bin them.
Someone who understands! I didn't think of myself as bbw. Borderline. But not actually. I don't buy clothes from the fat shops. But I suppose it opens more doors. "
If only there was a way to say you have beautiful feminine curves without it having possible negative connotations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's your choice whether your bbw?!!!
It's what you identify yourself as, not anyone else!! If I get 'bbw' messages I just bin them.
Someone who understands! I didn't think of myself as bbw. Borderline. But not actually. I don't buy clothes from the fat shops. But I suppose it opens more doors. "
You look quite firm. Not a flabby lady so that's why you are probably not sure.
You're probably better off not thinking about it if its effects you.
But has I said. You look lovely
Just have fun and forget any negative thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You definitely have curves in all the right places and look stunning so as others above have said forget the negative comments let them pass over your head and keep being fab! |
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"It's your choice whether your bbw?!!!
It's what you identify yourself as, not anyone else!! If I get 'bbw' messages I just bin them.
Someone who understands! I didn't think of myself as bbw. Borderline. But not actually. I don't buy clothes from the fat shops. But I suppose it opens more doors.
If only there was a way to say you have beautiful feminine curves without it having possible negative connotations."
When i think of bbw, I imagine someone of a size 30. Not an 18/20. Not that there is anything wrong with being bigger. I'm digging myself a hole here! |
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Labels can be so divisive.
As the song says...
"Just shout out, I am what I am!"
I think you look gorgeous, I know I have my biases and preferences, what ever you choose for yourself you will still be just as sexy in my eyes, so please smile and enjoy life as you. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the UK average size for a woman is now somewhere between 14/16 you are only just qbouve that size bracket. So that says it all.
If you think you are busty (tick) beautiful (tick your curves are) and a woman (tick) then yes you are.
I personally love curvy ladies and wouldn't kick you out of bed for farting.   |
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I'm not really a fan of the term BBW
For one I don't understand how merely being big (B) makes you any more beautiful (B) than any other woman (W)
Secondly I'm not a fan of being categorised/fetishised. I'm a unique person, not part of a category nor a fetish.
I have no idea why if a guy finds you attractive he can't just address you as the attractive woman you are to him. Why bring size into the matter by using such a term, so it is therefore, in essence no better than saying I did a fat chick
It's why I'm also not a fan of terms like BBC, why call yourself it and define yourself by your cock, I'm sure there's much more to you than that |
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"As the UK average size for a woman is now somewhere between 14/16 you are only just qbouve that size bracket. So that says it all.
If you think you are busty (tick) beautiful (tick your curves are) and a woman (tick) then yes you are.
I personally love curvy ladies and wouldn't kick you out of bed for farting. "
you might...i stink! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As the UK average size for a woman is now somewhere between 14/16 you are only just qbouve that size bracket. So that says it all.
If you think you are busty (tick) beautiful (tick your curves are) and a woman (tick) then yes you are.
I personally love curvy ladies and wouldn't kick you out of bed for farting.
you might...i stink! Lol"
Ok.I'll hold my thoughts on that until I find out.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Although, one is a lady and as such, one doesn't partake in such ghastly activities and I'm sure I don't understand the comment!
Lol "
"Im a lady don't you know!" Lol |
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"It's your choice whether your bbw?!!!
It's what you identify yourself as, not anyone else!! If I get 'bbw' messages I just bin them.
Someone who understands! I didn't think of myself as bbw. Borderline. But not actually. I don't buy clothes from the fat shops. But I suppose it opens more doors.
If only there was a way to say you have beautiful feminine curves without it having possible negative connotations.
When i think of bbw, I imagine someone of a size 30. Not an 18/20. Not that there is anything wrong with being bigger. I'm digging myself a hole here! "
Size 30 is SBBW or SSBBW to most that define women that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you are stunning, the term BBW is banded around a lot. If ladies want to call themselves it fine but if somone else calls them one you dont know the context or their perception. I just love ladies with curves, I regularly see one,with hubby and met another twho was so hot I was dribbling before we really got into sex
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I got a private message saying I was attention seeking.... I'm not going to deny I've loved reading all the lovely things people have said about mu body. But it was a genuine question.
I've had several BBW party invites. I had never seen myself as that. Big yes. Fat yes. Disgusting yes. But not bbw. I clearly am. And that's ok. It's nicer to be told im beautiful than to be made to feel worthless as is the norm. If I hear ginger minger once more ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You look great! Don't mind haters, I get messages on fab from men telling me I'm disgusting and I should be ashamed of myself for putting up pics!
Each to their own  |
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"I got a private message saying I was attention seeking.... I'm not going to deny I've loved reading all the lovely things people have said about mu body. But it was a genuine question.
I've had several BBW party invites. I had never seen myself as that. Big yes. Fat yes. Disgusting yes. But not bbw. I clearly am. And that's ok. It's nicer to be told im beautiful than to be made to feel worthless as is the norm. If I hear ginger minger once more ..."
I didn't pm you but will confess that attention seeking did cross my mind too, afterall several people have tried to discuss the issue of the term or to say sod them identify as you see fit, those comments haven't appeared to be acknowledged but everyone ehise comments told you how gorgeous you are have been even just to say thanks |
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"I got a private message saying I was attention seeking.... I'm not going to deny I've loved reading all the lovely things people have said about mu body. But it was a genuine question.
I've had several BBW party invites. I had never seen myself as that. Big yes. Fat yes. Disgusting yes. But not bbw. I clearly am. And that's ok. It's nicer to be told im beautiful than to be made to feel worthless as is the norm. If I hear ginger minger once more ...
I didn't pm you but will confess that attention seeking did cross my mind too, afterall several people have tried to discuss the issue of the term or to say sod them identify as you see fit, those comments haven't appeared to be acknowledged but everyone ehise comments told you how gorgeous you are have been even just to say thanks "
Ehise?? That not even a word is it? Bloody iPhone I meant whos |
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"I got a private message saying I was attention seeking.... I'm not going to deny I've loved reading all the lovely things people have said about mu body. But it was a genuine question.
I've had several BBW party invites. I had never seen myself as that. Big yes. Fat yes. Disgusting yes. But not bbw. I clearly am. And that's ok. It's nicer to be told im beautiful than to be made to feel worthless as is the norm. If I hear ginger minger once more ...
I didn't pm you but will confess that attention seeking did cross my mind too, afterall several people have tried to discuss the issue of the term or to say sod them identify as you see fit, those comments haven't appeared to be acknowledged but everyone ehise comments told you how gorgeous you are have been even just to say thanks "
Didn't know what to say. And actually it was more difficult to say thank you.
I'm a great one for digging a big hole for myself, that id never manage to climb out of.
I'm new to the forums. Inly found them last night. Haven't seen other posts.
I take it all on board though x |
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"I got a private message saying I was attention seeking.... I'm not going to deny I've loved reading all the lovely things people have said about mu body. But it was a genuine question.
I've had several BBW party invites. I had never seen myself as that. Big yes. Fat yes. Disgusting yes. But not bbw. I clearly am. And that's ok. It's nicer to be told im beautiful than to be made to feel worthless as is the norm. If I hear ginger minger once more ...
I didn't pm you but will confess that attention seeking did cross my mind too, afterall several people have tried to discuss the issue of the term or to say sod them identify as you see fit, those comments haven't appeared to be acknowledged but everyone ehise comments told you how gorgeous you are have been even just to say thanks
Didn't know what to say. And actually it was more difficult to say thank you.
I'm a great one for digging a big hole for myself, that id never manage to climb out of.
I'm new to the forums. Inly found them last night. Haven't seen other posts.
I take it all on board though x"
That's fine and I don't see why they felt the need to pm you wasn't exactly nice, it's easy to not always notice how you can come across to some, I'm guilty of it myself
welcome to the forums, stick around they can be fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bbw stands for big beautiful woman. There is no size definition for the big part. As for beautiful well if you feel beautiful then put it. We can't see your face so can't say if you are indeed BBW to us.
People on here say they are BBW but to us they are not and that's not due to their size 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always considered it to be an insult....
Feeling a bit better about it now though x"
Why do you consider it an insult?? If you are big it doesnt mean you are not beautiful..you are who you are, enjoy being you xx |
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"I've always considered it to be an insult....
Feeling a bit better about it now though x
Why do you consider it an insult?? If you are big it doesnt mean you are not beautiful..you are who you are, enjoy being you xx"
But on the flip side being big doesn't mean you are beautiful either it's dependant on the person themselves which is why I don't see the point in using the term as a label |
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"I've always considered it to be an insult....
Feeling a bit better about it now though x
Why do you consider it an insult?? If you are big it doesnt mean you are not beautiful..you are who you are, enjoy being you xx"
Just another way of saying fat. Its all semantics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t understand why people say she’s beautiful or sexy when you can’t even see her face?? Unless you are friend of course but then she already know...
she’s got big tits and ass maybe that’s a criteria of beautiful for some |
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"She hasn't been on site for a month. "
I got logged out and forgot my password. When I logged in again I was rather surprised to see so much activity on an old post.
I don't think people understood the original question. It was about if I was big enough to count as BBW. Wasn't asking if I was beautiful, just if I was fat.
Lockdown has been cruel. I'm certainly significantly larger now. Same proportions, but more curvaceous.
Anyway, thank you for your lovely comments! Certainly made my evening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She hasn't been on site for a month.
I got logged out and forgot my password. When I logged in again I was rather surprised to see so much activity on an old post.
I don't think people understood the original question. It was about if I was big enough to count as BBW. Wasn't asking if I was beautiful, just if I was fat.
Lockdown has been cruel. I'm certainly significantly larger now. Same proportions, but more curvaceous.
Anyway, thank you for your lovely comments! Certainly made my evening."
Well you are a size 18 so I guess it count as big ? Maybe not in America thought. As for beautiful in the bbw can’t say it, not face pic.
So not sure how can people qualify someone as bbw?? |
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