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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I'm never sure how to word the first email.
Should I introduce myself and who I am etc or is that boring?
Should I go for charming or is that creepy?
Should I go for what I am looking for or is that too forward?
I have no idea, perseverance and the hope that the right person is on the other end is my only hope right now. |
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I don't read the profile first I go on the first message, your not going to please everyone, what one might find charming another might find creepy you've only got to read the forums to see that.
I would advice to thoroughly read the profile and tailor the message to them proving that at least you can read profiles. But it is also important to have a good profile because whether it's before or after the message it will get read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think u r picks ,bcz I don't read profile maybe but if u have gd pics I will masge u ,and remember man like me can go r meet last minute."
Given he doesn't meet single males why would you message him?
And why call people pricks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to put some more into your profile; what you are looking for ie type of women/couples, what you can offer them, what you are interested in trying etc. You could also do with a picture as your avatar, bum shot works with us ladies as we like bums, open to the waist shirt/suit shot is good too.
Your message should be about one paragraph introducing yourself, making sure you have read the profile and mentioning where you feel you match it with your face picture attached, no cock pictures either. Nor pictures you already have on show, pointless. |
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By *ames WhyteMan
over a year ago
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The profile is like your C.V. Post a decent one to prove you're an erudite sort of person. Pics of your willy won't endear you to any woman who is remotely classy.
Make an effort and it will make you stand out. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A simple.. hello would you like to chat... With a face pic attached.. Is enough for me to go look at their profile.. (providing I know they have read mine).. I then go off that really
But everyone is different.. So there is no right or wrong way... Being yourself is best x |
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