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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

is a wink the way to start up conversation or should a guy just message?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I hate winks and ignore them but you have to do whats right for you.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

If someone winks us and we like the look of them we wink back encouraging them to initiate a conversation.

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS over a year ago

Durham

I generally only check my winks occasionally. as a single bloke I think you will have to be more proactive than winks if you want win on this site. no harm in them mind.

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By *ivnwcplCouple over a year ago

liverpool

"is a wink the way to start up conversation or should a guy just message?"

When we get a wink or a message we will always reply to the message, even if its a no thanks, but if we get a wink we will check out that persons profile, but if they don't meet our meeting criteria then we tend to ignore the wink

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By *andSfitCouple over a year ago

London

Don't get why people are so against winking. It's an easy why of showing interest. If both parties wink then it shows a possibility of a meet. Surely it's more annoying getting a message from someone you have no interest in than it is getting a wink from them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We tend to ignore winks

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman over a year ago

kinky land

"Don't get why people are so against winking. It's an easy why of showing interest. If both parties wink then it shows a possibility of a meet. Surely it's more annoying getting a message from someone you have no interest in than it is getting a wink from them."

Message number shows on top of screen. Winks are buried somewhere (dont think I actually know where

) so it depends really.

A forum post is much more likely to get my attention though

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

Depends how i feel.. sometimes you can write a nice polite opening messages and they are just deleted.. so to avoid wasting my time.. i sometimes just wink

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree its down to the individual and what they feel comfortable doing

Or read the profile get a feel for the person then do your thing

I don't wink prefer a message or 2

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally a nicely written message is better than a wink. But winks are complimentary!

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

A wink is a wink.

Most Guys who go to the trouble of reading a profile, constructing a pleasant message still get deleted without a reply.

I send winks when the profile has no details. If they don't make the effort, why should I?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A wink is a wink.

Most Guys who go to the trouble of reading a profile, constructing a pleasant message still get deleted without a reply.

I send winks when the profile has no details. If they don't make the effort, why should I? "

Why would you send a wink to a profile that has no details?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"is a wink the way to start up conversation or should a guy just message?"
hey a wink gets their attention but a carefully penned messaged based on their profile with a bit of humour and a face pic that's the way to go