"Was wondering what sort of messages people like to receive in order to start chatting. Have tried nice and tried dirty but to no avail.
Any advice "
I have no idea what you're writing but it does help to refer to something in the profile to show that you've read it, which so many guys just don't.
I agree with the other poster that it will largely depend on the quality of your profile |
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A single guy who's got other commitments & can't accommodate, that usually rings alarm bells!! Plus the photos, only two & only cock ones, most people want to see face or body pics or both. Sorry but your profile doesn't stand out amongst the thousands of single males vying for attention on here!! |
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"A single guy who's got other commitments & can't accommodate, that usually rings alarm bells!! Plus the photos, only two & only cock ones, most people want to see face or body pics or both. Sorry but your profile doesn't stand out amongst the thousands of single males vying for attention on here!!"
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"A single guy who's got other commitments & can't accommodate, that usually rings alarm bells!! Plus the photos, only two & only cock ones, most people want to see face or body pics or both. Sorry but your profile doesn't stand out amongst the thousands of single males vying for attention on here!!"
Other commitments are children. Not many single dad's on here who want to remain anonymous |
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It's a problem for many people (not us as we're not seeking singles) but don't understand the number of people who just aren't up front about not being able to accommodate, if you have kids or live in a shared house why not say so, just makes it easier than people thinking you're playing away. |
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Probably a number of reasons, profile not attention grabbing, username off putting (some might think you're here just to talk dirty) cock photos off putting, message wasn't interesting enough or all of the above  |
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"Your profile is the problem. You need to fix it. The best message in the world wouldnt get a response when the profile isn't good."
Thanks have re written profile and the male was someone I had a mmf threesome with |
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"Your profile is the problem. You need to fix it. The best message in the world wouldnt get a response when the profile isn't good.
Thanks have re written profile and the male was someone I had a mmf threesome with"
Your profile says nothing about you, you have no pictures and your profile summary states that you are verified by one male. Will that attract women? You decide. |
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"Your profile is the problem. You need to fix it. The best message in the world wouldnt get a response when the profile isn't good.
Thanks have re written profile and the male was someone I had a mmf threesome with
Your profile says nothing about you, you have no pictures and your profile summary states that you are verified by one male. Will that attract women? You decide."
All of this. And before you hid all your pics it was clear that your chosen body type isn't accurate either. |
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"Was wondering what sort of messages people like to receive in order to start chatting. Have tried nice and tried dirty but to no avail.
Any advice "
I don't think I can give any advice to someone who knows so much about the men in here...."May seem weird a single male who cares and doesn't want to sleep with every female on here....." |
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"Feel free to check my profile looking for constructive advice "
Negative first paragraph, spelling as Steve pointed out and lacking a decent selection of photos |
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