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Am I doing something wrong?
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By *morousH OP Man
over a year ago
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I message women, couples and Tv/Ts genuinely being nice, asking how their day was and maybe asking a question about something in their profile.
Yet I have not had a single response.
Am I doing something wrong?
This may seem like a look at me post but it's not I just maybe need some tips? |
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You've only been here two weeks. Don't worry, a slim Swedish forum user will be along soon to offer advice.....
May I suggest you join in on the forum? The changing the letters on the 4 letter word thread is top notch. I've had 5 shags from it already. |
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"zero point in messaging anyone off here first mate, given most probably get a tonne of messages they probably will just delete and move on to the next."
Yes, no woman ever replied to a message and ended up meeting a guy. Ever. |
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"OP, can I just clarify....are you asking for profile advice?
-Courtney
Not necessarily. Maybe just a first message i could use that may grab your attention so it may grab others attention."
Send me your first message and I'll give feedback if you like?  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"zero point in messaging anyone off here first mate, given most probably get a tonne of messages they probably will just delete and move on to the next.
Yes, no woman ever replied to a message and ended up meeting a guy. Ever."
Fabs is imaginary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The issue might simply be how new you are. When I first joined I was always totally ignored. Whatever I did. After a while and making myself known on forums etc and when the 'joined' date had ramped up a bit I finally started to get replies. Yet I don't think anything I did was radically different.
So stick with it and good luck fella! |
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Yes, no woman ever replied to a message and ended up meeting a guy. Ever."
why are you even bothering to converse with me in the first place when you have me on block? go bother some one else ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, can I just clarify....are you asking for profile advice?
-Courtney
Not necessarily. Maybe just a first message i could use that may grab your attention so it may grab others attention.
Send me your first message and I'll give feedback if you like? "
If you're not looking for profile advice, then I won't give it.
I would take this helpful lady up on her offer 
You could also do a forum search for first message advice.
Good luck.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is confusing, it says you are ample but in your body pic you look fit?
I guess the pic just does me some favours. I would consider myself to be a bigger guy."
Bigger guys have to work that bit harder ... ladies have a lot of choice here.
I'm proof that bigger guys can have fun, but in a site full of fit guys, for the majority, you're rarely gonna be first pick.
I'd love to tell you different, but it is the reality for most bigger lads.
Just be respectful, patient, witty,sociable and gracious in the face of rejection and you'll do just fine |
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"You've only been here two weeks. Don't worry, a slim Swedish forum user will be along soon to offer advice.....
May I suggest you join in on the forum? The changing the letters on the 4 letter word thread is top notch. I've had 5 shags from it already. "
Lucky you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There comes a point in everyones life when we will do something wrong. Today I dropped my favourite mug. I was being stupid. I knew it wasn't steady. And then it happened.
The bottom line is this.
I'm not about to beat myself up about it and you shouldn't either. It's all just part of the rich tapestry of life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your profile is witty,, the problem could be the people you message are miserable fucks with no sense of humour  I think this is the truth!"
You can have a sense of humour but still want some info from the profile. It made me laugh but I wouldnt have followed it through as it told me nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's just what this sites about couples think they own the place an the fems all think there little worldys when it's very very far from the truth "
We think we own the place? Ooook clearly you have no clue how hard it is for couples here...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that being a sarcastic twat works in my favour.
Nice is bland. "
agree.. if a message can make me laugh you have gone to the top of my list when it comes to getting a reply x |
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..oh and a damn sexy one at that 
