FabSwingers.com > Forums > Introductions > Profile or nationality problem?
Profile or nationality problem?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I'm nearly 1 year on fab but I haven't got a lot message or meet. If I send message just read and delete or no answer. I don't know something wrong on my profile or my nationality is problem for somebody. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Not the friendliest profile I've ever seen. You might want to rethink the wording.
Nothing wrong with your nationality, but the fact you struggle to accommodate would put some off. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I'm nearly 1 year on fab but I haven't got a lot message or meet. If I send message just read and delete or no answer. I don't know something wrong on my profile or my nationality is problem for somebody. "
Nationality has nothing to do with it op, your profile however, and calling people names because they don't reply may have a lot to do with it  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
liverpool |
"I'm nearly 1 year on fab but I haven't got a lot message or meet. If I send message just read and delete or no answer. I don't know something wrong on my profile or my nationality is problem for somebody. "
Could be that you come across a bit of a prick by some of the remarks made in your profile  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Yes, you see it but now I changed a bit.  "
It's a nice profile now. Get some more photos up and go to a social, go to a club, make swinging friends and join in on the forum more. Try not to get fed up with no meets. They will happen if you join in more. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Not the friendliest profile I've ever seen. You might want to rethink the wording.
Nothing wrong with your nationality, but the fact you struggle to accommodate would put some off."
Possible struggle to accommodate but my problem with this I rent a flat with flatmate so I can accommodate when he working. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Yes, you see it but now I changed a bit.
It's a nice profile now. Get some more photos up and go to a social, go to a club, make swinging friends and join in on the forum more. Try not to get fed up with no meets. They will happen if you join in more. "
Do you have experience for which way is better for start? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm nearly 1 year on fab but I haven't got a lot message or meet. If I send message just read and delete or no answer. I don't know something wrong on my profile or my nationality is problem for somebody. "
How did the couple you met and verified you get in contact ...telepathy?  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Yes, you see it but now I changed a bit.
It's a nice profile now. Get some more photos up and go to a social, go to a club, make swinging friends and join in on the forum more. Try not to get fed up with no meets. They will happen if you join in more.
Do you have experience for which way is better for start? "
Go in the lounge and swingers forum and join in on the threads. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"You're in my area. There's a lot of action going on, might be too many guys to compete with on here. I ignore about 200 guys a day, put it that way."
possible that's is problem but not easy to write a high light profile |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You're in my area. There's a lot of action going on, might be too many guys to compete with on here. I ignore about 200 guys a day, put it that way.
possible that's is problem but not easy to write a high light profile"
You're profile isn't too bad, it has a pic we can see what you look like and you explain what you are looking for and who you can meet etc. It could be the not good english puts people off though, which you really can't help and have explained. You're quite young as well and most women and couples are older so not looking for your age but some will be. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
" You're profile isn't too bad, it has a pic we can see what you look like and you explain what you are looking for and who you can meet etc. It could be the not good english puts people off though, which you really can't help and have explained. You're quite young as well and most women and couples are older so not looking for your age but some will be."
I understand what you say and I think is true. Hopefully I find couple or woman who like me and we can make a good company for swimming life. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
" You're profile isn't too bad, it has a pic we can see what you look like and you explain what you are looking for and who you can meet etc. It could be the not good english puts people off though, which you really can't help and have explained. You're quite young as well and most women and couples are older so not looking for your age but some will be.
I understand what you say and I think is true. Hopefully I find couple or woman who like me and we can make a good company for swimming life."
Yeah. Good luck, you seem like a nice guy.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"im kind of in the same situation...can you help me too :D"
lol, that dick joke... 
Dunno, not a bad profile, maybe put pics up so people have an idea what they're getting? most people ignore profiles with no pics. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have exactly the same problem get no response at all lol don't know if it's profile or me "
Dunno. You've got a good variety of pics and your profile is short but seems ok. think you've gotta play the waiting game also. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
For us, you need a few more public pictures.
The way you have worded about your nationally seems quite aggressive.
It sounds like you are saying "if you do not like my nationality up yours".
We have many friend from many nationalities, and find them very nice and intriguing. But that opening line just puts us off.
Like the lovely lady says, we get loads of messages every day, and if yours does not stand out for the right reasons it will just be deleted. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I have exactly the same problem get no response at all lol don't know if it's profile or me "
Partly.. its you.. as in you are bloke. Join the trailor full of blokes in your situation thinking smilar thoughts as you are |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
