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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all
Just looking for Abit of help and advise.
I have a one or two friends on the site.
But I am struggling to make any contact with anyone on the site ( females/ couples )
Never mind meets or even fun
I send endless messages
Very polite respectful ones with photos
No cock ones and I still don't get anywhere
On the odd occasion I do get a message back
And normally is a no thank you
And Then I send a polite reply back
Can anyone please help me out in anyway.
Thanks for any help in advance.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your named after a company that unblocks drains is that the first impression you want to give?
You state your athletic why not maximise your profile with some pics of your body?
Profile reads ok though. It's a numbers game on here though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your named after a company that unblocks drains is that the first impression you want to give?
You state your athletic why not maximise your profile with some pics of your body?
Profile reads ok though. It's a numbers game on here though. "
So I need to change my name
Jesus
Give us a clue lol
I do send body pics in my messages
But I'm a private fella
Don't rely want to put them on to all
But I will give it a go
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your named after a company that unblocks drains is that the first impression you want to give?
You state your athletic why not maximise your profile with some pics of your body?
Profile reads ok though. It's a numbers game on here though.
So I need to change my name
Jesus
Give us a clue lol
I do send body pics in my messages
But I'm a private fella
Don't rely want to put them on to all
But I will give it a go
Thank you "
Keep your name by all means just saying it's the first thing that came into my mind when clicked on the thread. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your named after a company that unblocks drains is that the first impression you want to give?
You state your athletic why not maximise your profile with some pics of your body?
Profile reads ok though. It's a numbers game on here though.
So I need to change my name
Jesus
Give us a clue lol
I do send body pics in my messages
But I'm a private fella
Don't rely want to put them on to all
But I will give it a go
Thank you
Keep your name by all means just saying it's the first thing that came into my mind when clicked on the thread. "
Lol
I will give it a go im not losing out on anything
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi there
You have a typo in the title ... This would put me off straight away.
Hope that helps 
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Lol
Just noticed
I'm thick
Won't let me change my name now
I have to wait 7 days
But thank you for noticing
I will have to change it then
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Adding '69' or '007' to a profile name puts me off I'm afraid."
Thank you
When I'm allowed to change it
In 7 days
I will take the numbers out
Thank you again |
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"Hi all
Just looking for Abit of help and advise.
I have a one or two friends on the site.
But I am struggling to make any contact with anyone on the site ( females/ couples )
Never mind meets or even fun
I send endless messages
Very polite respectful ones with photos
No cock ones and I still don't get anywhere
On the odd occasion I do get a message back
And normally is a no thank you
And Then I send a polite reply back
Can anyone please help me out in anyway.
Thanks for any help in advance.
"
You've had 4 meets in couple months, hardly say you're struggling |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Just looking for Abit of help and advise.
I have a one or two friends on the site.
But I am struggling to make any contact with anyone on the site ( females/ couples )
Never mind meets or even fun
I send endless messages
Very polite respectful ones with photos
No cock ones and I still don't get anywhere
On the odd occasion I do get a message back
And normally is a no thank you
And Then I send a polite reply back
Can anyone please help me out in anyway.
Thanks for any help in advance.
Yes
You've had 4 meets in couple months, hardly say you're struggling"
One is a friend who I know from a previous time on the site
Two are the same couple and the other is there friend who turned up on the night.
So 1 arranged chat and meet really.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've had 4 meets in couple months, hardly say you're struggling
Says 6 when I looked 
#tellingporkies"
No
Just the 4
I wish 6 lol
Don't have that much luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've had 4 meets in couple months, hardly say you're struggling
Says 6 when I looked
#tellingporkies
No
Just the 4
I wish 6 lol
Don't have that much luck "
Just checked now
It does say 6
But I only have met 4
What's all that about ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello and welcome to the forums!
Here is some advice. Take what you want, leave what you want. I tend to give it to most of the people who ask for advice, but I try to tailor it to their profile. Here goes:
Pictures: Try to have some good pictures with good variety in your public gallery. A face (if you can), a full body shot, and a bum pic usually go over well. You can keep a dick pic in private for those women who like to see that before meeting you. If you have a face pic, smile in it. Sad face pics don't tend to go over well. Don't be standing in front of a messy bedroom. You have 3 photos that are basically the same pic. Change it up a bit.
Text: The text should reflect you and what you are looking for, along with what you can offer to a potential meet. Try to show your personality. A bit of fun and wit is often appreciated. Make it long enough to say something, but short enough that it will likely be read.
Your text is, in my opinion, pretty standard. There isn't anything special about it.
If you are really interested in the scene and want a better chance of meeting people, try going to some socials and clubs. They are a great opportunity to meet people without relying just on your profile. Its up to you.
Messages: Don't use the scatter-gun approach to messages. I would recommend choosing a few people that you really like the look of and sending them each a tailored message. It does not have to be war and peace, but it should be friendly and directed at them specifically for the best results. If you can attach a face pic that is a bonus.
And for me, personally, having your previous name up there tells me that you have been on-again-off-again and that puts me off. Others, however, might not care.
I hope this helps. Give it some time and effort and see how you get on.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi there
You have a typo in the title ... This would put me off straight away.
Hope that helps
Lol
Just noticed
I'm thick
Won't let me change my name now
I have to wait 7 days
But thank you for noticing
I will have to change it then
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It wasn't the extra t in your name she was talking about. I think it was on your profile title where you have misspelt genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 13/11/15 21:34:33]"
Don't know what happened then
I noticed the error and corrected the mistake with my status
I go on the site via my phone
And my eye sight isn't perfect
So put them together and it's a recipe for disaster
Lol
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