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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello and welcome to the forums!
Here is some advice. Take what you want, leave what you want.
Pictures: Try to have some good pictures with good variety in your public gallery. A face (if you can), a full body shot, and a bum pic usually go over well. You can keep a dick pic in private for those women who like to see that before meeting you. If you have a face pic, smile in it. Sad face pics don't tend to go over well.
Text: The text should reflect you and what you are looking for, along with what you can offer to a potential meet. Try to show your personality. A bit of fun and wit is often appreciated. Make it long enough to say something, but short enough that it will likely be read.
Not being able to accommodate is going to hurt you. I know it isn't fair, but that is just how it is.
If you are really interested in the scene and want a better chance of meeting people, try going to some socials and clubs. They are a great opportunity to meet people without relying just on your profile. Its up to you.
Messages: Don't use the scatter-gun approach to messages. I would recommend choosing a few people that you really like the look of and sending them each a tailored message. It does not have to be war and peace, but it should be friendly and directed at them specifically for the best results. If you can attach a face pic that is a bonus.
Also, is there a reason you want discreet people? We all want discretion, but it seems rather pointed in your text. Makes me think you're cheating. Not that you are, I don't know anything about you, I'm just telling you my impression.
I hope this helps. Give it some time and effort and see how you get on.
-Courtney |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"would i get more (any response) with a face pic in your opinion...  "
Doubt it, am afraid your profile and pics are very bland, and asking to meet average women would be a slight put off to some...who wants to admit they are just average .....lol  |
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"thanks for your views guys,all noted and profile changed accordingly,except the photos (bland) I wonder if theres anybody willing to help me with some new ones? "
If people have said the photos could be improved - why leave them on? Most cameras and phones these days have timers so try using that feature. If you think bland is good, then don't change anything. |
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"thanks for your views guys,all noted and profile changed accordingly,except the photos (bland) I wonder if theres anybody willing to help me with some new ones? "
Your profile says you don't know what you're looking for then the next paragraph says what you're looking for! In what way is saying 'I've not had much luck' sexually enticing? Make a negative into a positive.
Try a rewrite and my advice is to read the replies to all the other men who have asked very similar questions to you and take note of the answers.
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