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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I've been on fab for quite some time now and I've still not had any luck in meeting people can anybody give me any advice on what I might be doing wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello and welcome to the forums!
Here is some advice. Take what you want, leave what you want.
Pictures: Try to have some good pictures with good variety in your public gallery. A face (if you can), a full body shot, and a bum pic usually go over well. You can keep a dick pic in private for those women who like to see that before meeting you. If you have a face pic, smile in it. Sad face pics don't tend to go over well. You look unhappy in your pics and you don't have a clear body shot.
Text: The text should reflect you and what you are looking for, along with what you can offer to a potential meet. Try to show your personality. A bit of fun and wit is often appreciated. Make it long enough to say something, but short enough that it will likely be read.
Not being able to accommodate or travel is going to hurt you.
If you are really interested in the scene and want a better chance of meeting people, try going to some socials and clubs. They are a great opportunity to meet people without relying just on your profile. Its up to you.
Messages: Don't use the scatter-gun approach to messages. I would recommend choosing a few people that you really like the look of and sending them each a tailored message. It does not have to be war and peace, but it should be friendly and directed at them specifically for the best results. Attach a face pic, even though you have one on your profile. Smile in the pic!
I hope this helps. Give it some time and effort and see how you get on.
-Courtney |
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Thanks for the advice I will try to update my profile as best as I can. As for the socials and club events I think i would be better off trying to get to know somebody first that I would be able to with as I do sometimes get nervous/shy at times as I'm only just trying to get into the scene |
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"Thanks for the advice I will try to update my profile as best as I can. As for the socials and club events I think i would be better off trying to get to know somebody first that I would be able to with as I do sometimes get nervous/shy at times as I'm only just trying to get into the scene "
They were nervous and shy once too,,, didnt last or they were just pretending lol
Clubs and social events are good though, there will always be some random going round talking to people, trying to make them comfortable or not... and that person can sometimes be me  |
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"Thanks for the advice I will try to update my profile as best as I can. As for the socials and club events I think i would be better off trying to get to know somebody first that I would be able to with as I do sometimes get nervous/shy at times as I'm only just trying to get into the scene
They were nervous and shy once too,,, didnt last or they were just pretending lol
Clubs and social events are good though, there will always be some random going round talking to people, trying to make them comfortable or not... and that person can sometimes be me "
This.
Plus we started at clubs, not on fab. It is much easier to socialize and meet people that way. Especially for a single guy, many of whom have profiles that get passed over on here.
Just a thought. |
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"Thanks for the advice I will try to update my profile as best as I can. As for the socials and club events I think i would be better off trying to get to know somebody first that I would be able to with as I do sometimes get nervous/shy at times as I'm only just trying to get into the scene
They were nervous and shy once too,,, didnt last or they were just pretending lol
Clubs and social events are good though, there will always be some random going round talking to people, trying to make them comfortable or not... and that person can sometimes be me
This.
Plus we started at clubs, not on fab. It is much easier to socialize and meet people that way. Especially for a single guy, many of whom have profiles that get passed over on here.
Just a thought."
Definitely, helps get the "process" started, with people knowing who you are and what you're like... oh getting that little green tick  |
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"Hi I've been on fab for quite some time now and I've still not had any luck in meeting people can anybody give me any advice on what I might be doing wrong "
Some things in life are bad
They can really make you mad
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle
Don't grumble, give a whistle
And this'll help things turn out for the best...
And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...
If life seems jolly rotten
There's something you've forgotten
And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.
When you're feeling in the dumps
Don't be silly chumps
Just purse your lips and whistle - that's the thing.
And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...
For life is quite absurd
And death's the final word
You must always face the curtain with a bow.
Forget about your sin - give the audience a grin
Enjoy it - it's your last chance anyhow.
So always look on the bright side of death
Just before you draw your terminal breath
Life's a piece of shit
When you look at it
Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true.
You'll see it's all a show
Keep 'em laughing as you go
Just remember that the last laugh is on you.
And always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the right side of life...
(Come on guys, cheer up!)
Always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the bright side of life...
(Worse things happen at sea, you know.)
Always look on the bright side of life...
(I mean - what have you got to lose?)
(You know, you come from nothing - you're going back to nothing.
What have you lost? Nothing!)
Always look on the right side of life...
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"Hi I've been on fab for quite some time now and I've still not had any luck in meeting people can anybody give me any advice on what I might be doing wrong "
You can't travel or accommodate.... what you hoping for a fumble in the bushes down colwick park??? |
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"Hi I've been on fab for quite some time now and I've still not had any luck in meeting people can anybody give me any advice on what I might be doing wrong "
How about a variety of photos? Your profile is lazy. I hope you didn't put hours of effort into it - try telling potential sexual partners a bit about yourself, what do you like, what can you offer, why pick you and not me? What are you good at - try and 'sell' yourself. Imagine you're an ice cream flavour - what is it about you that someone will choose in amongst the 1009 other flavours? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Courteney's advice is good, especially the pics. I looked at yours abd thought Facebook profile pics (sorry) but a variety and not in front of your bathroom mirror could help. Also what you can offer the older lady you are seeking, what do you like/dislike etc |
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