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Is our profile too aggressive?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have changed our profile recently & feel that it maybe a little aggressive/long...all feedback greatly appreciated
P & H x  "
I think your profile is very comprehensive, well structured and polite. I don't think it is aggressive at all.
By the way....'Rose'. |
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I don't read it as aggressive but it is quite businesslike.....very matter of fact? Though there is nothing wrong with that, I would have liked to read what you would like before going down the list of what you wouldn't....just think that would be more inviting.
Hope that helps in some way....happy swinging
- Flik  |
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I'm not a bloke but there's a lot of donts which make you sound like quite hard work! I appreciate you know what you want but it's not very inviting. Maybe a bit more about what you do like/ have to offer?
However, the proof is in the pudding so if you are contacted by the right sort of men for you then all good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It tells me I am everything you dont want ..... So it works !
I love your profile 
yours is ok...some semi-fabbable pics.. 
Lol...think we may need to try harder eh? "
yes, my wankbanks half empty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't sound aggressive to me, just demanding.
Would it put me off? Yes.
But then it doesn't really matter as I'm too young to fit what you're looking for anyway 
-Courtney |
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"It tells me I am everything you dont want ..... So it works !
I love your profile
yours is ok...some semi-fabbable pics..
Lol...think we may need to try harder eh?
yes, my wankbanks half empty "
Okay...okay...I promise to work on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It tells me I am everything you dont want ..... So it works !
I love your profile
yours is ok...some semi-fabbable pics..
Lol...think we may need to try harder eh?
yes, my wankbanks half empty
Okay...okay...I promise to work on it "
I know what ya can work on......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's too long winded for most people to bother reading, you'll find most will skip the text and go for a perv at your photos before messaging you about half of the things that you don't want. |
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"We have changed our profile recently & feel that it maybe a little aggressive/long...all feedback greatly appreciated
P & H x "
. It is a very well written profile . Your requirements are clearly specified and you have put have put considerable effort into writing it .
The pictures are interesting and have good backgrounds .
Hopefully it will put off those that you do not want to meet and encourage those that do.
I like detailed profiles with clear and concise requirements . It avoids wastinge everyone's time.
Good luck in your search. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have changed our profile recently & feel that it maybe a little aggressive/long...all feedback greatly appreciated
P & H x "
Jesus.....I'd have to down four bottles of vodka before a meet with you two. I'd be that intimidated lol. Your pictures contradict your profile though ha ha,you actually look friendly and accommodating. |
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Not aggressive. More strict, a bit uptight. Sorry maybe wrong words but it does not read as though your mad for a laugh.
but at the same time, they are your rules, and if that's how you feel stick with it. At least people know where they stand when they contact you
Let's just hope everyone reads it as people tend not too |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I think it's too long winded for most people to bother reading, you'll find most will skip the text and go for a perv at your photos before messaging you about half of the things that you don't want."
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have changed our profile recently & feel that it maybe a little aggressive/long...all feedback greatly appreciated
P & H x "
rose ,well if I were in the age range I would have messaged you seems quite a mild list of requests ,do's and donts so your profile is fine in my opinion have fun  |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"It's ok. It's not aggressive. But not overly friendly. It looks like it was written to put off stupid men who don't match what you want, but those types don't bother reading your profile anyway. "
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"It tells me I am everything you dont want ..... So it works !
I love your profile
yours is ok...some semi-fabbable pics..
Lol...think we may need to try harder eh?
yes, my wankbanks half empty
Okay...okay...I promise to work on it
I know what ya can work on...... "
Better lighting?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have changed our profile recently & feel that it maybe a little aggressive/long...all feedback greatly appreciated
P & H x "
It is not aggressive but it is very demanding. Even your list of what you want is more about what you don't want. It comes across as very negative. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No point putting the code word at the bottom of the profile, many will just skip to the bottom and see it without having read the whole profile, hide it in the middle |
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"No point putting the code word at the bottom of the profile, many will just skip to the bottom and see it without having read the whole profile, hide it in the middle "
You need 2 code words, both randomly placed to avoid the 'code sneaks'. My code phrase is 'Steve fuck me' as it makes for exciting incoming message headers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't appear negative, fussy nor aggressive. It's your body and those who want to have sex with you guys should accept and appreciate you have standards and you both simply do not sleep with any old Tom, dick or harry. It's the stroppy ones who don't fit a person's profile and yet whinge about it that annoy me. It's as if they thing because I'm on a site like this, I should be fucking anyone and everything! But it's OK for them to have preferences and standards though  .
Happy swinging guys and keep looking yummy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it have to be in penge?No it doesn't have to 
Is Penge really a place?? "
Yes it is . It's almost in between Croydon and Bromley in London I believe. |
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By *untiniMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
To answer your question, not aggressive in my opinion .
Starts off really well then goes downhill a wee bit.
Too many & , & , & ! Please use the word 'and' instead of &. ??
Just a pet hate of mine and distracting . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems quite fine to us.
You're clear about your likes and dis-likes are quite particular about who you'd like to meet. Nothing wrong with that.
Just be aware that having high standards means the majority of fab won't come up to yours.
That's what we have concluded about ourselves so fewer meets than those less particular. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest there were so many rules that I forgot who you do and don't meet. Felt like I was being told off for something but could not work out what it was l. |
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