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Been on here over a year now and only met 2 women, I'm of rugby player physique, I'm clean friendly and will follow boundaries. OK so I'm not single and being naughty if I could lol, just feel like giving up. Am I the only one on here or is it just me?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've met 2 women, that's 2 more than some single men get so quit whining. If it's not working for you at the moment, change what it is you're doing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't accommodate" is always a sure fire way of advertising that you are playing away without wife knowing. Many people on here see swinging and cheating as very different things... but plenty also like married men.
Our advise: get a few decent pictures up and write something that appeals to others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any female photographer's in south Birmingham that would like to oblige taking some decent shots for my profile  "
just a question Op,why not a male photographer doing your pics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people will read stuff into the whole cannot accom thing and only available on certain nights. It would not put us off but some people will assume things that may not be the case.
Pad out your profile with your likes and dislikes along with sorting the some clearer pics out.  |
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"Are there any female photographer's in south Birmingham that would like to oblige taking some decent shots for my profile just a question Op,why not a male photographer doing your pics?"
Maybe it's to do with the extending zoom lens   |
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"Faeriequeen, I have looked at your profile and quite agree your photos would make any guy want to meet you.absolutely stunning "
Thank you. Just think about your best feature and take a pic..and not all cock pics! |
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Just worried a male photographer might point the wrong zoom lens at me lol, but seriously I don't have a problem with a male or female shooting me. A female would just get me looking more toned in areas than a male wood. |
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"Just worried a male photographer might point the wrong zoom lens at me lol, but seriously I don't have a problem with a male or female shooting me. A female would just get me looking more toned in areas than a male wood. "
fair enough, if I was taking pics I'dmake sure your cock looked really......small! |
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"Faeriequeen, I have looked at your profile and quite agree your photos would make any guy want to meet you.absolutely stunning "
You don't need a photographer just a little imagination and a decent phone app all mine were taken by myself using my iPhone |
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"Faeriequeen, I have looked at your profile and quite agree your photos would make any guy want to meet you.absolutely stunning
You don't need a photographer just a little imagination and a decent phone app all mine were taken by myself using my iPhone "
Agreed this is what I do. The timer is your friend! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for your advice it's much appreciated, will give my profile a rethink and hopefully get some new photos on here soon. You have all been wonderful. Thank you all."
Late to this but it looks like your profile is still the same? More than a few lines is needed, we dont know anything about you and sorry but I dont like your one public pic. Its easy enough to take your own. I have to do my own, selftimer on phone and camera is a wonderful thing. Good luck |
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"Been on here over a year now and only met 2 women, I'm of rugby player physique, I'm clean friendly and will follow boundaries. OK so I'm not single and being naughty if I could lol, just feel like giving up. Am I the only one on here or is it just me? "
No pitures
Only a couple of line profile
Clearly cheating from the odd times you can meet
Would you message a woman with a profile as bare as yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile doesn't say much about you and what you want from fab no pics and no reason why you can't accommodate and to be honest if I had been here a year and had two meets unless you moved in with each for 6 months I would be gone ,this place frustrates me but at least I meet  |
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"Just worried a male photographer might point the wrong zoom lens at me lol, but seriously I don't have a problem with a male or female shooting me. A female would just get me looking more toned in areas than a male wood. "
Have you heard of the self timer function on your camera? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Can't accommodate" is always a sure fire way of advertising that you are playing away without wife knowing."
Not necessarily. What about people who house share, those living with parents or those on barrack accommodation? To get someone onto base, they need id, have their pic taken and put on a database. Not to mention having a child in the property. Would you want your kids knowing what you get upto in private? |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Just worried a male photographer might point the wrong zoom lens at me lol, but seriously I don't have a problem with a male or female shooting me. A female would just get me looking more toned in areas than a male wood. "
Believe me, that is not how photography works! If you are looking for inspiration, google "male boudoir photography", fine some pictures you like and recreate them. If you are using your phone, learn to use the self timer. Two piles of books can be used to hold the phone steady without the need for a tripod or a selfie stick. |
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""Can't accommodate" is always a sure fire way of advertising that you are playing away without wife knowing.
Not necessarily. What about people who house share, those living with parents or those on barrack accommodation? To get someone onto base, they need id, have their pic taken and put on a database. Not to mention having a child in the property. Would you want your kids knowing what you get upto in private?"
well put my friend so many people snap at the no accommodate thing that's why I told him earlier to explain why he didn't accommodate |
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""Can't accommodate" is always a sure fire way of advertising that you are playing away without wife knowing.
Not necessarily. What about people who house share, those living with parents or those on barrack accommodation? To get someone onto base, they need id, have their pic taken and put on a database. Not to mention having a child in the property. Would you want your kids knowing what you get upto in private?well put my friend so many people snap at the no accommodate thing that's why I told him earlier to explain why he didn't accommodate "
I see this a lot on the forums..again its a split standard thing. If a female says she cannot accommodate it is rarely questioned. .. however as an example a previous meet came on base and as I booked her I found she had been booked on before by a few others...a little embarrassing all round. Yup her movements had been tracked and logged so the security guys knew who she had been with and when. How many ladies want that? |
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""Can't accommodate" is always a sure fire way of advertising that you are playing away without wife knowing.
Not necessarily. What about people who house share, those living with parents or those on barrack accommodation? To get someone onto base, they need id, have their pic taken and put on a database. Not to mention having a child in the property. Would you want your kids knowing what you get upto in private?"
This guy actually is cheating though he says so in the op :p |
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""Can't accommodate" is always a sure fire way of advertising that you are playing away without wife knowing.
Not necessarily. What about people who house share, those living with parents or those on barrack accommodation? To get someone onto base, they need id, have their pic taken and put on a database. Not to mention having a child in the property. Would you want your kids knowing what you get upto in private?
This guy actually is cheating though he says so in the op :p"
yeah it was quite a big clue to be honest.
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Thank you to the last two posters, yes I did state in my op I'm cheating, some people just don't take the time to read the op before putting their foot in it. I will be changing my profile but need time to think what to put in it, and also do some new photos using some of your great ideas. Thanks guys. |
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""Can't accommodate" is always a sure fire way of advertising that you are playing away without wife knowing.
Not necessarily. What about people who house share, those living with parents or those on barrack accommodation? To get someone onto base, they need id, have their pic taken and put on a database. Not to mention having a child in the property. Would you want your kids knowing what you get upto in private?"
Chill out and learn to read fella...
I said it is always a sure fire way of advertising that someones married. I did not say it was the only reason that people can't accomodate. Many people will often say they have kids and need to arrange baby sitters etc.
As for the military stuff around this area (Bordon, Odiham, Aldershot etc) anyone can get to any of the living quarters if invited.
I bought a car from an army guy. We sat in the officers mess and filled out the paper work. He even left me alone there when he went to photocopy it for his records!!! |
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"Just worried a male photographer might point the wrong zoom lens at me lol, but seriously I don't have a problem with a male or female shooting me. A female would just get me looking more toned in areas than a male wood.
Believe me, that is not how photography works! If you are looking for inspiration, google "male boudoir photography", fine some pictures you like and recreate them. If you are using your phone, learn to use the self timer. Two piles of books can be used to hold the phone steady without the need for a tripod or a selfie stick. "
Most of mine are done using piles of books as I dont have anyone to do it for me |
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"Thank you to the last two posters, yes I did state in my op I'm cheating, some people just don't take the time to read the op before putting their foot in it. I will be changing my profile but need time to think what to put in it, and also do some new photos using some of your great ideas. Thanks guys. "
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"Been on here over a year now and only met 2 women, I'm of rugby player physique, I'm clean friendly and will follow boundaries. OK so I'm not single and being naughty if I could lol, just feel like giving up. Am I the only one on here or is it just me?
No pitures
Only a couple of line profile
Clearly cheating from the odd times you can meet
Would you message a woman with a profile as bare as yours"
women get messages whatever. Bad profiles or not |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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""Can't accommodate" is always a sure fire way of advertising that you are playing away without wife knowing.
Not necessarily. What about people who house share, those living with parents or those on barrack accommodation? To get someone onto base, they need id, have their pic taken and put on a database. Not to mention having a child in the property. Would you want your kids knowing what you get upto in private?
Chill out and learn to read fella...
I said it is always a sure fire way of advertising that someones married. I did not say it was the only reason that people can't accomodate. Many people will often say they have kids and need to arrange baby sitters etc.
As for the military stuff around this area (Bordon, Odiham, Aldershot etc) anyone can get to any of the living quarters if invited.
I bought a car from an army guy. We sat in the officers mess and filled out the paper work. He even left me alone there when he went to photocopy it for his records!!!"
And they've been looking for the regimental silver ever since |
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"Been on here over a year now and only met 2 women, I'm of rugby player physique, I'm clean friendly and will follow boundaries. OK so I'm not single and being naughty if I could lol, just feel like giving up. Am I the only one on here or is it just me? "
Talking a lot about yourself not your personality, people have to like people before they fuck them. |
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""Can't accommodate" is always a sure fire way of advertising that you are playing away without wife knowing.
Not necessarily. What about people who house share, those living with parents or those on barrack accommodation? To get someone onto base, they need id, have their pic taken and put on a database. Not to mention having a child in the property. Would you want your kids knowing what you get upto in private?
Chill out and learn to read fella...
I said it is always a sure fire way of advertising that someones married. I did not say it was the only reason that people can't accomodate. Many people will often say they have kids and need to arrange baby sitters etc.
As for the military stuff around this area (Bordon, Odiham, Aldershot etc) anyone can get to any of the living quarters if invited.
I bought a car from an army guy. We sat in the officers mess and filled out the paper work. He even left me alone there when he went to photocopy it for his records!!!"
Not disagreeing, but simply saying it often gets a broadbrush treatment. I know people can get signed on to base but it is just that every time you are signed on there is a record of who signed you on and that is kept on the system. For some people that is a little bit too much. And if there is a high level of military in the area it may be a level of self perception that everytime they are signed on they are being judged if they have meets with several people on the same base (though all bases are linked..)
Another point is how much detail people are willing to go into on their profile. The OP has stated his position which is fine, but others do not put personal details on as they may try to keep the Fab side of their life as seperate as possible. |
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"Been on here over a year now and only met 2 women, I'm of rugby player physique, I'm clean friendly and will follow boundaries. OK so I'm not single and being naughty if I could lol, just feel like giving up. Am I the only one on here or is it just me?
No pitures
Only a couple of line profile
Clearly cheating from the odd times you can meet
Would you message a woman with a profile as bare as yourswomen get messages whatever. Bad profiles or not"
From you?
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