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Is the age off putting or is it something worse :P
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Attending social events or hang out in the forums are definitely good ideas to get to know people off FAB for the social element, even if it may not lead to playtime fun. | |||
"Take a look around the site. Work out the average age profile of the women on here. Then have a think about how old their son's may be. Then look at your pics. You probably look a like a lot of their offspring. Go figure. "That sounds to me like ure having a bit of dig at him, to be fair we prefer to meet young guys. patience is a virtue. Maybe try get an invite to a party or try join a club. Lots of ageist people on here we have had it they think there is a certain age you have to start swinging at (weirdos) GOOD Luck  | |||
profile is good but for me your age is definitely off putting (not counting the distance too), prefer my own age group, good luck though | |||
"Take a look around the site. Work out the average age profile of the women on here. Then have a think about how old their son's may be. Then look at your pics. You probably look a like a lot of their offspring. Go figure.
That sounds to me like ure having a bit of dig at him, to be fair we prefer to meet young guys. patience is a virtue. Maybe try get an invite to a party or try join a club. Lots of ageist people on here we have had it they think there is a certain age you have to start swinging at (weirdos) GOOD Luck "I think you may have got hold of the wrong end of the stick - and being rude calling other members weirdos doesn't put you in a good light does it! It's not about being ageist at all, it's about personal preference and what you feel comfortable with. Why have you set your age preference at 50? Why not 70? Guess what? Personal choice, and you wouldn't feel comfortable playing with someone old enough to be your grandparents. You've also said you prefer meeting younger guys - of course you do because you are in that age group too...I doubt you'd really play with a 50 year old! Therefore, I struggle to understand why you feel some of us wouldn't feel comfortable playing with people the same age - and younger - than our children!! My children are 19, 23 and 27...therefore for me anyone under 30 I wouldn't be comfortable with. It doesn't mean I, or others don't think they should be here, just that we don't want to play with them, some don't want to play with younger people because they don't think they're mature enough. Sad to say, I guessed your age before looking by the immature comment you made!!! | |||
"Take a look around the site. Work out the average age profile of the women on here. Then have a think about how old their son's may be. Then look at your pics. You probably look a like a lot of their offspring. Go figure.
That sounds to me like ure having a bit of dig at him, to be fair we prefer to meet young guys. patience is a virtue. Maybe try get an invite to a party or try join a club. Lots of ageist people on here we have had it they think there is a certain age you have to start swinging at (weirdos) GOOD Luck "She is not suggesting at all that there is a certain age that people should start swinging but they are right, ive a son the same age as this gorgeous cutie so wouldnt want to go anywhere near him and there are lots of people on here with kids that find it uncomfortable playing with someone similar age to their kids. Its called preference | |||
"Wow you are kinda cute arent you profile is good but for me your age is definitely off putting (not counting the distance too), prefer my own age group, good luck though "Forgot to answer the OP!
Agree with Kitten, you're very cute, good profile, nothing wrong whatsoever you're just not in the age group I would ever consider playing with.
Good luck to you! | |||
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I do have a young face to be honest but that pic was also taken a while ago, i take terrible photo's when i know theyre being taken so its hard to find one i like :D I'll try the chat option I've not really had much of a look at that yet.
I'm pretty new to swinging in general and i've been told single guys are on large a bit unwelcome to meets and partys unless invited (with obvious reason)
All help is appreciated and thanks for the helpful comments so far! On a jokey side note.. i am not your son! i jest!!
Tried to reply to everything i read sorry for the wall of text!!
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"Take a look around the site. Work out the average age profile of the women on here. Then have a think about how old their son's may be. Then look at your pics. You probably look a like a lot of their offspring. Go figure.
That sounds to me like ure having a bit of dig at him, to be fair we prefer to meet young guys. patience is a virtue. Maybe try get an invite to a party or try join a club. Lots of ageist people on here we have had it they think there is a certain age you have to start swinging at (weirdos) GOOD Luck
I think you may have got hold of the wrong end of the stick - and being rude calling other members weirdos doesn't put you in a good light does it!
It's not about being ageist at all, it's about personal preference and what you feel comfortable with. Why have you set your age preference at 50? Why not 70? Guess what? Personal choice, and you wouldn't feel comfortable playing with someone old enough to be your grandparents. You've also said you prefer meeting younger guys - of course you do because you are in that age group too...I doubt you'd really play with a 50 year old!
Therefore, I struggle to understand why you feel some of us wouldn't feel comfortable playing with people the same age - and younger - than our children!!
My children are 19, 23 and 27...therefore for me anyone under 30 I wouldn't be comfortable with. It doesn't mean I, or others don't think they should be here, just that we don't want to play with them, some don't want to play with younger people because they don't think they're mature enough.
Sad to say, I guessed your age before looking by the immature comment you made!!! "Any body that thinks you have to start or finish swinging at a certain age in my opinion is a weirdo ! I think its fine everyone has there prefrence as we do. I think the comment that i commented upon was belittleing the op. | |||
"there is a huge difference between a sex site and a swinging site..... and a lot of single guys, particularly younger single guys... tend to not realise or understand that! Not in anyway saying that this is you... but that is the feeling that I get As i seem to be saying a lot at the moment, The site doesn't tend to be "insta-shag".... it can and does take single guys a while! It took me 6 months to get my first meet... but it is a case of getting yourself known... you do get out what you put in... " Didnt mean to portray myself like that sorry! If i was like that i would have probably left instead of ask where i might be going wrong :D didnt mean to offend! x | |||
"there is a huge difference between a sex site and a swinging site..... and a lot of single guys, particularly younger single guys... tend to not realise or understand that! Not in anyway saying that this is you... but that is the feeling that I get As i seem to be saying a lot at the moment, The site doesn't tend to be "insta-shag".... it can and does take single guys a while! It took me 6 months to get my first meet... but it is a case of getting yourself known... you do get out what you put in... Didnt mean to portray myself like that sorry! If i was like that i would have probably left instead of ask where i might be going wrong :D didnt mean to offend! x" don't worry... wasn't aim speciffically at you.... I was just saying that there is a huge difference between a swinging site and a sex site.... Those who see it a merely a "sex site" are the ones who tend to struggle... we get a lot of people asking for advice, a lot of people see it as trying to make the maximum impact with as minimal effort as possible... I don't tend to give out advice anymore as people tend to skew their profiles as to what they think people want to hear, as opposed to just being yourself.... the only advice i give to people is: Time, Patience, common sense... the rest I let people work out for themselves... those who "get it" will understand, Those who don't will complain | |||
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"there is a huge difference between a sex site and a swinging site..... and a lot of single guys, particularly younger single guys... tend to not realise or understand that! Not in anyway saying that this is you... but that is the feeling that I get As i seem to be saying a lot at the moment, The site doesn't tend to be "insta-shag".... it can and does take single guys a while! It took me 6 months to get my first meet... but it is a case of getting yourself known... you do get out what you put in... Didnt mean to portray myself like that sorry! If i was like that i would have probably left instead of ask where i might be going wrong :D didnt mean to offend! x" waves ............ come to salisbury lol | |||
"waves ............ come to salisbury lol " Heard its fun in Salisbury! | |||
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"waves ............ come to salisbury lol Heard its fun in Salisbury!" Really...?!? I like going to Salisbury but I've never really heard anyone describe it as being fun.
As to your original question, I don't think your age will be a show-stopper but it will narrow down your chances a little bit.
But that's something that applies to all of us for different reasons. You may be too young for some but they've commented on your cute appearance, whereas I may be in their preferred age range yet am considered too ugly. Horses for courses
Stick around and have fun. | |||
"waves ............ come to salisbury lol Heard its fun in Salisbury! Really...?!? I like going to Salisbury but I've never really heard anyone describe it as being fun.
As to your original question, I don't think your age will be a show-stopper but it will narrow down your chances a little bit.
But that's something that applies to all of us for different reasons. You may be too young for some but they've commented on your cute appearance, whereas I may be in their preferred age range yet am considered too ugly. Horses for courses
Stick around and have fun."i suspect though that for those of us that prefer our own age group, you are pretty hot stuff  | |||
"Age is only a number we should not look at age some older will give you a shock but some of the young once will shock you too so just think age is only a number i am 45 and my lovely brown eyes girl is only 26 and the sex we have is out of this world so no more age it just a number ok x x x "Trouble is that at 26 yr lass is only 2 yrs older than my eldest and 4 yrs older than my youngest hence my preference for my own age group, and loads of others on here with kids feel the same | |||
