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By *llvision OP Couple
over a year ago
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Is there really any reason for not putting face pictures in ur public profile, or claiming that you wont read email if picture isn't included. It makes it very awkward when you send a picture and then get ignored, or they send you a face shot after you have viewed 23 hot body photos and they look like a camel. I'm just saying a little more honesty and a little less shallowness would be a welcome change to the bullshit. |
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"Is there really any reason for not putting face pictures in ur public profile, or claiming that you wont read email if picture isn't included. It makes it very awkward when you send a picture and then get ignored, or they send you a face shot after you have viewed 23 hot body photos and they look like a camel. I'm just saying a little more honesty and a little less shallowness would be a welcome change to the bullshit."
They can't put a public face photo because their wife or husband might see it  |
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By *llvision OP Couple
over a year ago
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Spent a lovely few hours taking to woman, she sent us picture we sent back, after we received the face picture and no where near as hot as the bod, but lovely lady and we weren't bothered, personality more than makes up for anything else, we sent her our pic, asked for a meet and got blocked. So I give up. And if ive emailed it means I am interested already, it just feels rude as I would never discount anybody based on looks. That's not what I thought swinging was about. I assumed all shapes and sizes welcome no judgments. So I give up. |
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People can request and divulge however much info / pics they want, thats up to them, how you respond is your business.
I dont have a face pic in my public pics as i dont wish to show people my face, same as i dont show other private parts, but thats my choice.
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"Spent a lovely few hours taking to woman, she sent us picture we sent back, after we received the face picture and no where near as hot as the bod, but lovely lady and we weren't bothered, personality more than makes up for anything else, we sent her our pic, asked for a meet and got blocked. So I give up. And if ive emailed it means I am interested already, it just feels rude as I would never discount anybody based on looks. That's not what I thought swinging was about. I assumed all shapes and sizes welcome no judgments. So I give up. "
Her face was no where near as hot as the bod? And you're calling other people rude?!
Yeah swinging is about fucking anyone that asks. No need to fancy anyone just get your legs open and lie there.   |
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By *llvision OP Couple
over a year ago
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Just wanted a rant as a woman bollocked me for emailing her without including a picture, maybe I read it wrong, or maybe she is just that shallow, when I suggested we sent at the same time, she received my picture and then blocked me. Rant over, feeling calmer now, nothing like getting out in your place by your peers, thanks for listening to my unreasonable ravings. Hahaha |
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Well you're very ranty but at least you now have face pics up in public! Ha! Fair play to you! 
If I email someone with the intention of hopefully meeting then I will always attach a face pic.
There is still a stigma about swinging and many people do not necessarily want their friends, family and colleagues recognising them and the negative implications this could have hence don't display them openly in the public gallery.
But my view is that whoever is making the initial contact should break the ice and send a face pic first. Then it's up to the other party to decide if they want to reciprocate.
It's unreasonable, in my opinion, to contact someone without a face pic then expect them to show first.
Anyway, you're a good looking couple I'm sure you'll be very successful in here so happy Fabbing and all the best! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have face pics on profile.. Hopefully it makes it easier for people to make a decision on a camel like features prior to messaging us.. Least that way they don't get the hump!! Ba-dum-Tsss x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wanted a rant as a woman bollocked me for emailing her without including a picture, maybe I read it wrong, or maybe she is just that shallow, when I suggested we sent at the same time, she received my picture and then blocked me. Rant over, feeling calmer now, nothing like getting out in your place by your peers, thanks for listening to my unreasonable ravings. Hahaha"
Fair enough. It did seem very odd and contradictory. You called some people "camels" yet thought swinging was not about looks. For us, by the way, it is a combination of looks and personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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here we go again... do users of this site not get it!! ITS UPTO THE INDIVIDUAL WHAT PICTURES THEY WANT TO SHOW IN PUBLIC OR FRIENDS OR PRIVATE ITS A PERSONS CHOICE TO DO WHAT THEY SEE IS FINE.. I LIKE THE FACT MY FACE PICS ARE IN MY FRIENDS AND PRIVATE FOLDER AS DO MANY OTHERS |
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"Is there really any reason for not putting face pictures in ur public profile, or claiming that you wont read email if picture isn't included. It makes it very awkward when you send a picture and then get ignored, or they send you a face shot after you have viewed 23 hot body photos and they look like a camel. I'm just saying a little more honesty and a little less shallowness would be a welcome change to the bullshit.
They can't put a public face photo because their wife or husband might see it "
Shhhh. Lol |
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people have friend and private folders maybe they dont want relations or people at work knowing about their private life oops did a mention private life
and its your choice to interact or not with a faceless profile or ask them from the outset for a picture |
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Possibly the daftest thread, hate to be harsh but if you can put a face pic up here it shows a lack of ambition.. For all you know you could be famous oneday and that photo would come back to haunt you. What if you invented something and went on dragon's den ? And some chump had screen snapped your picture of you with your cock and balls out and sent it to some trashy paper (like the guardian) Peter Jones would snatch back his investment and Debra Medan would have your balls on a plinth quicker than you can say 'no cock pics please'. |
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"Possibly the daftest thread, hate to be harsh but if you can put a face pic up here it shows a lack of ambition.. For all you know you could be famous oneday and that photo would come back to haunt you. What if you invented something and went on dragon's den ? And some chump had screen snapped your picture of you with your cock and balls out and sent it to some trashy paper (like the guardian) Peter Jones would snatch back his investment and Debra Medan would have your balls on a plinth quicker than you can say 'no cock pics please'. "
Face pic or no face pic trust me that information can still be accessed unless your never ever going to send a pic to anyone at all in which case don't be online. But of course it is your choice to show it or not |
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But trust me.. Mitigate risk through caution. It might seem like a good idea now but you might want to move on from doing this and frivolous photos could stop you doing that. I certainly don't want future offspring knowing about all this. |
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