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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

Been on here a few weeks now but still no meet,

Any advice on profile, approach etc?

Thanks.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

It sucks being a noob on here LOL

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By *d871Man over a year ago

nowhere

Hang in there!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You need patience, its normal for men to wait years lol.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

One of your picture seems to have been taken in a teenage girls bedroom.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You need patience, its normal for men to wait years lol."

Some men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One of your picture seems to have been taken in a teenage girls bedroom."
could be his bedroom and that would be my suggestion as to why he is struggling ..lol..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have a look in the Introductions forum section. Usually a lot of profile advice in there.

Some people like fuck n go. Some people like to be friendly with people they meet. Neither way is wrong. Figure out which type suits you best and look for people the same.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"One of your picture seems to have been taken in a teenage girls bedroom."

I kniw, my younger sisters room (best mirror lol)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One of your picture seems to have been taken in a teenage girls bedroom."

That's his room

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try not to exfoliate your face so often.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You need patience, its normal for men to wait years lol."

Years! I didn't wait that long

11 months for me

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By *o-jCouple over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Just remember this is a swinging site not an easy shag site .

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just remember this is a swinging site not an easy shag site .

Jo x"

Shag's easy.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"Try not to exfoliate your face so often."

Can't help having great skin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You need patience, its normal for men to wait years lol.

Years! I didn't wait that long

11 months for me

"
lol good, just under a year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just remember this is a swinging site not an easy shag site .

Jo x"
How about for single women who meet every week for a shag?.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"One of your picture seems to have been taken in a teenage girls bedroom.

I kniw, my younger sisters room (best mirror lol)"

In which case you may want to take some new pics, preferably not using a females bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try not to exfoliate your face so often.

Can't help having great skin

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP: have you got terminal dandruff?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Just remember this is a swinging site not an easy shag site .

Jo xHow about for single women who meet every week for a shag?."
maybe they will meet for a shag tonight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just remember this is a swinging site not an easy shag site .

Jo xHow about for single women who meet every week for a shag?. maybe they will meet for a shag tonight

"
Yes I think so too lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!"

No I send out tons of messages including face pics, but get no responses? I'm a friendly guy and never sound cringey or needy on my messages so I don't know what to improve on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!

No I send out tons of messages including face pics, but get no responses? I'm a friendly guy and never sound cringey or needy on my messages so I don't know what to improve on"

I notice i replied to you a couple of months ago so it probably was an alright message.

Make sure you message the right people (like you're 100 miles away from me so was wasting your time) and remember most people will ignore messages, it's more the timing that gets you meets.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!

No I send out tons of messages including face pics, but get no responses? I'm a friendly guy and never sound cringey or needy on my messages so I don't know what to improve on

I notice i replied to you a couple of months ago so it probably was an alright message.

Make sure you message the right people (like you're 100 miles away from me so was wasting your time) and remember most people will ignore messages, it's more the timing that gets you meets."

Thank you for the advice x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!

No I send out tons of messages including face pics, but get no responses? I'm a friendly guy and never sound cringey or needy on my messages so I don't know what to improve on"

Honestly mate,keep doing what you are doing,be friendly,polite and tailor your message to the woman/couple you are messaging.Above all though,be patient,and you'll be fine...

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!

No I send out tons of messages including face pics, but get no responses? I'm a friendly guy and never sound cringey or needy on my messages so I don't know what to improve on

Honestly mate,keep doing what you are doing,be friendly,polite and tailor your message to the woman/couple you are messaging.Above all though,be patient,and you'll be fine...

Cheers mate, appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!

No I send out tons of messages including face pics, but get no responses? I'm a friendly guy and never sound cringey or needy on my messages so I don't know what to improve on

I notice i replied to you a couple of months ago so it probably was an alright message.

Make sure you message the right people (like you're 100 miles away from me so was wasting your time) and remember most people will ignore messages, it's more the timing that gets you meets.

Thank you for the advice x"

Not the best advice really because you have no idea when that timing is right, sorry.

Maybe try and make yourself known on the forums and you'll at least have something to pass the time and possibly make friends that way or could get meets this way.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!

No I send out tons of messages including face pics, but get no responses? I'm a friendly guy and never sound cringey or needy on my messages so I don't know what to improve on

I notice i replied to you a couple of months ago so it probably was an alright message.

Make sure you message the right people (like you're 100 miles away from me so was wasting your time) and remember most people will ignore messages, it's more the timing that gets you meets.

Thank you for the advice x

Not the best advice really because you have no idea when that timing is right, sorry.

Maybe try and make yourself known on the forums and you'll at least have something to pass the time and possibly make friends that way or could get meets this way."

That's a great idea, thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!

No I send out tons of messages including face pics, but get no responses? I'm a friendly guy and never sound cringey or needy on my messages so I don't know what to improve on

I notice i replied to you a couple of months ago so it probably was an alright message.

Make sure you message the right people (like you're 100 miles away from me so was wasting your time) and remember most people will ignore messages, it's more the timing that gets you meets.

Thank you for the advice x

Not the best advice really because you have no idea when that timing is right, sorry.

Maybe try and make yourself known on the forums and you'll at least have something to pass the time and possibly make friends that way or could get meets this way.

That's a great idea, thanks "

Hope it works, you seem nice.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!

No I send out tons of messages including face pics, but get no responses? I'm a friendly guy and never sound cringey or needy on my messages so I don't know what to improve on

I notice i replied to you a couple of months ago so it probably was an alright message.

Make sure you message the right people (like you're 100 miles away from me so was wasting your time) and remember most people will ignore messages, it's more the timing that gets you meets.

Thank you for the advice x

Not the best advice really because you have no idea when that timing is right, sorry.

Maybe try and make yourself known on the forums and you'll at least have something to pass the time and possibly make friends that way or could get meets this way.

That's a great idea, thanks

Hope it works, you seem nice."

Thanks again, I will try to be patient and see who I appeal too x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

25 still living with mummy and sister

Would be enough to put most off

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"25 still living with mummy and sister

Would be enough to put most off "

Zeitgeist

people can't afford to move out.

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"25 still living with mummy and sister

Would be enough to put most off "

Seeing as I care for my 'mummy' full time, if that puts people off then I don't need people like that to be intrested anyways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"25 still living with mummy and sister

Would be enough to put most off "

My boyfriend is 33 and lives with his dad. I'm not bothered. He's really independent and works hard, makes meals for his family, does all his own chores.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, you seem OK but your profile does not stand out. Inject some personality into it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"25 still living with mummy and sister

Would be enough to put most off

Seeing as I care for my 'mummy' full time, if that puts people off then I don't need people like that to be intrested anyways."

Then put it on your profile but don't harp on about it

When You ask what people think of your profile so expect some criticism

When you are thinking of a reply to messages think if I was a guy would I let this guy know where I live or give my mrs phone number too especially as my children live with me .

You need to realise that with so many singles out there that you get one chance and even then that's not a fair chance

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"25 still living with mummy and sister

Would be enough to put most off

Seeing as I care for my 'mummy' full time, if that puts people off then I don't need people like that to be intrested anyways.

Then put it on your profile but don't harp on about it

When You ask what people think of your profile so expect some criticism

When you are thinking of a reply to messages think if I was a guy would I let this guy know where I live or give my mrs phone number too especially as my children live with me .

You need to realise that with so many singles out there that you get one chance and even then that's not a fair chance "

Not really criticism When it isn't constructive... Also please don't contradict yourself. Firstly you say 'put it on your profile' then you say 'dont harp on about it' hmmm makes sense that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"25 still living with mummy and sister

Would be enough to put most off "

Why would it?

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

Let me just say thank you for all the responses to this thread. I appreciate all comments even if I don't agree with them all.

But could you more experienced members take a read of my profile and tell me how I could improve it?

Thanks again

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman over a year ago

gosport ish

"Let me just say thank you for all the responses to this thread. I appreciate all comments even if I don't agree with them all.

But could you more experienced members take a read of my profile and tell me how I could improve it?

Thanks again

"
The advice you've been given is from experienced members. It's your profile, it needs to reflect you and only you can do this. Read the forums there are hundreds of threads with men asking the same question and they've been given good advice, read them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let me just say thank you for all the responses to this thread. I appreciate all comments even if I don't agree with them all.

But could you more experienced members take a read of my profile and tell me how I could improve it?

Thanks again

They have. You do not put up a profile criticism request and then reject the advice given freely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let me just say thank you for all the responses to this thread. I appreciate all comments even if I don't agree with them all.

But could you more experienced members take a read of my profile and tell me how I could improve it?

Thanks again

"
I did give you advice and you shot it down

I know a guy with a 5 line 27 word profile one picture is 50 years old and probably 50 inch waist

And 409 verifications

To be honest I don't think you get it . He does and that is proved on his verification

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By *r.Genuine OP Man over a year ago

Birmingham

"Let me just say thank you for all the responses to this thread. I appreciate all comments even if I don't agree with them all.

But could you more experienced members take a read of my profile and tell me how I could improve it?

Thanks again

I did give you advice and you shot it down

I know a guy with a 5 line 27 word profile one picture is 50 years old and probably 50 inch waist

And 409 verifications

To be honest I don't think you get it . He does and that is proved on his verification "

Don't need advice when it's not constructive, what you expecting me to do move out?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman over a year ago

gosport ish

"Let me just say thank you for all the responses to this thread. I appreciate all comments even if I don't agree with them all.

But could you more experienced members take a read of my profile and tell me how I could improve it?

Thanks again

I did give you advice and you shot it down

I know a guy with a 5 line 27 word profile one picture is 50 years old and probably 50 inch waist

And 409 verifications

To be honest I don't think you get it . He does and that is proved on his verification

Don't need advice when it's not constructive, what you expecting me to do move out? "
Advice given was constructive from others. Here's a novel idea op how about you do what most others do go figure it out yourself

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By *dam and slutCouple over a year ago

Manchester

"Let me guess.You expected to join,and be fighting them off with a stick?!

No I send out tons of messages including face pics, but get no responses? I'm a friendly guy and never sound cringey or needy on my messages so I don't know what to improve on"

Is it because you are from Birmingham?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on here a few weeks now but still no meet,

Any advice on profile, approach etc?

Thanks."

Plenty of advice on your approach.

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