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What's wrong with me lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is my second time on here, the last when I was married, now I'm single. I know I'm not going to get meets overnight, but this time around I'm not even getting any views on my profile, where am I going wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is probably 50,000 men and like 100 women on here. The odds are stacked against us, and you need something to catch just one woman's eye. Take your time and be patient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are probably 50,000 men and like 100 women on here. The odds are stacked against us, and you need something to catch just one woman's eye. Take your time and be patient. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the responses, I suppose I'm more impatient this time as I'm now single. A bit like a bird let out of a cage lol. The meet I had was someone I met on here before, but she seemed happy so it's all positive |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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You joined two weeks ago and you had a meet less than a week ago....thats a bloody good record so far! Just keep doing what you're doing!!
Oh and drop the whining status - it's not attractive  |
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"You joined two weeks ago and you had a meet less than a week ago....thats a bloody good record so far! Just keep doing what you're doing!!
Oh and drop the whining status - it's not attractive "
Yep, whining is not attractive. No one will meet you out of sympathy. Try something funny or interesting instead to attract attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is 2 weeks old, you've already had a meet and you're complaining? 
Most single guys have to wait around six months to get their first meet, so if I were you I would consider myself one of the more fortunate ones.
Most single ladies browse in stealth mode anyway - and this is mainly out of concern that if they didn't they'd be inundated with 'I saw you looked at my profile' messages. Just because someone looks at your profile doesn't necessarily mean that they want to meet you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wasn't complaining as such, it was just the lack of views that was concerning, 8 in 2 weeks. As I said, the meet was with a friend from the last time I was on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wasn't complaining as such, it was just the lack of views that was concerning, 8 in 2 weeks. As I said, the meet was with a friend from the last time I was on fab"
Who cares how many people view you, it doesn't equate to a meet and some people look in stealth mode so wouldn't show anyway. |
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I now view in stealth mode because guys would see that you've looked at them and take that as a green light that I wanted to meet them and proceed to message me, err no I was just looking and I'm a confident adult if I was interested I was capable of messaging them to say so |
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By *appy101Woman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the responses, I suppose I'm more impatient this time as I'm now single. A bit like a bird let out of a cage lol. The meet I had was someone I met on here before, but she seemed happy so it's all positive "
Your profile write up could be better, with talking about picking nose. Gross!
I think be more positive in what you write.
I also wouldn't mention your divorce either, keep it up beat. More likely to get a meet  |
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If I had a meet after a week of joining I'd be more than happy, Intact I'd be ecstatic lol! and agree with other comments, if the lady you met has read this she may feel upset by the comment. One bit of advice is just chill, forge friendships by messaging and have good banter...I'm hardly brad Pitt but I do ok on here lol. good luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a smiley photo would be good, some chest/shoulder/shirt pics too. Talk in your profile abit more about your personality - and what kind of woman/encounter you would like....then go to some socials, meet people in real life! good luck, happy swinging i hope, m x |
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Maybe you're asking the wrong questions, perhaps you need to ask if someone will take a chance on you, as that word seems to be "trending" on here today........now you'll have to excuse me, i need to cut my tongue and forefinger off, for using that afore mentioned word |
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"More pics.
Torso and bums sell well.
Rewrite the profile less woe is me I'm Mr mediocre. More "hey I'm happy and awesome let's have good times"
Totally agree with this "
Yep 100%, uplift it a bit. |
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