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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not easy bud , wrote decent messages but 9/10 just get deleted so think i must be going wrong somewhere lol. Pick yaself up and try again , profile defo help though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally no messages hahaha"
Problem is, you have made yourself look like yet another single guy who thinks a one line profile will get him a fuck.
Effort in= Reward out.
You have probably seem that said a lot of times and if you were looking at your profile as another member, how much effort would you actually think was involved?
You can't accommodate. That certainly doesn't help.
Swinging is a lifestyle choice by many, and this site isn't Instashag.com. however your profile points down the way that you think it is, especially when your thread on here is as long as your profile.
It is up to you how others see you.
Moaning on here will only make you worse, effort put in may make you look better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally no messages hahaha
Problem is, you have made yourself look like yet another single guy who thinks a one line profile will get him a fuck.
Effort in= Reward out.
You have probably seem that said a lot of times and if you were looking at your profile as another member, how much effort would you actually think was involved?
You can't accommodate. That certainly doesn't help.
Swinging is a lifestyle choice by many, and this site isn't Instashag.com. however your profile points down the way that you think it is, especially when your thread on here is as long as your profile.
It is up to you how others see you.
Moaning on here will only make you worse, effort put in may make you look better."
hahahahaaaa instashag. Love it!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 weeks on Fab and a meaningless profile text.Delete it and spend some time re wording it and things might look up.Failing that read the 10,000 other threads like this and see whats been said.hth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos the site is saturated with men lol 
Yes it is but we are sure you agree that the men who make an effort stand out more."
Yes and also if the area you live in are active on fab plais a big role as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos the site is saturated with men lol
Yes it is but we are sure you agree that the men who make an effort stand out more."
They stand out way more. There are so many faceless/photoless one line profiles on here that the ones that make an effort stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly, your pics are nothing special and your profile text makes you sound quite shallow - thank god I'm not short and fat!"
That is the new profile write up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put on your bi in your profile. That might help "
Yes, we noticed that the part where the verification by meeting with other men has been hidden and that the profile states straight.
We never understand why people feel the need to hide or deny their sexual orientation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, you've only been here 3 weeks and already you're moaning about a complete lack of interest.
What exactly were your expectations when joining fab?
That you'd be fighting the ladies off with a shitty stick within a week?
That's not how fab works.
Many single guys wait around six months to get their first meet, and that's for guys who actually put some effort into their profiles.
I'm afraid that the stark truth is that anyone visiting your profile will assume that you couldn't be bothered with it and as such will assume you will have a similar attitude to a meet.
Also, your post gives the impression that you are expecting others to come to you. Are you messaging anyone yourself or just waiting for your inbox to fill up.
We men massively outnumber the ladies here, who get around 100 messages PER DAY!!! They don't have time to get through their mailbox AND go looking for blokes - especially when they have several with much better profiles contacting them!
You need to stand out here - and for the right reasons.
And consider this. Yes, we're all here for our own pleasure, but what is likely to get someone's attention is what THEY can get out of a meet with you. In other words, appeal to their desires.
Nobody is going to be thinking 'Well, not sure what i'd get out of a meet with him, but I could certainly make his day' |
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