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over a year ago
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Hi there, I'm not new here, but I have only two meets, both some time ago. It seems very difficult.
I have decided to go one harder. I am now in a relationship, but can't get all I need at home, especially oral which has been taken off the table (though she still wants it from me).
I would like to fulfill my biggest fantasy of being with three women (or two of course), does anyone have any suggestions as to how I go about achieving this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm assuming that your partner doesn't know you're on here - judging by your comment on your profile about the need to be discrete.
Can't help thinking that you'll be getting even less at home if she ever finds out.
Of course, it's entirely your choice, but you're likely to discover that men cheating on their partners are less popular and so your options may be limited. |
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"Hi there, I'm not new here, but I have only two meets, both some time ago. It seems very difficult.
I have decided to go one harder. I am now in a relationship, but can't get all I need at home, especially oral which has been taken off the table (though she still wants it from me).
I would like to fulfill my biggest fantasy of being with three women (or two of course), does anyone have any suggestions as to how I go about achieving this?"
. Why not just hire three escorts . Why did you want three ladies and what do you propose to do with them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I guess you're right, on all accounts.
I should aim low, and I guess escorts would br the only way. Even one woman on here is difficult. I'm not sure how to find any escorts, if I choose to go that route.
Thank you all for replying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There probably are women out there who want the same as you but
1. it's finding them.
2. then t's finding out they wanna do that stuff with you.
Only way you definitely get to fulfil your own fanatasies is finding people who want to fulfil them, i'm guessing you haven't else you wouldn't have made this topic. The other way is to find someone who will perform for you, and it's likely you'd have to pay for this coz i don't know anyone who gets off on doing something for nothing. |
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"Hi there, I'm not new here, but I have only two meets, both some time ago. It seems very difficult.
I have decided to go one harder. I am now in a relationship, but can't get all I need at home, especially oral which has been taken off the table (though she still wants it from me).
I would like to fulfill my biggest fantasy of being with three women (or two of course), does anyone have any suggestions as to how I go about achieving this?"
I was at a party,and ended up with three women at one point  ..it was a mind blowing moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Escorts or a club like The Private Club in Birmingham that has paid girls would be your best option.
Unless you are a drop dead gorgeous adonis of a bloke you will struggle to get what you are looking for either on here or in club's.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Escorts or a club like The Private Club in Birmingham that has paid girls would be your best option.
Unless you are a drop dead gorgeous adonis of a bloke you will struggle to get what you are looking for either on here or in club's.
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I just checked out his profile because of what you just said. I reckon he might do alright at clubs actually. 
Check out the club section OP... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi there, I'm not new here, but I have only two meets, both some time ago. It seems very difficult.
I have decided to go one harder. I am now in a relationship, but can't get all I need at home, especially oral which has been taken off the table (though she still wants it from me).
I would like to fulfill my biggest fantasy of being with three women (or two of course), does anyone have any suggestions as to how I go about achieving this?"
So does your partner actually know you are on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No."
So you another guy who thinks cheating is the same as swinging?
Not judging, just simply asking the question.
At least you don't use the word 'honest' to describe yourself in your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No.
So you another guy who thinks cheating is the same as swinging?
Not judging, just simply asking the question.
At least you don't use the word 'honest' to describe yourself in your profile."
No, I they're not the same.
That depends on your definition of honest, if there's something to say, I'll say it. If nothing happens, there's nothing to say. We have already spoken at length about how things are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No.
So you another guy who thinks cheating is the same as swinging?
Not judging, just simply asking the question.
At least you don't use the word 'honest' to describe yourself in your profile.
No, I they're not the same.
That depends on your definition of honest, if there's something to say, I'll say it. If nothing happens, there's nothing to say. We have already spoken at length about how things are."
There aren't different definitions of honest.
If you were being totally honest,you would tell her you are on here.
Thing is, by trying to split the definition when no such difference exists you have given the impression that you change definitions to suit your personal wants. We would say needs, but nobody needs sex, they just want it. Nobody dies of not having sex, however your partner would probably have part of her die inside if she found out what you are doing.
It is a shame that you do not think enough of her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I am by no means disagreeing with you. I merely meant that if she asks I'll tell her.
And true, I won't die if I don't get that, I'm alive now, I think, so I guess that supports your statement.
I guess I should just deal with things differently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am by no means disagreeing with you. I merely meant that if she asks I'll tell her.
And true, I won't die if I don't get that, I'm alive now, I think, so I guess that supports your statement.
I guess I should just deal with things differently."
We know life isn't as easy as it should be but for all you know ahe may be as bored as you seem to be.
Maybe you should try talking.
Got to say though, we don't think cheats should be on this site. We know plenty are, but swinging isn't supposed to provide a place for people who want to cheat. There are other sites for that. |
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If she is bored I wish she'd tell me, we have talked many times, at length, and I make sure I am pulling my weight and giving my all. I'm nothing if not willing to put the work in. I just wish I could reap what I sow.
I was on here before we happened, I was directed here by a friend. I just thought I'd try again before giving up completely.
Anyway, thank you for your contribution to this conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If she is bored I wish she'd tell me, we have talked many times, at length, and I make sure I am pulling my weight and giving my all. I'm nothing if not willing to put the work in. I just wish I could reap what I sow.
I was on here before we happened, I was directed here by a friend. I just thought I'd try again before giving up completely.
Anyway, thank you for your contribution to this conversation."
Thank you also for a thought provoking conversation. We guess we have both seen this situation from a different direction.
We sincerely hope your life takes a good path. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess you're right, on all accounts.
I should aim low, and I guess escorts would br the only way. Even one woman on here is difficult. I'm not sure how to find any escorts, if I choose to go that route.
Thank you all for replying."
One woman on here is not difficult......but could be for someone cheating on partner.
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You have, at least been honest with the site about this.
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Perhaps now be honest with your partner. Show her your profile....maybe she could be one of the three? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I guess you're right, on all accounts.
I should aim low, and I guess escorts would br the only way. Even one woman on here is difficult. I'm not sure how to find any escorts, if I choose to go that route.
Thank you all for replying.
One woman on here is not difficult......but could be for someone cheating on partner.
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You have, at least been honest with the site about this.
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Perhaps now be honest with your partner. Show her your profile....maybe she could be one of the three?"
She did once bring another girl to my flat, but then changed her mind. We have talked about it since, and she has made it clear that she wouldn't do that.
Even what little I could get has been taken away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am by no means disagreeing with you. I merely meant that if she asks I'll tell her.
And true, I won't die if I don't get that, I'm alive now, I think, so I guess that supports your statement.
I guess I should just deal with things differently."
yupo....tell her and leave her....amazes me how people will open up to a forum yet cannot speak to the person sat there beside them....keyboard warriors that are gutless and deceitful... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess you're right, on all accounts.
I should aim low, and I guess escorts would br the only way. Even one woman on here is difficult. I'm not sure how to find any escorts, if I choose to go that route.
Thank you all for replying.
One woman on here is not difficult......but could be for someone cheating on partner.
.
You have, at least been honest with the site about this.
.
Perhaps now be honest with your partner. Show her your profile....maybe she could be one of the three?
She did once bring another girl to my flat, but then changed her mind. We have talked about it since, and she has made it clear that she wouldn't do that.
Even what little I could get has been taken away."
should you really be in a relationship if you think that little of your girlfriend.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am by no means disagreeing with you. I merely meant that if she asks I'll tell her.
And true, I won't die if I don't get that, I'm alive now, I think, so I guess that supports your statement.
I guess I should just deal with things differently.
We know life isn't as easy as it should be but for all you know ahe may be as bored as you seem to be.
Maybe you should try talking.
Got to say though, we don't think cheats should be on this site. We know plenty are, but swinging isn't supposed to provide a place for people who want to cheat. There are other sites for that."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Op. Bear in mind that the opinions expressed here are not representative of everyone. I would strongly suggest that anyone asking if your other half knows your on here should be ignored. Also those that ask you why you do what you do. It's your choice and you have to live with that. You will of course be judged, that's life. But never feel you have to justify yourself to anyone. You know the risks and you know the consequences of being discovered. You dont need anyone else to tell you. And get used to being called vile, scum and other words that have no place in a civilised society. But above all crack on and do what you have to do. Just dont post on the forum about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Op. Bear in mind that the opinions expressed here are not representative of everyone. I would strongly suggest that anyone asking if your other half knows your on here should be ignored. Also those that ask you why you do what you do. It's your choice and you have to live with that. You will of course be judged, that's life. But never feel you have to justify yourself to anyone. You know the risks and you know the consequences of being discovered. You dont need anyone else to tell you. And get used to being called vile, scum and other words that have no place in a civilised society. But above all crack on and do what you have to do. Just dont post on the forum about it."
I'm sorry you felt the need to post that, but thank you for doing so. |
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"I am by no means disagreeing with you. I merely meant that if she asks I'll tell her.
And true, I won't die if I don't get that, I'm alive now, I think, so I guess that supports your statement.
I guess I should just deal with things differently.
yupo....tell her and leave her....amazes me how people will open up to a forum yet cannot speak to the person sat there beside them....keyboard warriors that are gutless and deceitful..."
We have talked at length, a number of times. I have my reasons for my methods (I'd say actions, but I haven't done anything yet, and it's now obvious that I can't). |
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