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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, I've been on the site a while now but have never managed to delve in to this scene before.
As a single guy I am finding it pretty difficult to get interest from most people but would definitely enjoy a decent chat from anyone who maybe has some friendly, helpful advice?
Hope to hear from someone soon!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It won't come and fall at your feet, you have to do the legwork and put yourself out there.
Parties, social events and clubs are a good way to get yourself known. Admittedly, they're not for everyone and maybe a little intimidating but so is meeting someone 1-2-1 for the first time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's a good point, trouble is I usually have a lot on at the weekends and during the week I work pretty late.
It's difficult sorting out the logistics I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a good point, trouble is I usually have a lot on at the weekends and during the week I work pretty late.
It's difficult sorting out the logistics I guess."
Maybe sorting out your priorities might be a good start.
You want more meets, yet the effort needed at the weekends which would involve going to clubs take low priority.
Please don't say you are like a lot of young single guys on here who expect offers of sex to fall at your feet with the bare minimum of effort? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the OP....
I have found that it's NOT all about sex and getting as many conquests as possible, it's a lot more social than that, people are friendly, generally looking to chat and get to know one another, it's more like going to a friends house and having a few beers
Swinging is what you make it, for me it's a way of meeting people firstly, then if anything happens after then that's a bonus.
Hope this helps you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To the OP....
I have found that it's NOT all about sex and getting as many conquests as possible, it's a lot more social than that, people are friendly, generally looking to chat and get to know one another, it's more like going to a friends house and having a few beers
Swinging is what you make it, for me it's a way of meeting people firstly, then if anything happens after then that's a bonus.
Hope this helps you."
Excellent points made.
Swinging is a lifestyle, not just about casual sex.
Socialising is the key, however there seems a glut of single guys lately, some quite young, who think it is place to put up a couple of lines of a profile as an order list and expect loys and lots of sex.
This is Fabswingers, not Instantshag.com, but some seemed to get confused. |
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