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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trying to find a meet but failing epically please help/feedback"
do you want a meet for today? as that is how your profile looks....try adding a bit about you, other than you are hung....for most women that's an instant turn off  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry I'm not a cock I'm just new and not sure what I should say in my profile,I'm actually a nice young clean professional looking for some fun.hope you don't think I'm a cock x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are basically saying you are a huge cock and nothing else. As unique selling points go, it's not very unique.
Totally agree with this, if you are a cock then leave it as it is  "
I love the forums... Straight to the point banter x _oxy_minx your gorgeous x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I'm not a cock I'm just new and not sure what I should say in my profile,I'm actually a nice young clean professional looking for some fun.hope you don't think I'm a cock x"
you should have posted this on swinging help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trying to find a meet but failing epically please help/feedback"
Two sentences? Not terribly enticing ones at that. One grimacing photograph. And you are mystified at the lack of interest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trying to find a meet but failing epically please help/feedback
Have you tried looking down the back of your sofa bro? I find the weirdest shit down there."
so that's where our last dino/cock shot came from |
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"Trying to find a meet but failing epically please help/feedback
Have you tried looking down the back of your sofa bro? I find the weirdest shit down there.so that's where our last dino/cock shot came from "
LOL yes most of my photo props are discovered down there.  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"True yet some claim they need cock and are horny but just cock teasers lol"
Horny and needing cock quite often, willing to shag anything = never. Does that make me a cock teaser? Nope. A derogatory remark like that will have you on many peoples block list, shocking attitude towards women
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"My apologies I'm just getting used to all this,I will update the profile and hope that helps"
Don't apologise, we were all new once and not sure where to put posts.
I have moved this to the section it should be in ( Introductions and profile help )
Welcome to the forum and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I'm not a cock I'm just new and not sure what I should say in my profile,I'm actually a nice young clean professional looking for some fun.hope you don't think I'm a cock x"
Not sure what to say and yet this post alone tells everyone more about you than your profile currently does.
Try looking at a few profiles to get a general idea of the sort of language people use to describe themselves. What sorts of things they mention. What sorts of things you're into and what you have to offer.
Your profile is your advert. Your chance to sell yourself and you only get one chance to make a first impression.
"Effort in = reward out.
Looking at your profile, you're getting what is expected."
Naughty_Twosome is spot on here i'm afraid. |
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In addition to the advise given in this thread there are hundreds of threads in the forum offering profile advise. Read them and act on them.
The one photograph you currently have up is of such boor quality it's hardly worth having.
But the main advise I'd give you is don't ever start another thread like this one. It only makes you look insecure and unconfident and that won't attract anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"PS...you might need a bit more info on your profile....what you are looking for/ offering etc."
Hi Ruby, I have updated my profile now taking on-board your advise hope its more acceptable now x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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But the main advise I'd give you is don't ever start another thread like this one. It only makes you look insecure and unconfident and that won't attract anyone."
Not to everyone....I don't think there is anything wrong with asking for advice, especially if it helps them get more out of this. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"PS...you might need a bit more info on your profile....what you are looking for/ offering etc.
Hi Ruby, I have updated my profile now taking on-board your advise hope its more acceptable now x"
That looks a lot better....if you now take a few more pics hopefully it will bring you some meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That looks a lot better....if you now take a few more pics hopefully it will bring you some meets. "
Before you press the shutter button..............SMILE! A friendly face is more approachable than the miserable, axe murderer type expression |
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But the main advise I'd give you is don't ever start another thread like this one. It only makes you look insecure and unconfident and that won't attract anyone.
Not to everyone....I don't think there is anything wrong with asking for advice, especially if it helps them get more out of this."
Agree but if, like some have done, he starts another thread along similar lines to this in a few days or weeks time he really won't be doing himself any favours. That's what I was trying to tell him. |
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OP. The text is much better but the photo really needs to be changed.
On the text, and this my own personal opinion, others may tell you different, comments that say you are trustworthy, hygienic and will meet if you say you will are counter productive. All those things should be taken as read. The fact that you mention them at all actually brings them into question in a possible meets mind. I would remove those comments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the text, and this my own personal opinion, others may tell you different, comments that say you are trustworthy, hygienic and will meet if you say you will are counter productive. All those things should be taken as read. The fact that you mention them at all actually brings them into question in a possible meets mind. I would remove those comments."
I was thinking much the same. |
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