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What am I doing wrong?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been on here for a little while now and not really having much luck. Feel free to read my profile and give me a bit of feedback. I'm trying to remain positive as every now and again you can have a bit of decent banter on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing, mate. Single blokes on here just get completely ignored about 97% of the time, you've just got to keep trying until you message someone who doesn't just delete your message right away.
There isn't really much else we can do. Be prepared for people to take the piss on the forum though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing, mate. Single blokes on here just get completely ignored about 97% of the time, you've just got to keep trying until you message someone who doesn't just delete your message right away.
There isn't really much else we can do. Be prepared for people to take the piss on the forum though."
Nail on head . |
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"Been on here for a little while now and not really having much luck. Feel free to read my profile and give me a bit of feedback. I'm trying to remain positive as every now and again you can have a bit of decent banter on here. "
The problem is you have a penis.  fab is one big old cock fest and not much of a muff fest..there's about 30,000 cocks for every single pussy on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what are people looking for in an opening message? Im reluctant to send to much as it seems like a few have said 90% of the time you get ignored. "
Depends.
If i'm looking for a fuck right now then a 'wanna fuck' message might work if i fancy the guy. If i'm looking to chat then something interesting is needed, i tend to only chat with guys i'm hoping to meet though.
Just chat like you would irl really. |
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"So what are people looking for in an opening message? Im reluctant to send to much as it seems like a few have said 90% of the time you get ignored.
Depends.
If i'm looking for a fuck right now then a 'wanna fuck' message might work if i fancy the guy. If i'm looking to chat then something interesting is needed, i tend to only chat with guys i'm hoping to meet though.
Just chat like you would irl really."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any guy who says " i reply to everyone and expect the same" is an immediate no for me. But that's just my opinion. I also don't like your status so that would put me off. |
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"May I suggest just joining in on the forums & attend a couple of socials , I think this helps "
What i find with the `negative` guy threads is its a state of mind thing preventing them joining that circle of guys who do really well here..
If your game isnt working,look to change it rather than moan about it.
You can even message the other guys who ARE doing well,asking for tips and advise..The nice ones will be only too glad to help.
Thats probably why they do well here
( think Great Attitude and Long term
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing mate it's just how it is there are thousands of us and we will be deleted ignored or blocked 99%of the time. This is my third time back and luckily found someone but it's taken 2 years keep going maybe more pics I know a lot of people only look at pictures. Chin up mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what are people looking for in an opening message? Im reluctant to send to much as it seems like a few have said 90% of the time you get ignored. "
Maybe the fact you can;t be bothered to send decent messages is where you are going wrong? Likewise the bit about winking comes across as lazy
As for what you are doing wrong, negative status, negative(ish) first paragraph - it's not really appealing is it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing, mate. Single blokes on here just get completely ignored about 97% of the time, you've just got to keep trying until you message someone who doesn't just delete your message right away.
There isn't really much else we can do. Be prepared for people to take the piss on the forum though.
Nail on head ."
OP plenty of men do well. Your best advise would not be to listen to posts like this that are just bitter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks bi I'm trying not to come across negative, I a little naive maybe but I'm positive by nature just advice gathering maybe and by posting on here I am getting good feedback from guys as well as lady's, Thanks for the advice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing, mate. Single blokes on here just get completely ignored about 97% of the time, you've just got to keep trying until you message someone who doesn't just delete your message right away.
There isn't really much else we can do. Be prepared for people to take the piss on the forum though.
Nail on head .
OP plenty of men do well. Your best advise would not be to listen to posts like this that are just bitter"
This is a very reasoned post - I do well here, as do loads of other guys. Be creative when you write, and make it unique and relevant to the woman you're contacting. Be funny but not a smartass, and make reference to something they have in their profile to show you've actually read it. Be interested and interesting - it would work in a pub, it works here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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profiles good enough, whats really important is you are taking advice/criticism well...and adapting to it.
Though...to be honest I rarely use the forum as a guideline for profile content(especially pics wise)..I'm never that keen on "I have a uniform" type profiles(glad you dont mention this) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have also been on here for a while and have the same issue, people clearly meet up on here often???? 
With no pics i wouldn't be interested. "
We just have friend only pics? This is a bad idea then?
Just from work point of veiw wouldn't post pics for all to see
Thanks for the comment thou |
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