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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is saturated with single guy and the genuine ones can't get a look in? Where are all the sexy swingers"
What makes you think all the other guys aren't genuine compared to yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lots of men have similar complaints about 'genuine' men...are you able to point out to us poor gullible women some tell tale signs?
you've had several meets in 2 months....why are you complaining? |
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"Just from speaking to other users, the general consensus is time wasters and photo collectors"
This makes the genuine ones more likely to be successful surely. We look for single men and consider that the ones who have no intention of ever meeting throw the genuine ones into sharp relief. |
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"I'm not calling anyone gullible or saying I'm doing it right or wrong was mearly pointing out what I had been told and found for myself"
Our experience is different but it does seem to be a popular opinion that the bad apples are spoiling the whole barrel. I'm not being argumentative but how have you found this out? |
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"This site is saturated with single guy and the genuine ones can't get a look in? Where are all the sexy swingers"
. It does not matter that it is saturated . It is a profile , pictures and attitude that sells yourself . You don't have to worry about other members profiles , it is up to you to market yourself effectively .
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By (user no longer on site)
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This site is what you make it - effort in = meetings and good times. There's no secret formula, and there's no point in fretting about the things you can't change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We couldnt agree with you more op,out of 152 profile views yesterday,all but one was from a cpl.You look at the meets section its all men, the updates section is all men,if it carries on going on like this it will be a male only site.Oh and if you fancy a club night etc its usually swarming with men there as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's a still saw thanks by the way, I found it out through conversations with other more experienced swingers/users. Single guys seem to find it hard as new couples/single women are inundated with messages from the abundance of single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a still saw thanks by the way, I found it out through conversations with other more experienced swingers/users. Single guys seem to find it hard as new couples/single women are inundated with messages from the abundance of single guys"
Oooops, silly me! What's it called when its moving?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a still saw thanks by the way, I found it out through conversations with other more experienced swingers/users. Single guys seem to find it hard as new couples/single women are inundated with messages from the abundance of single guys"
But that's GREAT! It means we have choice! I'd rather have LOADS of men than barely any. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a still saw thanks by the way, I found it out through conversations with other more experienced swingers/users. Single guys seem to find it hard as new couples/single women are inundated with messages from the abundance of single guys
But that's GREAT! It means we have choice! I'd rather have LOADS of men than barely any."
yea it's Great for the women no so much for the guys ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a still saw thanks by the way, I found it out through conversations with other more experienced swingers/users. Single guys seem to find it hard as new couples/single women are inundated with messages from the abundance of single guys
But that's GREAT! It means we have choice! I'd rather have LOADS of men than barely any. yea it's Great for the women no so much for the guys ha "
If there wasn't much choice I'm fairly sure all the women would fuck off. So yeah, it is good for the guys... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not calling anyone gullible or saying I'm doing it right or wrong was mearly pointing out what I had been told and found for myself
Our experience is different but it does seem to be a popular opinion that the bad apples are spoiling the whole barrel. I'm not being argumentative but how have you found this out?"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just from speaking to other users, the general consensus is time wasters and photo collectors
This makes the genuine ones more likely to be successful surely. We look for single men and consider that the ones who have no intention of ever meeting throw the genuine ones into sharp relief."
This!
I find I have never had any problems. The "fakes" (or actually wannabes) are easy to spot.
OP does look the part to be fair. |
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"This site is saturated with single guy and the genuine ones can't get a look in? Where are all the sexy swingers"
I always get a look in, till I'm spotted with my binoculars & then I have to leg it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not calling anyone gullible or saying I'm doing it right or wrong was mearly pointing out what I had been told and found for myself
Our experience is different but it does seem to be a popular opinion that the bad apples are spoiling the whole barrel. I'm not being argumentative but how have you found this out?"
Personally when I was on here as a single male I found that the crap ones do you a favour, it really isn't that difficult to stand out. I was once told by a single female that roughly 90% of unsolicited messages weren't worth replying to and of those 10% usually half of the second messages were enough to lose interest.
A half decent profile, decent pictures and a well crafted message makes you stand out from the crowd. But it's much easier to blame others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not calling anyone gullible or saying I'm doing it right or wrong was mearly pointing out what I had been told and found for myself
Our experience is different but it does seem to be a popular opinion that the bad apples are spoiling the whole barrel. I'm not being argumentative but how have you found this out?
Personally when I was on here as a single male I found that the crap ones do you a favour, it really isn't that difficult to stand out. I was once told by a single female that roughly 90% of unsolicited messages weren't worth replying to and of those 10% usually half of the second messages were enough to lose interest.
A half decent profile, decent pictures and a well crafted message makes you stand out from the crowd. But it's much easier to blame others"
I suspect it depends what you're looking for. The vast majority of messages I get aren't suitable for what I'm looking for - I guess over 99.5%. But that's the same on any other dating site, slightly lower on the fetish sites I use. |
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Our cynicism levels have risen since joining here, what we felt were dead-cert genuine guys have let us down (mainly no-shows) but we have met some fantastic guys, so I'd concur with earlier viewpoint that the saturation level does make the genuinely impressive genuine ones stand out. Now I've said that, I bet neither of the guys we are meeting tomorrow or Weds will show up....  (they will!) |
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