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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im in the same situation  not sure what couples or single females want???
i mean i know we are all here for one reason but i just dont know what to do anymore.
even local females and couples seem to be...either not interested or just ignore me help please
i have no reviews...does this matter???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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varifications help... but not a page full!! getting well known in the forum and chat rooms works wonders, just remember your manners and soon enough you will be getting meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok here goes. And this is by the way of advice and not a dig or accusation incase others see it as such.
One of your pics has got the edges of a child, implying rightly or wrongly that you are not single. And word discreet says that you are attached as well. This may not be true but this may put some people off. From what I have gathered the general opinion is that most swingers prefer to know if you are attached and playing away so they can decide if they want to play with someone who is. Informed choice seems to be the preference.
Verifications do help but only so far as they prove that you are who you say you are. Everyones perception of what is good and not good is different.
Some people like a bit more information about you on the profile. There are far more males that females on the site and you will need to find a way of making yourself stand out.
Hope this helps, and that you find your fun.
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By *eizvollWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok here goes. And this is by the way of advice and not a dig or accusation incase others see it as such.
One of your pics has got the edges of a child, implying rightly or wrongly that you are not single. And word discreet says that you are attached as well. This may not be true but this may put some people off. From what I have gathered the general opinion is that most swingers prefer to know if you are attached and playing away so they can decide if they want to play with someone who is. Informed choice seems to be the preference. "
To be fair, the line on his profile that says 'single dad' should sort that out, although I do agree with your other points. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks all, will take your advice on board and see what happens.
am not to everyone's tastes but thought i would have had a few admirers by now to be honest i have more luck on the social networking sites than i do here. lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok...your profile is generic and bland!
There is nothing that makes you stand out from the other single men on site I'm afraid. Using standard phrases like "looking for like minded women" only works if the women know what you like and want otherwise it's meaningless!
You are a good looking man but that's not enough as you've found. Sell yourself, don't be shy: confident men are alluring!
Good luck! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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We are all different and are all looking for different things. What puts off one person won't the next person....( proves it a bit on this thread as we would never be wary of anyone who said they like discretion, as we are not a single male but we like to mention it on our profile too )....so it is just a case of touching lucky that you are mailing people who are going to be attracted to your profile.
Personally we like upbeat profiles, can't stand negativity or all shouty profiles ,maybe have more of what you are looking and hoping for.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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your right there being an attractive fella has no real influence here. suppose i better get me thinking cap on. see how i can improve me profile to make it more attractive for someone that does like me pictures |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yes have taken the said pic away and replaced it. added a few bits probably not there yet may take some time to get it just right to attract some interest |
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