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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been here for a while now and surprisingly I've had no meets. Shocking cos I find a lot of women when I'm out so why are they so reluctant here. I'm beginning to think it's the colour of my skin that turns them down. They take me as a guy who I'm not when I'm mixed coloured  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Been here for a while now and surprisingly I've had no meets. Shocking cos I find a lot of women when I'm out so why are they so reluctant here. I'm beginning to think it's the colour of my skin that turns them down. They take me as a guy who I'm not when I'm mixed coloured "
it could be that.... but its really easy to blame the thing that leaves you blameless.....
it could be nothing to do with that at all... it could be what you are typing, how you are coming agree, you may have said something that was an instant turn off....
there are many avenues out there.... but i think you made the mistake of "well i can pull on a random saturday night... so i should be able to pull here... right????"
a lot of it may be to do with the mindset.... because if that is whats coming across (a sense of entitlement) then that may also be a reason....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why the hell do people keep saying this?
Would you go around randomly doing in real life? No, because you would look a prize idiot.
Go to a
Club
Social
Anywhere but writing this, it looks needy and unattractive.
Rant over 
Her |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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the avenues are there......let me give you an example...
you live in leeds and in a way I envy you
york, sheffield, bradford, wakefield.....
you say you have been here for a while.... all of those towns/citys are not that far from leeds... all of them hold socials on a regular basis....
how many doors would that open? the site gives you the chances to open avenues... how many have you taken advantage off! |
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"Been here for a while now and surprisingly I've had no meets. Shocking cos I find a lot of women when I'm out so why are they so reluctant here. I'm beginning to think it's the colour of my skin that turns them down. They take me as a guy who I'm not when I'm mixed coloured
it could be that.... but its really easy to blame the thing that leaves you blameless.....
it could be nothing to do with that at all... it could be what you are typing, how you are coming agree, you may have said something that was an instant turn off....
there are many avenues out there.... but i think you made the mistake of "well i can pull on a random saturday night... so i should be able to pull here... right????"
a lot of it may be to do with the mindset.... because if that is whats coming across (a sense of entitlement) then that may also be a reason....
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And it out of order to play the race card. Loads of women are specifically looking for non-White guys to join in |
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Like Fabio said - it's all too simple and easy to blame something you have no control over (your skin colour) as a reason for no meets. It neatly negates any personal responsibility.
If it's NOT your skin colour.....what else could it be?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its easy, fab is a womans world, the supply and demand aint there for men unless your willing travel 200 miles to them lol  "
Lmao that's funny is it really that bad?? ;p |
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"Its easy, fab is a womans world, the supply and demand aint there for men unless your willing travel 200 miles to them lol
Lmao that's funny is it really that bad?? ;p "
He's exaggerating - it's 180 miles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its easy, fab is a womans world, the supply and demand aint there for men unless your willing travel 200 miles to them lol
Lmao that's funny is it really that bad?? ;p "
Yes it is, all my intersts comes form Manchester or newcasle, north England. I might need to relocate lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile kinda reads bad,
Aside from being hard to read as not spaced out its very me me me and a little aggressive
Your kinda failing the "is he going to be a problem afterwards" question all 'sexy ladies' (what r u an mnm) will ask themselves
Maybe wrong but that's the impression I got from reading it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lmao that's funny is it really that bad?? ;p Yes it is, all my intersts comes form Manchester or newcasle, north England. I might need to relocate lol "
Ha ha follow the yellow brick road ... |
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"Been here for a while now and surprisingly I've had no meets. Shocking cos I find a lot of women when I'm out so why are they so reluctant here. I'm beginning to think it's the colour of my skin that turns them down. They take me as a guy who I'm not when I'm mixed coloured
it could be that.... but its really easy to blame the thing that leaves you blameless.....
it could be nothing to do with that at all... it could be what you are typing, how you are coming agree, you may have said something that was an instant turn off....
there are many avenues out there.... but i think you made the mistake of "well i can pull on a random saturday night... so i should be able to pull here... right????"
a lot of it may be to do with the mindset.... because if that is whats coming across (a sense of entitlement) then that may also be a reason....
And it out of order to play the race card. Loads of women are specifically looking for non-White guys to join in"
Exactly!
More people say BBC only than say white only. That is definitely not the reason you're not getting meets.
From my limited experience of Leeds I'd say the women for the most part don't discriminate vs black guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lmao that's funny is it really that bad?? ;p Yes it is, all my intersts comes form Manchester or newcasle, north England. I might need to relocate lol
Ha ha follow the yellow brick road ..."
lol yes I will, might meet tin man on the way and the lion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ha ha follow the yellow brick road ...lol yes I will, might meet tin man on the way and the lion "
Aww don't leave out the poor scarecrow ! He'll be sad . 
I seem to be going off on a tangent from the fella 's thread so better head off to the gym.
To the OP *what the lovely people so far have said young man* and patience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ha ha follow the yellow brick road ...lol yes I will, might meet tin man on the way and the lion
Aww don't leave out the poor scarecrow ! He'll be sad .
I seem to be going off on a tangent from the fella 's thread so better head off to the gym.
To the OP *what the lovely people so far have said young man* and patience. "
Yes and we wont forget scarecrow, have fun in the gym x. |
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