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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi!
New to the site but not quite new to the scene. Apparently I have an uncanny knack for making women squirt, and I greatly enjoy watching a lady in the throes of a good sheet-clutching squirting orgasm. I would like to share this skill with couples who want to experience what it is like.
I am looking for couples with strong relationships to work with. I have found that women, beautiful creatures that they are, are far more likely to squirt when comfortable. Arousal is great, but comfort is key!
I'll work with the other man to help him perfect the technique that is right for the lady, where it goes from there is up to the couple. I can be as hands on or hands off as you like.
Polite, respectful, well educated AND well endowed, face pics and social meet upon request. Daytime only, unfortunately, as I am a single dad with kids the workday is my only "free" (as in money) time (very flexible hours... Lucky me).
Being new here I shan't be offended if you're put off by the lack of verifications, but I am happy to chat so do consider getting in touch 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have read quite a few threads on this subject and the only thing that is a common theme is that squirting does not equal an orgasm."
This, just another fad that porn would have us believe that good sex won't happen without a squirter. Zzzzzzzzzzz |
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"You do realise that not every woman actually wants the whole squirting experience? It's not a pre-requisite to great sex."
Oh certainly! I never meant to impy (and don't believe that I stated...) that it was "required". I find it to be something that is enabled by and enhanced greatly by orgasms of other types, however. Something to be integrated into an experience, and (for some, at least) to add to it. Not the sole focus |
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"This, just another fad that porn would have us believe that good sex won't happen without a squirter. Zzzzzzzzzzz"
I certainly don't consider it a fad, nor even a requisite component of great sex. It is however something different that can be added to the mix, no different (nor less valuable) than any other form of sexual stimulation - just a bit less common. I happen to think it is particularly fun, frosting on the cake if you will, and there are some women I know who want very much to experience it and see for themselves. That is exactly what I'd like to help with, no more, no less.
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"I have read quite a few threads on this subject and the only thing that is a common theme is that squirting does not equal an orgasm."
Fair point.
I have heard this as well but have yet to encounter a situation where the two did not coincide. However, absence of evidence is not evidence of absence; I don't doubt that for some - maybe even most - this may be true.
One person did pm me to tell me his partner could - and I quote- "squirt all night" without a single orgasm. So there you go.
In my experience, which has only seen the two events coincide, I have been told it is a unique sensation. Variety is the spice and all that. |
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"I have read quite a few threads on this subject and the only thing that is a common theme is that squirting does not equal an orgasm.
Fair point.
I have heard this as well but have yet to encounter a situation where the two did not coincide. However, absence of evidence is not evidence of absence; I don't doubt that for some - maybe even most - this may be true.
One person did pm me to tell me his partner could - and I quote- "squirt all night" without a single orgasm. So there you go.
In my experience, which has only seen the two events coincide, I have been told it is a unique sensation. Variety is the spice and all that."
Yes variety is the spice .
The title of your thread might account for the somewhat negative reaction you're getting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi!
New to the site but not quite new to the scene. Apparently I have an uncanny knack for making women squirt, and I greatly enjoy watching a lady in the throes of a good sheet-clutching squirting orgasm. I would like to share this skill with couples who want to experience what it is like.
I am looking for couples with strong relationships to work with. I have found that women, beautiful creatures that they are, are far more likely to squirt when comfortable. Arousal is great, but comfort is key!
I'll work with the other man to help him perfect the technique that is right for the lady, where it goes from there is up to the couple. I can be as hands on or hands off as you like.
Polite, respectful, well educated AND well endowed, face pics and social meet upon request. Daytime only, unfortunately, as I am a single dad with kids the workday is my only "free" (as in money) time (very flexible hours... Lucky me).
Being new here I shan't be offended if you're put off by the lack of verifications, but I am happy to chat so do consider getting in touch
Cheers!"
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have only squirted twice and that wasn't with an orgasm either time, in fact didn't even realise it was happening until we were both wet. Anyway it's not something I'd like to happen again.
I do wonder why a lot of guys seem to think that making a woman squirt is such a good thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Reading this has made me think maybe I shouldn't even mention it anymore. For a long time I thought it was just a myth, even though I'd seen it in videos I didn't believe it was real. Until one girl showed me how to do it. Since then I've made almost every girl squirt. I have to say I love it but it's not something I'm going to be upset about if it doesn't happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Helping you make your partner squirt"
So would I be making her squirt under your expert guidance or would you be doing it? Or would it be some sort of squirt management race between us? Oddly enough, squirting has not even cropped up in any conversation between us. I wonder if I'm letting her down. God, I'm starting to feel really inadequate now. I bow to your superior knowledge. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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""Helping you make your partner squirt"
So would I be making her squirt under your expert guidance or would you be doing it? Or would it be some sort of squirt management race between us? Oddly enough, squirting has not even cropped up in any conversation between us. I wonder if I'm letting her down. God, I'm starting to feel really inadequate now. I bow to your superior knowledge."
Thank you for your feedback on tone, as someone else noted earlier perhaps not the best subject line to start with. I shall adapt accordingly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Magic tongue in penge for oral stimulation in 69'  x"
Have you got a time machine??! As for squirting, never done it, not really interested. Had a couple of blokes try but they were just poking around not really doing much and I got bored!! |
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"I have only squirted twice and that wasn't with an orgasm either time, in fact didn't even realise it was happening until we were both wet. Anyway it's not something I'd like to happen again."
I can appreciate that. I've been with one woman who said it was actually uncomfortable for her, physically; obviously, I stopped immediately and let it be. There seems to be a fairly broad range of experiences for women.
"I do wonder why a lot of guys seem to think that making a woman squirt is such a good thing "
For me, it's another thing to throw into the mixmix that I personally find very hot. It gives me a sense of visceral feedback, which I enjoy. Women I have spoken to tell me that they enjoy being able to do different things to their men to produce a reaction, like finding a certain spot that makes him squirm or being able to get him off with their hands. One told me how much she liked making her men come fast, because it gave her a sense of empowerment and sexual irresistibility. I don't think men are so different from women in this respect.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not difficult to do"
A friend of mine who wants to try but hasn't been able to would disagree strongly with this. Her husband "knows the trick", but it doesn't work for her.
"and not sexual arousal."
My experience so far has not matched this, but there's several comments to this general theme and I am not a lady, so I do believe that for some (maybe most) women this is true. Perhaps I have been lucky.
"You could make any woman squirt once you know the trick. "
Like I said just above, I personally know a woman for whom this is not true; that's not a huge sample size so again maybe you are correct for some percentage of the population. I know it bothers her that she hasn't been able to (which is unfortunate, as it shouldn't be a stressful thing). Anyhow. Fair points. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Reading this has made me think maybe I shouldn't even mention it anymore."
I'm not taking it personally. Apparently a touchy subject though, granted that! And I have a poor subject line apparently, so maybe I am part of the problem. 
"For a long time I thought it was just a myth, even though I'd seen it in videos I didn't believe it was real. Until one girl showed me how to do it. Since then I've made almost every girl squirt."
Mostly the same for me. I was in bed with a lovely lady and we discovered it together; we experimented with it a lot to find things that worked and that didn't, positions that were more and less favorable, even different combinations of orgasms that led to different scales of it. I believe there is much more nuance to this than traditionally held; like many things in life there appears to a broad range of possible outcomes.
"I have to say I love it but it's not something I'm going to be upset about if it doesn't happen. "
That is definitely the right attitude. Cheers to that. Shouldn't be a pressure thing, just fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am looking for couples with strong relationships to work with. I have found that women, beautiful creatures that they are, are far more likely to squirt when comfortable. Arousal is great, but comfort is key!
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Oh... I'm a creature? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have squirted a couple of times now, with two different men, and many more have tried to make me (not always at my request) but I didn't orgasm either time and just felt I had lost control.
It wasn't an entirely unpleasant experience as I love being finger fucked, but I didn't particularly get pleasure from the squirting sensation, more the act leading up to it, and I wouldn't want to squirt every time a man entered me as it would ruin the mattress and bedding as well as a good experience.
Its a party trick and nothing more. Give me an orgasm any day!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am looking for couples with strong relationships to work with. I have found that women, beautiful creatures that they are, are far more likely to squirt when comfortable. Arousal is great, but comfort is key!
Oh... I'm a creature?"
We are all gods creatures allegedly...some more creature features than others hehe |
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"I am looking for couples with strong relationships to work with. I have found that women, beautiful creatures that they are, are far more likely to squirt when comfortable. Arousal is great, but comfort is key!
Oh... I'm a creature?"
I think the op himself has realised that he seriously misjudged the tone and wording of his post. I'm pretty sure he expected a quite different reaction. |
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"I am looking for couples with strong relationships to work with. I have found that women, beautiful creatures that they are, are far more likely to squirt when comfortable. Arousal is great, but comfort is key!
Oh... I'm a creature?
We are all gods creatures allegedly...some more creature features than others hehe "
Indeed, I intended no offense. I think femininity is beautiful, and intended to convey this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" I think the op himself has realised that he seriously misjudged the tone and wording of his post. I'm pretty sure he expected a quite different reaction."
Misjudged definitely, but actually I expected a non-response, so there's a bright point
We all make mistakes, but I like to think that we can grow from them. This was my first post ever to explire the topic, I've learned quite a bit just from it, and I'll do a better job with my phrasing next time as a result. Thank you for all the comments so far.
Have a great day, folks! |
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"I am looking for couples with strong relationships to work with. I have found that women, beautiful creatures that they are, are far more likely to squirt when comfortable. Arousal is great, but comfort is key!
Oh... I'm a creature?
We are all gods creatures allegedly...some more creature features than others hehe
Indeed, I intended no offense. I think femininity is beautiful, and intended to convey this."
I don't wish to be harsh but to me you have conveyed the impression that you feel that men are in charge of a woman's sexuality and we are all just waiting for our partners to find out from another man how to give us pleasure. Your title, your reference to us as beautiful creatures as if we're mythological rather than real flesh and blood sexual beings all come across to me at least as patronising.
I'm sure you didn't mean it that way and your intention was to spread the word |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Indeed, I intended no offense. I think femininity is beautiful, and intended to convey this."
So creature has two different meanings:
- An animal, other than a human.
- A person under the control of another.
I suspect you don't mean that women aren't human. So that means what you said was that they are people who are under the control of another. That combined with 'offering' to teach women and their partners how to squirt... it doesn't really paint a very favourable story about how you view women.
It would grate less if I wasn't told every day - especially on this site - how I could do sex and my sexuality 'better'. |
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"You do realise that not every woman actually wants the whole squirting experience? It's not a pre-requisite to great sex."
It is not an orgasm...would rather a guy give give me a great orgasm than try and poke around inside me trying to make me pee...lmao |
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"You do realise that not every woman actually wants the whole squirting experience? It's not a pre-requisite to great sex.
It is not an orgasm...would rather a guy give give me a great orgasm than try and poke around inside me trying to make me pee...lmao"
Yes, this too. Whenever guys (who are convinced that they can do it everytime) try to make me squirt they seem to pound away with their fingers on the front wall of my vagina like a fucking jackhammer.
Ouch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have read quite a few threads on this subject and the only thing that is a common theme is that squirting does not equal an orgasm.
This, just another fad that porn would have us believe that good sex won't happen without a squirter. Zzzzzzzzzzz"
...exactly....could squirt if I wanted to very easily...but don't like the idea of pissing everywhere... |
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"I have squirted a couple of times now, with two different men, and many more have tried to make me (not always at my request) but I didn't orgasm either time and just felt I had lost control.
It wasn't an entirely unpleasant experience as I love being finger fucked, but I didn't particularly get pleasure from the squirting sensation, more the act leading up to it, and I wouldn't want to squirt every time a man entered me as it would ruin the mattress and bedding as well as a good experience.
Its a party trick and nothing more. Give me an orgasm any day!
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Allelujah! Well said x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have read quite a few threads on this subject and the only thing that is a common theme is that squirting does not equal an orgasm.
Fair point.
I have heard this as well but have yet to encounter a situation where the two did not coincide. However, absence of evidence is not evidence of absence; I don't doubt that for some - maybe even most - this may be true.
One person did pm me to tell me his partner could - and I quote- "squirt all night" without a single orgasm. So there you go.
In my experience, which has only seen the two events coincide, I have been told it is a unique sensation. Variety is the spice and all that."
How do you know the woman wasn't faking the orgasm? |
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"I have only squirted twice and that wasn't with an orgasm either time, in fact didn't even realise it was happening until we were both wet. Anyway it's not something I'd like to happen again.
I do wonder why a lot of guys seem to think that making a woman squirt is such a good thing "
Ego? The amount of guys who are chuffed when they have made me squirt. Until I tell them I'd rather have an orgasm.  |
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I sometimes gush and sometimes squirt, never had done before me bf but now find it very easy. He has told me what the technique is, even discussed it with a woman I was with, but not all guys who know 'the trick' advertise their services, some just get on with it. For me it was partly a mental thing, partly him listening to what I knew worked with my body and some time. Now it happens all the time. Pepper |
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"I have only squirted twice and that wasn't with an orgasm either time, in fact didn't even realise it was happening until we were both wet. Anyway it's not something I'd like to happen again.
I do wonder why a lot of guys seem to think that making a woman squirt is such a good thing
Ego? The amount of guys who are chuffed when they have made me squirt. Until I tell them I'd rather have an orgasm. "
Give me an orgasm any day. For me I don't enjoy squirting/gushing or what ever it is.
And yes it probably is an ego thing for guys |
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"I have only squirted twice and that wasn't with an orgasm either time, in fact didn't even realise it was happening until we were both wet. Anyway it's not something I'd like to happen again.
I do wonder why a lot of guys seem to think that making a woman squirt is such a good thing
Ego? The amount of guys who are chuffed when they have made me squirt. Until I tell them I'd rather have an orgasm. "
i won't let guys make me squirt ha ha....will make my pussy too tight and they end up getting cramp in their fingers trying ha ha.... |
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"I have only squirted twice and that wasn't with an orgasm either time, in fact didn't even realise it was happening until we were both wet. Anyway it's not something I'd like to happen again.
I do wonder why a lot of guys seem to think that making a woman squirt is such a good thing
Ego? The amount of guys who are chuffed when they have made me squirt. Until I tell them I'd rather have an orgasm.
i won't let guys make me squirt ha ha....will make my pussy too tight and they end up getting cramp in their fingers trying ha ha...."
Mine pushes whatever is in there out, when I squirt, not always the most comfortable feeling, just before the release, and also learning to keep it under some control as for the first few months it was non-stop for a couple of hours, even in clubs they had to go round behind me with a mop and bucket. Nope, it was not pies because it tasted different, but I can do water sports too. Oh, where is that man when I need him? |
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"You do realise that not every woman actually wants the whole squirting experience? It's not a pre-requisite to great sex.
It is not an orgasm...would rather a guy give give me a great orgasm than try and poke around inside me trying to make me pee...lmao"
I'd rather make a women orgasm than squirt any day. The sound & actions of a women cumming is the best sound in the world. |
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