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Another no show/let down

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after playin it safe n camming n chatting on fone with a female who in all honesty I thought was genuinely up for our meet she didn't show to our social meet for a coffee n get u know u more chat , wtf why do they do this n get ur hopes up? Is it so bad to get to know one another n chat about what u like n want n see if u both connect? She has now blocked me , anyone else had these probs or is it just me??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes happens to me most of the time too. I have found out that most just wanna "chat" about sex lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes happens to me most of the time too. I have found out that most just wanna "chat" about sex lol. "
it's so annoying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes happens to me most of the time too. I have found out that most just wanna "chat" about sex lol. it's so annoying

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Yes it is. I gues its about to them out to those that do meet, takes time tho.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's pretty rotten, especially after the cam and speaking on the phone.

Maybe the reality of a real meet scared her off. There are some who get off on the thrill of the chase and the fantasy of meeting but when it comes down to actually being face to face....................

Don't judge too harshly without knowing why she decided to stand you up

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That's pretty rotten, especially after the cam and speaking on the phone.

Don't judge too harshly without knowing why she decided to stand you up"
thank u for ur reply I'll take this advice

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM) over a year ago

Loughborough

Well, whenever I have agreed a meet, I turn up on time, ready willing and able, with a great big smile, and ready to play. Punctual, reliable, dependable.

So any time you need some company,either daytime or evenings too, then do message me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well, whenever I have agreed a meet, I turn up on time, ready willing and able, with a great big smile, and ready to play. Punctual, reliable, dependable.

So any time you need some company,either daytime or evenings too, then do message me!

"
every cloud

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had about 10 no shows last year. Its maddening but part of fab. Im sure many folk will think said woman is mad and would crave some time with you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had about 3 no shows since January

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Given what you've said I think you'd done everything to mitigate this not happening,

If there was a genuine reason I don't get why the other person would block you.

Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have had about 3 no shows since January

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there loss!

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By *untimes6969Man over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You've done all the right things, maybe get them on the phone too!

It's all about preparation, preparation, preparation!!

Dare I give myself the 'kiss of death' - no no shows here!

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's how the story goes on here. Hardly surprising. Some profiles have even disappeared afterwards. Best not to expend time pondering such perfidies or the characters that perpetrate them. Calls, camming,checking verifications maybe some handy tools but you can't really tell who would turn up and who wouldn't until you see or don't see 'em

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So after playin it safe n camming n chatting on fone with a female who in all honesty I thought was genuinely up for our meet she didn't show to our social meet for a coffee n get u know u more chat , wtf why do they do this n get ur hopes up? Is it so bad to get to know one another n chat about what u like n want n see if u both connect? She has now blocked me , anyone else had these probs or is it just me??

Perhaps try and text her and ask why she backed out. She have a genuine reason. If she doesn`t respond, then just move on. Not worth worrying about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are an awful lot of time wasting women on here. They're normally going through the process of organising a meet as part of their little wank fantasy. Sad but not uncommon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't get to down about, having spoken to quite a few others on fab it seems this site is fast becoming more and more known for time wasters and no showers than it is for genuine swingers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not actually had a no show on the day but had lots of let downs either on the day or the day before..3 this weekend

Then I come on the forums and there's usually at least 2 threads with a single man moaning he can't get a meet..really f*cks me off!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does our head in,whats wrong with a message to say sorry cant make it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mabe it's your selection that letting you down, we have had one single guy no show in a year and on my single male profile one in 3 years.

Perhaps you should try a organised social.

Do you always swap phone numbers and chat before a meet?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Yes happens to me most of the time too. I have found out that most just wanna "chat" about sex lol. "

wanna f**k?

how do you like it?

oh, it is soooo big

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

wanna fuck ?

(joking)

seriously though ive tried it both ways one doing all the chit chat and what not then the day before they said they couldn't make it and left the site. the next was something arranged on the quick and they just didn't show at all. its very frustrating and as a younger male its hard to get your foot in the door on hear aswell. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never had a no show thus far but I've had people (outside of fabworld) cancel dates etc.

my philosophy is delete and move on. I find it hard to get emotionally attached so for me it's delete and door closed.

Just keep your head up OP. Not all users are like that. As you can see they're are users who will always support you and some who won't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Given what you've said I think you'd done everything to mitigate this not happening,

If there was a genuine reason I don't get why the other person would block you.

Block and move on.

This...and report her too

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman over a year ago

birmingham

From the other perspective,,, when I first started playing I chatted to a guy, we spoke on the phone and arranged to meet,,,, on the day I was so nervous I spent most of the day on the loo,,, tmi,,, in the end I was a no show and felt so bad, so guilty,, I've never ever done it again,,, so if it happens to me I can understand why,, still it makes me grrrrr but I do understand.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had this last weekend with a couple chatting all week sending pics etc I thought they was really up for a meet then an hour before they were due they cancelled on me had one msg from them since why waste my time?

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By *ack Genuine BullMan over a year ago

Loughborough

Well, now......

I am 100% genuine and reliable, punctual and dependable.

If I have a meet I turn up on time, shower fresh, nicely dressed, with a big smile on my face and ready to play.

A nice friendly chap who is respectful, playful, uninhibited and eager to please.

So next time you would like to meet somebody new, please do send me a message, and I will be there!

Not difficult is it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I had this last weekend with a couple chatting all week sending pics etc I thought they was really up for a meet then an hour before they were due they cancelled on me had one msg from them since why waste my time? "

Why waste ur time indeed.. Think there are far too many time wasters on here, good luck for ur next meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes happens to me most of the time too. I have found out that most just wanna "chat" about sex lol.

wanna f**k?

how do you like it?

oh, it is soooo big

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Given what you've said I think you'd done everything to mitigate this not happening,

If there was a genuine reason I don't get why the other person would block you.

Block and move on.

This...and report her too"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does our head in,whats wrong with a message to say sorry cant make it"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never mind being let down - don't seem to get a chance to even get verified :p

Hopefully one day in the near future my time will come

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple over a year ago

High Wycombe

We have been let 3 times now the last time was a no show sat night. We were convinced he would show, told him we had booked the hotel etc then the no show. A few hours later he gave some sxxt excuse about work blah blah blah....he is now blocked and deleted. We did everything we could to avoid this but it still happens....getting close to giving up

on the plus side we developed a passion for webcam sex lol a few in the room enjoyed our antics x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have been let 3 times now the last time was a no show sat night. We were convinced he would show, told him we had booked the hotel etc then the no show. A few hours later he gave some sxxt excuse about work blah blah blah....he is now blocked and deleted. We did everything we could to avoid this but it still happens....getting close to giving up

on the plus side we developed a passion for webcam sex lol a few in the room enjoyed our antics x "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

on the plus side we developed a passion for webcam sex lol a few in the room enjoyed our antics x

"
every cloud

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ohhh.. iv had a few "No shows" / Funny scenarios

- Funniest to date has to be when i travelled to see a couple-about 12am(Thank god not too far).

Upon arrival to the house i knocked the door (as agreed), waited for a second, had a lady peek from window. Instantly had a message come thru to phone reading "Gosh, you look sexy.. Mr has just realised you are "bi-curious" & wants you to fuck him too-Can you please wait in your car whilst he freshens up". So, me being the nice guy i am-went back to car & waited....

20mins later another msg; "Sorry about delay, twins have woken up & need feeding-will be as quick as poss"

20/30mins after that; "I cant wait to see you & we both cant wait to have you inside us"

So, this was when i had decided iv had enough & decided to leave, they carried on mesagging for the next hour-just aimless messages, randomely describing their wants/needs. When i did tell them i have left (an hour ago).. They sent back a smiley face emoji & a "x".

Deffo the strangest "meet" to date..

(im glad i can smile about it tho) & i suppose the world is full of weirdness/weird people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep half an hour before meeting. Didn't answer & blocked is! Was really looking forward to it too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Touch wood I've been lucky never had a no show, though since I talk for so long beforehand it's like we've known each other years ! I've had to let people down a day or 2 before that's life though surely??

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By *avid1221Man over a year ago

Bushey

if im ever lucky enough to arrange a meet i defiantly will be turning up lol

why the hell would someone go through all the chats, cams and calls only to not turn up???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have had about 3 no shows since January

You think they were a no show. They were there but you just couldn't see em with your boobs in the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have had about 3 no shows since January

You think they were a no show. They were there but you just couldn't see em with your boobs in the way

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