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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hello all...
I'm a first time swinger looking for my first experience.. Init most things apart from the gay/bi/tv side of things.
anyone put any pointers my way on making the first meet actually happen? even just a coffee with some local ladies..
age isn't really a preference for me, this is a swinging site and tbh I'm not here looking for love..
much love people... ant x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello 
I'm also newish to the scene... So can only give you my experience so far...
1) Read and do searches on the forums... A lot of information there which you can use to your advantage...
2) Visit clubs and naturist spa's, again a lot of info about them on the forums... Be prepared to do some research!
3) Expect a lot of rejection/ignored messages! Unfortunately as single guys we are in abundance on this web site! Ladies and couples really have their pick of the crop!
4) Try and get some pics up... Know you want some privacy, but so do 99% of folk on here! Show off what you've got! You need to make yourself stand out from the crowd somehow!
5) Back to number 2 again, ultimately you will find if you are serious about the 'scene' then you will need to ideally visit clubs etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are up against alot of competition against some experienced fellas with good profiles. What is there to draw people to your profile? No public pics and a negative profile will attract no one. You want privacy? Keep the face pics private and send on request. Torso, chest, bum, clothed shots all good. Cock shots not so. Good luck. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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So you are a single man, that by the sound of it, are looking for single women (you don't mention couples and you state your not interested in bi/gay/TS/TV), so explain to me how that is swinging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I have to break it to you that a single male with no visible pictures and a very uninformative profile is highly unlikely to attract any interest on here (or on other sites). |
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