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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile seems like a joke and arrogant. You don't need to advertise the length of your cock or use the "walk on" Line. A simple " I'm discrete and professional " says it better. As previous poster said - decide if you're a man or teenager.
Just some advice. Consider rewording your profile and posting photos other than "naked or cock " shots. Remember a cKvk has around from creation/big bang so women know what a cock looks like. They don't need reminding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest op,your profile comes across as if you are gods gift,if i was you delete it and start again as you sound like somebody with a massive ego. Her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a fine dividing line between confidence and arrogance when using the written word.
That said, if you think your profile is the best you can come up, then you'll get the rewards it deserves. If it's not working for you, change it. |
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
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"I have taken all ur advice and completely revamped my profile "
Punctuation!!
I don't know what your old profile was like, but please take a moment, read your profile through as if you were a woman and ask yourself one question 'would I meet this guy?'.
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"I have taken all ur advice and completely revamped my profile "
It's negative and the punctuation makes it difficult to read and suspicious people will wonder why you met a man but didn't show his veri. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have taken all ur advice and completely revamped my profile
It's negative and the punctuation makes it difficult to read and suspicious people will wonder why you met a man but didn't show his veri. "
Totally agree its too much commitment to read it all bunched together like that
2 well place enter keys it will be a lot easier in paragraphs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's it re done to all you who are helping I can't thank you enough I really struggle putting words down when I comes to this thank you for being patient 3 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reads so much better now pal,
I would consider a "I will try to answer all well out messages" bit
Open to be proven wrong but I think it makes you come across more approachable, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by."
No it was all her I was too big and It hurt her for weeks after |
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
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"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by."
Lose this, its not needed, it DOES take 2 to tango and if its that dull for you, then it must have been for her as well. And no one wants your relationship history, but no one wants to feel that they are going to be judged by you.
I notice you say its because you are so big and it hurt her, that says to me that you maybe aren't considerate towards others needs  |
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"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by.
No it was all her I was too big and It hurt her for weeks after"
May I suggested a calorie controlled diet with exercise to lose weight? That way, in time, you won't be 'too big' and hurt her. Or have her on top? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by.
No it was all her I was too big and It hurt her for weeks after
May I suggested a calorie controlled diet with exercise to lose weight? That way, in time, you won't be 'too big' and hurt her. Or have her on top? " I'm 10stone ! |
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"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by.
No it was all her I was too big and It hurt her for weeks after
May I suggested a calorie controlled
diet with exercise to lose weight? That
way, in time, you won't be 'too big' and
hurt her. Or have her on top? I'm
10stone !"
I guess its all relative then but if you think you're too big you could consider it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Instant turn off for me: profiles that state they're just out of dull/sexless relationships: it takes two! Makes me think balls need emptying and I'm not fussed who by.
No it was all her I was too big and It hurt her for weeks after
May I suggested a calorie controlled
diet with exercise to lose weight? That
way, in time, you won't be 'too big' and
hurt her. Or have her on top? I'm
10stone !
I guess its all relative then but if you think you're too big you could consider it. "
I think he's talking about his cock  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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*sigh* back to drawing board I find this really hard I know I'm good at sex and everything involved its just convincing woman to try through text alone feels impossible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really struggling to get meets or even chat from girls on here any advice on first message or anything many thanks"
You continue as you are, there is nothing wrong with profile or pictures (its all about you) Not what seasoned Forum users |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Big fail fella asking for advice yet you got veris. "
Why is it a big fail? Are you not allowed to ask for advice on the forum if you have veris then??! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"*sigh* back to drawing board I find this really hard I know I'm good at sex and everything involved its just convincing woman to try through text alone feels impossible "
I don't know what it was like before but it looks ok to me.
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really struggling to get meets or even chat from girls on here any advice on first message or anything many thanks"
Personally its not a bad profile but one tip when taking pics tidy the space behind you!
Enjoy fab x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel so sorry for the OP! He just isn't getting anywhere; If I were you I'd look at what other guys have on their profiles and take some hints from that. Good luck! "
This is probably best advice as you seem to be struggling to revamp it yourself. Even following the hints given and having a few attempts.
Some of us have plenty success....but don't just measure it by number of verifications!
Feel free to check mine out, although I am not sure which part or parts of it are getting me the success...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really struggling to get meets or even chat from girls on here any advice on first message or anything many thanks
Personally its not a bad profile but one tip when taking pics tidy the space behind you!
Enjoy fab x"
This
Pick up the teddies, think of the teddies!!!!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really struggling to get meets or even chat from girls on here any advice on first message or anything many thanks
Personally its not a bad profile but one tip when taking pics tidy the space behind you!
Enjoy fab x
This
Pick up the teddies, think of the teddies!!!!!!!! "
I have a asbo on teddis |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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I think a meet would be the last thing on your mind right now OP. My advice would be to sort the rest of your life out before looking for meets....to be honest, you live in a car and you've got no money - get those issues sorted first  |
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