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Message, wink or friend request?
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By *omtdh OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi, everyone, greetings I trust all are well. I have a question. I am not just a newbie to this site, but also a swinging virgin. What is the correct protocol for contacting other members? Should you message first, wink them (possible misprint) or send a friend request. Could anyone tell me the correct order, as I do not want to get it wrong? I also would like to know how you send a picture on a message. Sorry about all the questions but it is better to get it right from the start. Thank you in anticipation and have a great day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A message is your ice breaker, a wink is just a 'look at me', and when there are 10 times as many men on here than women, why should they bother? Show your personality with a message and see how it goes.
Definitely no friend request, unless they are actually already a friend. A request comes after you've been talking to them a while or after a meet.
You can add any photo to your message as long as you've already uploaded it to your profile just by clicking the 'attach a photo' link.
It's always advisable to attach at least one photo to your initial message. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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I delete winks without checking them, and friend requests without chat get blocked.
A decent message that shows you have read the profile always goes down best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I delete winks without checking them, and friend requests without chat get blocked.
A decent message that shows you have read the profile always goes down best."
It depends on the person/s.. many dont care.. but for us, its this too.
Read a profile fully to get an idea of the person - it usually tells you alot about the person/s.
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I do check winks. If, after reading his profile, I like what I see I wink back. If he's interested he usually messages me.
There are blokes I've been in the world's longest, most drawn out wink wars for months but it's just for fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you. Is the attach message a paid or free service?"
It's free....but I would suggest a better pic than that on your profile? It could be just about anyone....a face pic is best, but if you don't wish to risk that then a decent full body shot...perhaps in tight boxers or something?
Do MOT send friend requests until after a decent exchange of messages and perhaps ask if it's ok first. Doing it to soon is a good way to get blocked! |
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