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Newbies struggling! arrggh!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are a married couple. Very new to this!! Looking initially for a female only but dont seem to be getting anywhere. Any tips would be very welcomed thankyou!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok thanks for the advice, just not sure if we are quite ready for that yet.. "
Well to be honest it's like anything in life you get out what you put in, if you think a single female is likely to meet two strangers I think your kidding yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile really doesn't say much about you or what your looking for.
Maybe extend your profile text to give those reading it a little more info!
Your profile is your shop window, use it to sell yourselves.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't actively look for single females we make friends and if it leads to more fantastic, but it takes time to build trust and have the right attitude and calling them rocking horse shit probably isn't going to help your chances |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, like we said very new and need to learn a lot by the looks... Feel like we are coming across the wrong way, didnt mean to offend anyone and thankyou for your advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do meet couples and enjoy doing so. Advice…have a look at other couples profiles and pick up some hints and tips of what makes a good profile. Perhaps some better pics - you state that you may not be everyones cup of tea, but I've no idea why? Take this more as a marathon and not a sprint.
Have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You only joined 2 weeks ago so that's not a long time tbh, now depending on what you're looking for depends on the amount of time.
You could and would get plenty of men if that's what you were after within days, couples are a lot harder due you 4 people all having different views on what they like as the same for women.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't actively look for single females we make friends and if it leads to more fantastic, but it takes time to build trust and have the right attitude and calling them rocking horse shit probably isn't going to help your chances "
As a single fem who meets couples id say this exactly! Due to numbers we can afford to be picky. The slightest thing will put me off a couple. Your profile does not offer anything to entice a single fem. This thread confirms you are not sure what you want- soft play, all play together, just put on a show for the male? If you haven't got the basics right then how does a single fem know you wont freak out mid play? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a married couple. Very new to this!! Looking initially for a female only but dont seem to be getting anywhere. Any tips would be very welcomed thankyou!!"
It took us a while to entice a lady to meet us. You really do need to expand your profile and to make it much more positive about the experience you can offer. Not many ladies will wish to "show you the ropes." |
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