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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi. Can you look at our profile and tell us why we are not getting any social or play meets ?im very new and shy and overweight but very eager

Any advice appreciated

Thanks all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're looking to attract couples, perhaps start by putting photo's of both of you on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi. Can you look at our profile and tell us why we are not getting any social or play meets ?im very new and shy and overweight but very eager

Any advice appreciated

Thanks all "

Spotted it right away "no single men"

It might be the lack of driving at the moment and apart from that it looks ok to me. GL

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We have face pics that are private. But yes it makes sense thankyou

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Take off no single males, you have them blocked. Why start on a negative

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes the no driving is a pain and ha to the single men bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

removed it thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're looking to attract couples, perhaps start by putting photo's of both of you on your profile. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have face pics that are private. But yes it makes sense thankyou"
they don't have to be face pics, just a hint to people of who they'll be getting

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

New pics will be posted soon I think thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Makes sense, all your comments will be taking on board , Im very eager

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks everyone. Makes sense, all your comments will be taking on board , Im very eager

I hope 2015 brings you both all the fun you can handle. PS make yourself know in the forums as there are loads of nice people here and you might get meets this way.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Good luck & welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thanks everyone. Makes sense, all your comments will be taking on board , Im very eager

I hope 2015 brings you both all the fun you can handle. PS make yourself know in the forums as there are loads of nice people here and you might get meets this way. "

I will make myself known to people. Thanks and yes me to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you can use the chatrooms plenty of nice people in chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you can use the chatrooms plenty of nice people in chat

never used the chat rooms but might give it a go thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes spotted it to, no single men lol, if you would meet them you would have 10 or more meets a week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi. Can you look at our profile and tell us why we are not getting any social or play meets ?im very new and shy and overweight but very eager

Any advice appreciated

Thanks all "
diet......theres a problem if your not confident

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"diet......theres a problem if your not confident"
DON'T diet!!!

Rather, throw yourselves into Swinging, as you already appear to have done, enjoy it, and like most women in Swinging the focus gets more on to what you EXPERIENCE rather than how you look, or think you look like!

HAVE FUN!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try and get yourselfs along to the many socials that are posted its a great way to meet ppl with no pressure to play,good luck and enjoy yourself xx

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

As is often said your profile doesn't tell me anything about you two, what you like what you bring to a meet. focus on your positives. There's lots of threads that offer profile advice.

The other dynamic is trying to get 4 people that find each other attractive isn't always that easy so patience patience and patience.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You will be held back by can't drive....so how do you get to other people. And you don't accommodate....so how do they get to you?

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