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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok, I will try and put this in some reasonable context for you.
Every few days a new thread appears in the Into forums. This thread is started by some guy having no luck with meets and his profile always has the line
"I have a wife / gf and this (insert erason here) is the honest reason why I am cheating on her"
Always this thread becomes a cry for acceptance, for people to say "there there, it's ok, thats a good reason, we don't mind it"
But it never happens.
Cheating, you see, is cheating.
Now, you have a reason, perhaps a valid, honest, god to right, top notch reason. You may not even be looking to actually meet, just cam etc, ok, fine.
However.
*MOST* people will not read further than "I have a g/f". At that point, it's stop, bin, block (like hey you just did to me!).
There was even a thread reccently called, I believe "Honsty is the best policy" or similar. it got very long.
Now I'm sure you don't like being tarred with the same brush as all those others. Fair enough, I can accept that.
But still, the moment you say you have a g/f who isn't playing with you, that's the reaction you'll get, like it or not. People will take offence at you, people will be nasty to you, people will talk down to you.
And even those who do read further to your reason, well, does anyone actually have any valid reason to believe it? Of course not.
My point is that regardless of how true your reasons may be, you are far from unique in claiming that and the result of being far from unique is that you'll get the most common responses.
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