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Please advise how to make my profile better

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Been on this site for some time now, only emailed a couple of ladies and my messages just get deleted, I understand that everyone has their preferences. I always send polite, non pushy messages, is it wrong to expect a polite "thanks but not interested" response? Do I need to make changes to my profile or be more direct in my messages or just go for quantity of women rather than quality? Just looking for advise please. Happy Swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Smile!!!!!! You'll find people will be a lot more receptive to one.

As for your profile text, am reluctant to offer advice as it's generally not taken and the profile nearly always remains the same. The best thing to do is look at it from a woman's perspective and ask yourself 'would you meet you?' If not then change it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for taking the time to respond, I take the point and will replace my pics with a not so serious look, might even manage a smile.

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No probs, enjoy fab' and have fun

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By *ouplekinkCouple over a year ago

kink town

And remember take a 'no reply' as not interested, don't get hung up that you didn't get a reply or even blocked, just move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And remember take a 'no reply' as not interested, don't get hung up that you didn't get a reply or even blocked, just move on. "

I get that a no reply is not interested and that women probably get a lot of request's but just thought it is good manners. but like you said just move on.

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By *ouplekinkCouple over a year ago

kink town

It's nothing to do with manners because as soon as you say 'no thanks' you get a why? Or insults, so just easier to say nothing and/or block.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most women will look at the profile before opening a message. I'm afraid you name would put me off to start with as would your pictures. Take some new smiley ones

good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So most men pester if rejected, I can see why you would just delete. We are not all the same though!

Think I might start again with a new profile, my user name does not reflect the type of sex I like but I can see it might make people think that. Thanks all for helping me out. I'll be back, as a new happier profile and user name. Cheers everybody

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i would change yr username you dont have to delete i8f yr a site member u can change it and as the others say take a few pics of you not looking so stern good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

........"Think I might start again with a new profile, my user name does not reflect the type of sex I like".......

Why did you choose it then? It's not 'exiting' as that means leaving, I think you might mean 'exciting'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally the profile name alone would be reason to delete any message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally the profile name alone would be reason to delete any message."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It has all been said. But please do take the advice. So many guys don't and they still wonder why no success...

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By *jandjbCouple over a year ago

Nr Manchester

If you're taking a selfie it always comes out better if you hold the camera from above rather than below. It stops double chin and helps make you look a little more light hearted.

Always consider your background, smile, show your personality, but please change your name.

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