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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here for like 4 months got a site supporter and tbh ain't had no luck it's like no girls message back don't know why, I don't think I'm that bad looking "
Being a site supporter guarantees you nothing no mater what the site hints at its about the person not what they pay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here for like 4 months got a site supporter and tbh ain't had no luck it's like no girls message back don't know why, I don't think I'm that bad looking "
No effort in your profile means no reward, your photos are not great, your age is against you, my daughter is 29
plus would you really meet someone 70 years older !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is nothing on your profile to attract anyone, its non existent. It tells us nothing about you, why you're here, what you can offer or what you're looking for. Some women get upwards of 50 messages a day, if you don't stand out or make an effort then you'll be lost in a sea of messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not 70 years no cos they will 95 don't think there's anyone that old swinging but like I don't know what kind of stuff to even put on my profile !? "
Then narrow your age rang down to what your looking for!
Look at other profiles of guys who are getting meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only (couples) and single women seem to be successful on, FAB. With the odd exception (single males) have limited success. "
What do you call limited? how many meets do you expect? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Effort.
If that doesn't improve your chances, put in some more effort...
This is a swingers site not a guaranteed fuck,have women throwing themselves at you site! Look at other guys profiles, have a look at their verifications and heed advice given to you on forums like this.
Oh and be patient. Don't forget it is the summer holidays still so people have other priorities... |
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"Only (couples) and single women seem to be successful on, FAB. With the odd exception (single males) have limited success. "
Not really, there are so many single guys that don't use gab for swinging just for quick sex (or try to) everyone's different and has different requirements, single men are the most dishonest due to the high numbers of them, most are more than likely married and don't mention this, we play regularly in the bi room and must have 10/15 on's every time from "straight single guys" wishing they could join in the fun
When we want a single guy we do a quick search for people who meet our needs and find them very easy, any guy that isn't able to be honest and list themselves as bi never get the chance!
We don't accept messages any more from single guys because most messages we had were disrespectful I get not all guys are the same but the minority spoil it for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here for like 4 months got a site supporter and tbh ain't had no luck it's like no girls message back don't know why, I don't think I'm that bad looking "
You might not think it...but it's not your opinion that matters...it's a ladies choice, a buyers market.
But yes..as has been said your profile is poor.
I don't think I'm anything to look at, probably barely above average in the trouser department. But I am coming up for 200 verified meets....so go figure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here for like 4 months got a site supporter and tbh ain't had no luck it's like no girls message back don't know why, I don't think I'm that bad looking
You might not think it...but it's not your opinion that matters...it's a ladies choice, a buyers market.
But yes..as has been said your profile is poor.
I don't think I'm anything to look at, probably barely above average in the trouser department. But I am coming up for 200 verified meets....so go figure!"
It sais just 107, how much was sex and socials?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only (couples) and single women seem to be successful on, FAB. With the odd exception (single males) have limited success. "
Must agree (tongue in cheek). My "limited" success is there for all to see on my profile.....getting close to 200 verifications now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here for like 4 months got a site supporter and tbh ain't had no luck it's like no girls message back don't know why, I don't think I'm that bad looking
You might not think it...but it's not your opinion that matters...it's a ladies choice, a buyers market.
But yes..as has been said your profile is poor.
I don't think I'm anything to look at, probably barely above average in the trouser department. But I am coming up for 200 verified meets....so go figure!It sais just 107, how much was sex and socials? "
197..... Fair mixture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here for like 4 months got a site supporter and tbh ain't had no luck it's like no girls message back don't know why, I don't think I'm that bad looking
You might not think it...but it's not your opinion that matters...it's a ladies choice, a buyers market.
But yes..as has been said your profile is poor.
I don't think I'm anything to look at, probably barely above average in the trouser department. But I am coming up for 200 verified meets....so go figure!It sais just 107, how much was sex and socials?
197..... Fair mixture."
Yes that's good to have a mixture of it. |
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Not had much luck..... that is because it has sod all to do with luck.
It is down to selling yourself. Making an effort with your profile and your pictures. Making an effort to get out in the real world, not just from behind a computer screen, clubs, socials or parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here for like 4 months got a site supporter and tbh ain't had no luck it's like no girls message back don't know why, I don't think I'm that bad looking "
You put your worst pic as your profile pic from a female opinion. Last pic is best but I'd put your torso or something up for intrigue - have to stand out as he said ratio is just wrong x |
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By *ay4you OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"OP, your moan is longer than your profile which to most folk would seem like you don't want to put any effort in. It took me 6 months to have my first meet btw. "
Can someone give me some tips as to what to put in profile |
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By *andcCouple
over a year ago
London and Cheshire |
"Only (couples) and single women seem to be successful on, FAB. With the odd exception (single males) have limited success. "
???? many couples on here ONLY meet single guys, also all the single guys at clubs do very well.
Get yourself to a club or at least some social events, soon as people get to know you, you'll do alright |
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By *andcCouple
over a year ago
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"OP, your moan is longer than your profile which to most folk would seem like you don't want to put any effort in. It took me 6 months to have my first meet btw.
Can someone give me some tips as to what to put in profile "
Anything..or at least something!
About you, what you're looking for..etc.
But as a single guy it's difficult to get noticed on here there are just too many single guys to choose from, better to get yourself to a club, meet people and get some verifications from those you meet. If you don't fancy a club try social meets to get to know people...
There's no magic formula, just time and effort, I'm sure you'll do OK if you try your hardest. |
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By *ay4you OP Man
over a year ago
Walthamstow |
"OP, your moan is longer than your profile which to most folk would seem like you don't want to put any effort in. It took me 6 months to have my first meet btw.
Can someone give me some tips as to what to put in profile
Anything..or at least something!
About you, what you're looking for..etc.
But as a single guy it's difficult to get noticed on here there are just too many single guys to choose from, better to get yourself to a club, meet people and get some verifications from those you meet. If you don't fancy a club try social meets to get to know people...
There's no magic formula, just time and effort, I'm sure you'll do OK if you try your hardest."
I want to go to a club but I've never been and shy to go as single male by myself I wish a woman from here would take me just in a social way so I could break the ice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, your moan is longer than your profile which to most folk would seem like you don't want to put any effort in. It took me 6 months to have my first meet btw.
Can someone give me some tips as to what to put in profile
Anything..or at least something!
About you, what you're looking for..etc.
But as a single guy it's difficult to get noticed on here there are just too many single guys to choose from, better to get yourself to a club, meet people and get some verifications from those you meet. If you don't fancy a club try social meets to get to know people...
There's no magic formula, just time and effort, I'm sure you'll do OK if you try your hardest.
I want to go to a club but I've never been and shy to go as single male by myself I wish a woman from here would take me just in a social way so I could break the ice "
OP says it all - you cannot be bothered to research the forums, you want people to spoon feed you and as for clubs. If you are too shy to go to a club on your own you are unlikely to be a hit there. Women want confidence not shyness and sorry this thread is not going to help your chances.
I have had no problem on here - its not rocket science. |
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By *andcCouple
over a year ago
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"I want to go to a club but I've never been and shy to go as single male by myself I wish a woman from here would take me just in a social way so I could break the ice "
If you cannot walk into a club on your own what make you think you can walk into a hotel room or someones house?
what is there to be scared of?
Most people who go to clubs or even there first meet will be nervous, it's just fear of the unknown, but just relax and enjoy the fun world of swinging.
If your shy don't worry too much, there are all types who swing, shy, nervous, confident and everything in-between. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not 70 years no cos they will 95 don't think there's anyone that old swinging but like I don't know what kind of stuff to even put on my profile !?
Then narrow your age rang down to what your looking for!
Look at other profiles of guys who are getting meets"
Check mine if you want. Close to 200 verified meets (and loads of others that aren't).
Maybe I should copyright the content?
Seriously tho...as just about everybody has said there are dozens of these posts every day. All from guys who put no effort into their profile. Then don't follow advice given and come back a week later for another moan.
Get off yer bum an sort profile out before you try again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not 70 years no cos they will 95 don't think there's anyone that old swinging but like I don't know what kind of stuff to even put on my profile !?
Then narrow your age rang down to what your looking for!
Look at other profiles of guys who are getting meets
Check mine if you want. Close to 200 verified meets (and loads of others that aren't).
Maybe I should copyright the content?
Seriously tho...as just about everybody has said there are dozens of these posts every day. All from guys who put no effort into their profile. Then don't follow advice given and come back a week later for another moan.
Get off yer bum an sort profile out before you try again."
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