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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi,
I am having problems trying to work out how I am going to get verified.
I cannot go to swingers clubs out of fear.
I am shy and need to gently break out of it.
Any experienced helpers out there to show me the ropes and guide me in the right direction.
Thanks,
Sam  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've met people.
Can you not ask one of them?
A"
I'm always very suspicious of profiles that say I am sooooo genuine and then go on to say they've met people but have no veris. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi All,
Thanks for the tips. It was just two people I met briefly several years ago long before I joined Fabswingers. Whilst they were nice, I was new to this and felt too shy to take things further.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will have to overcome that shyness to have any success on the swinging scene, socials are a good place to go and meet people and its just the same as going to a pub.
If you can't do that because your too shy then you will be hampered with meets. You have met people before but were too shy to take things further is a statement that may come to haunt you. Many women are here to have good fun confident sex and not have to hold someone's hand to teach them.
Overcome your confidence issues and you will be most of the way there.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meeting for a coffee is always a good first step. You will find it very difficult if you can not overcome shyness. You do need to be confident....and ...believe in yourself. When you do others will see that confidence. Should you meet, people will read body language. Learn what body language NOT to display. Good luck.....smile, be confident and be positive.  |
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