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New ish, am I doing something wrong
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By *ottydot OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi I'm new to the whole thing swinging etc.... Really want to get into it. Been thinking about it for ages just a little shy ish haha.... I've messaged females asking to chat or meet.but get no replies or jus deleted messages can someone help me or at least open a door so I can get my young boots kicking I don't have a preference females come on all shapes and sizes.... And I would like to go to a club in Wales or around if there's any invitations   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe its your profile or lack of it your post is longer than your profile you need to sell yourself much more.. and the fact you carnt accomm will hinder your chances |
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I have to agree with the above comments.
Your post here is longer than your profile: the place to sell you. What is there is poorly written text speak. You're trying to attract ladies who are surrounded by tall, handsome, single men who are articulate, witty and able to accommodate.
Photos of you looking like a gangster just doesn't cut it I'm afraid. |
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Class up man... Stand out from the other 25yo's, find some interests study them, gain knowledge and experience and want to be a better man.
And travel, every other month visit a new European city for the weekend, on your own.
Slowly start to fix your flaws.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Class up man... Stand out from the other 25yo's, find some interests study them, gain knowledge and experience and want to be a better man.
And travel, every other month visit a new European city for the weekend, on your own.
Slowly start to fix your flaws.
Good luck!"
Oh and have a bottomless wallet and join a gentlemans club.
Class is everything to swingers 
Gimp  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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with respect for what others have said, don't change yourself for other people. if people have a problem with what you say or how you dress, fuck em! value yourself! you will find somebody who appreciates you.
some people find it hard to sell themselves with some writing and few pics, i am one of those people...
iv been coming on this site on and off for a few years.. this is probably my 9th or 10th profile and i have only ever had 6 meets off here in around 4 years(on and off)
In person i don't struggle to woo a female and its a lot easier to sell yourself with yourself in person.
Unless you have a body like a spartan, face like a movie star and a 25 inch penis, you have to be a really good writer to tempt them in. 
But if more meets is what you want, DO NOT listen to me as on here im about as popular as a the Bubonic plague. 
just be happy! |
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Just a bit of spare cash, not hard to come by just work a little harder.
And I'm sure he doesn't want to just attract "swingers".
Hit the hotels and Tinder, plenty of mid 30s blue chip stock waiting to be shown some fun.
And I'm sure there are classy "swingers" about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a bit of spare cash, not hard to come by just work a little harder.
And I'm sure he doesn't want to just attract "swingers".
Hit the hotels and Tinder, plenty of mid 30s blue chip stock waiting to be shown some fun.
And I'm sure there are classy "swingers" about."
Oh there sure are.
One good start for him would be to be able to type English instead of the words he's written, contains no vowels.
Totally agree with what you're saying. If he smartened himself up and did things you recommend he would perhaps find a nice young woman and therefore wouldn't need or want this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sell yourself.
Change those dreadful pictures.
Be proud if yourself without being smug.
Type words not shortened text talk. Make it look as if you actually care.
Be able to string enough words together to form an actual sentance that makes sense without swearing,
Shorten your interests box, It looks as if you've gone through and ticked them all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Class up man... Stand out from the other 25yo's, find some interests study them, gain knowledge and experience and want to be a better man.
And travel, every other month visit a new European city for the weekend, on your own.
Slowly start to fix your flaws.
Good luck!"
Omg this is a swinging/sex for free site not University bloody Challenge lol |
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Horses for courses man...
I dress like you too, for the gym...
But at the pub different, the horse races different again...
You wouldn't wear a baseball cap to a wedding?
So that's how you dress... But dress or er undress to impress...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe its something for the Admin to think about in the Future, Preferences based on the Class system, Blue or white Collar, Those can afford extensive european Travel and those that cant, Oxford/Cambridge...jeeeez
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The picture of you giving the finger with a fag hanging out of your mouth is just a bit for me"
Don't think it's a fag looks like a joint so that would be a definate no for us but each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's better photos portray the real person, rather than "sunday best" type pics. Leave them on, someone will like them, then you'll have fun and you can be yourself. |
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