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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know ive only been on the site for a short time but im having real trouble getting any attention at all and wondered where im going wrong?
Is my profile too vague or just pure crap or is it my pictures?? Or just down to the fact the site is over run with single males? Or something else!? I want to get noticed lol!
Help please!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a little note, you say in your profile you always play safe with guys, does that mean you don't with ladies ?"
Thankyou bo thats a typo id written something and rephrased it.... badly apparantley!
Ive reworded it now so hopefully it flows off the tongue better?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about selling yourself and standing out from the crowd, I wouldn't tailor your profile to try and target specific groups just be honest about what your looking for and be patient and wait for compatible play mates |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I mean in general, your profile isn't bad but it's not spectacular but that is just my opinion and everyone has different opinions it's very subjective. You can see popular guys on here and copy their profiles but that wouldn't be you and you want to sell you and find compatible people |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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I like the honesty in your profile and love the pics but just to let you know, you'll find that a lot of ladies on here won't entertain a bi guy...just their preference...better to be true to yourself though and let them jog on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A frequent comment which comes up on threads like this is the old "can't accommodate" thing.
Most fens/couples will read this as you being a married man playing away. Again that will put a lot of people off if it is seen that way.
Probably nothing you can do about that but it may explain some things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all your advice people. Im honest about what im looking for because i dont want to mess people around and dont want to be messed around either.
2innotts i apologise for that im new to the site and you appeared in my search preferences therefore i assumed you were in my criterea and age range.
The accomodation thing, i completely see your point but i can accom its just my choice not too.
And as for ladies not liking bi guys thats completely fair and i accept that is their preference just a shame for them as they are missing out.... ;-p just joking each to their own.
Like you say as the meets and verifications come in should make things easier.
Anyway thanks for all your advice people....
And to the site owner or admin or whatever you deserve credit this site is brilliantly laid out and a great site. So thank you.
happy swinging  |
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