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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am new to this but been on this site for about 2-3 weeks now have had a couple of meets.
I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.
Surely it would be polite to tell the person this information rather than just ignore them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to think that single females and couples may get 100s of messages a week they carnt reply to every one of them.. All they have to do is look at a profile and delete if its not wat they are looking for ( there choice) you only been on a few weeks and already a few meets so you doing well. If some one deletes your message just move on  |
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"I am new to this but been on this site for about 2-3 weeks now have had a couple of meets.
I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.
Surely it would be polite to tell the person this information rather than just ignore them. "
It's not an idea it's in the FAQ's and clearly shows no reply means not interested and no one is compelled to reply to a message.
Considering you have had meets in a short while of being on the site your doing very much better than many males on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.
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I am not sure I like the idea of new guys posting threads that have been talked about a thousand times already.
I am not sure I like the idea of people not using the site search function to see if anythings been said about a subject before posting.
I am not sure I like the idea of new members not possibly reading the FAQ's.
Have a nice day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am new to this but been on this site for about 2-3 weeks now have had a couple of meets.
I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.
Surely it would be polite to tell the person this information rather than just ignore them. "
Do you respond to all the unsolicited mail you receive? Ring up every PPI company that texts you to say - not interested? If not - why not? Sit down and think about it for a moment. If you dont like it, and it is clearly stated in the faq, then this is not the site for you. |
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Welcome and enjoy!
Personally I read all messages (but I'll admit that I don't get many due to filtering single men out) but as my profile states, if I don't respond I'm not interested. I look at profile first and single men who do not display their veris don't get a second look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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workinv full time and being single mum, if i responded to every message i got just to be polite id never have any time to meet. plus a lot of men cant handle the rejection an get nasty |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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My female friends averages 30 messages a day that she's not interested in in the slightest (many are downright disgusting!).
Would you reply to 30 messages? Honestly?
Even typing no thanks, or cutting and pasting a message that many times would be a right pain.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am new to this but been on this site for about 2-3 weeks now have had a couple of meets.
I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.
Surely it would be polite to tell the person this information rather than just ignore them. "
How would an inbox full of "no thanks" help your cause? It wouldn't so deal with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am new to this but been on this site for about 2-3 weeks now have had a couple of meets.
I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.
Surely it would be polite to tell the person this information rather than just ignore them. "
Do you still feel the same OP ????? |
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