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My first sexual experience!!!!.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi am Dan 29 years old from Cheshire I have a walking disability witch I've had since I was born and though it hasn't stopped me from most things in life it has stopped me from going out on a Friday and a Saturday night as I find it hard to get a round in busy bars and clubs and there for I've not had the chances that most people take for granted and it has been very frustrating. I have fantasy's and needs just like everyone and I think the time as come for me to have my first sexual experience if any couples or females like the idea of helping me make this happen I would love to hear from you thanks Dan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many people have "walking disabilities" especially once they get a bit older, heart and lung problems from smoking etc. I myself have severe arthritis in my feet. I'm a bit uncomfortable with using a condition to gain a sympathy shag so I don't tell people about it. From your profile I wouldn't think you have a problem, is not obvious from pics. and maybe just accepting that you aren't going to be everyone's cup of tea is the way to go? Many single men on here, although may not be virgins, have very little success because they don't sell themselves. Maybe try to accentuate your positive attributes  |
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Good luck.
If I can offer some friendly, well intentioned advice lose some of your photos, it's not a fashion show, you have a nice smile and cute face, the disability wouldn't bother me at all but boxers and socks is a hard limit!
Hope you have fun
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree with you I haven't wrote this post for sympathy at all it's more of a way of putting myself out there. The reason I've put about my disability on my profile is to be honest and up front witch most single guys don't do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks Julie,your right it's not easy for most single guys on hear but the reason I put this post up was to say hello to people and have a bit of a chat I've been honest with my profile and am a very genuine person it would be greet to get to know a few people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hope you find someone nice, personally I hate to think of giving up my virginity to a total stranger but that was many moons ago
Disability can be a big obstacle for some people but for me it isn't at all as long as the person is nice and I find them attractive it's all good
I've been with severely disabled - paraplegic. and loved our time together and am meeting again I'm amazed by him both as a person and in bed, use your imagination if you can't manage positions
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your lovely message am sure I will find someone that would like to have a chat that is so inspiring that someone with a much worse disability then mine is able to have fun that has give me a lot of confidence. And your right disability can be a big obstacle for a lot of people and I totally can understand why but am hopeing from this post that I can chat to people and see were things go |
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our favourite local venue, the Kestrels naturist spa near Heathrow, which has swinging, has a goodly representation of disabled folk. People in wheelchairs and so on - all no prob. Plenty of disabled folk having group sex and lots of fun (and giving lots of pleasure!).
Go for it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the message Rachel,that's amazing I put this post up because I wanted to put myself out there a little bit more and am so glad that I did put the post up because the feed back I've had has been greet I've had lovely messages off couples asking about me and my disability witch as men't a lot I will deffenty check the club out |
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"I agree with you I haven't wrote this post for sympathy at all it's more of a way of putting myself out there. The reason I've put about my disability on my profile is to be honest and up front witch most single guys don't do."
Lie for quantity, truth for quality. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've chatted to some really nice people but with us all livening in different parts of country and are own personal lives it's difficult to sort things out but am sure I will meet someone soon. In turns of getting to know people just speak to people in the chat rooms I've had such a laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coming late to this thread as I had to wait for my "newbie week block" to pass
I wanted to say that a year ago I had a similar experience. I came across a guy (on a dating site) who was in his early thirties and claiming to have zero sexual or romantic experiences. Curiosity got the better of me and I made contact. Story was, like you he'd missed out on the socialising during his early 20s/student years because of a life-threatening health condition. Like you he is still affected though one wouldn't necessarily know by simply looking at him. We got talking more and more and got on really well - by the end of it, even though I wasn't looking for another guy and it wasn't convenient, we met a few times and still do on occasion, he has become a good friend.
Never mind the disability card - but the virginity card is certainly one worth playing! Be open about it, mention it on your profile straight-out. That's what my friend did and what I would do. You can only get to play this card once!
"plenty of women are after cherries"
Not to be underestimated! Best of luck. |
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"Many people have "walking disabilities" especially once they get a bit older, heart and lung problems from smoking etc. I myself have severe arthritis in my feet. I'm a bit uncomfortable with using a condition to gain a sympathy shag so I don't tell people about it. From your profile I wouldn't think you have a problem, is not obvious from pics. and maybe just accepting that you aren't going to be everyone's cup of tea is the way to go? Many single men on here, although may not be virgins, have very little success because they don't sell themselves. Maybe try to accentuate your positive attributes "
That's exactly what this is after, a sympathy shag. However a friend of mine likes older guys so I am sure he'll oblige with your 'first sexual experience'.
We are sure someone will fall for this ruse though!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks dream,for your message that means a lot if it's ok I would like to have a chat with you a bit more. And I am not looking for a sympathy shag busty sub I am just being honest and genuine that's all. |
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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Hi am Dan 29 years old from Cheshire I have a walking disability witch I've had since I was born and though it hasn't stopped me from most things in life it has stopped me from going out on a Friday and a Saturday night as I find it hard to get a round in busy bars and clubs and there for I've not had the chances that most people take for granted and it has been very frustrating. I have fantasy's and needs just like everyone and I think the time as come for me to have my first sexual experience if any couples or females like the idea of helping me make this happen I would love to hear from you thanks Dan "
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Well I have had walking problems for the last 3 years and cannot stand in bars etc,walk on a stick and not having problems,it is in the mind,you are a lot younger than me so live with it,you might surprise yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I do live with it really well thanks I was on about when I was 16 17 when I was in a wheelchair but I didn't put this post up for sympathy its more of a way of putting myself out there and chat to people. |
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By *mmabluTV/TS
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"I do live with it really well thanks I was on about when I was 16 17 when I was in a wheelchair but I didn't put this post up for sympathy its more of a way of putting myself out there and chat to people."
Good on you hope I was not being to harsh and I do wish you luck,your a good looking guy,be yourself it will be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't think you were being rude at all there has been a few rude comments a bit further up the page but you get that on hear with some people lol. am a genuine honest guy looking to get to know women and couples and see where things go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actions speak louder than posts on the internet. Effort and perhaps compromise, can get you what you want. But, if you don't actually want what you say, thats fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay, apologies if you are already doing this...
But have you considered putting up a general profile on the usual dating sites? (match, plenty of fish etc.) Just get out there, chat to people have fun and go on dates. I mean I was a complete shut-in nerd as a teen and was awful at the dating thing through uni and into my early 20's until I put myself out there and forced myself to socialise. It was hell at first, I didn't know what to say, I got embarressed, I couldn't make eye contact and I undoubtedly scared off a whole pile of otherwise decent guys by being "that weird gamer geek girl". Yes I understand being a shut-in isn't the same as your situation, and being y'know female with boobies n'that is a benefit in getting attention for dating (even if 86.76435% of guys my age at the time just wanted a shag!).
Join clubs, meet people, make friends and just see what happens basically.
I'm not saying don't go down this route on here. If it gets you results in the end then great. But you *might* be better placed dating and learning the whole interaction with the opposite sex thing first.
Oh and if you haven't done so. Watch The 40 year old Virgin.
Good luck and have fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your message Jenni,I've done the dating sites and they just were not for me at all what am looking for is to get chatting to new people have a laugh and some fun am very tick skinned and people can say what they want like they have o he's just looking for a feel sorry for me shag not at all am using the forum to put myself out there and am just being honest witch is all I can do I've chatted to some really nice people and am sure that first meet will come for me soon . I've seen the 40 year old virgin a few times a good film but am sure it won't take me till am 40 lol. |
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