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over a year ago
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all ways...
I hate people thinking they cant have successful meets that dont involve having to go to clubs.
there are plenty of people meeting up that dont and never will do clubs or socials.
using your brain is pretty vital and less time spent imagining the meet the better..just get off ur arse and meet. |
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"all ways...
I hate people thinking they cant have successful meets that dont involve having to go to clubs.
there are plenty of people meeting up that dont and never will do clubs or socials.
using your brain is pretty vital and less time spent imagining the meet the better..just get off ur arse and meet."
Sometime it can be easy to meet here but more often than not it can be very tough as a guy or couple. No matter how hard you try you can get rather messed about. However going to a club you are guaranteed to meet other swingers even if only to look or socialise and not play.
Yes some people are very successful here but for those that arent social or clubs are recommended and less daunting than you think.
As always love to you all and good luck in getting meets Xx
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"all ways...
I hate people thinking they cant have successful meets that dont involve having to go to clubs.
there are plenty of people meeting up that dont and never will do clubs or socials."
well said that man. Some people on here will harp on endlessly about socials being the only way to get meets! I've never been to one and have met plenty of others that have never been too. |
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We have found clubs work for us. We dont arrange to meet as such. We turn up and try and have a fab night out. Every now and then things click and the sexy fun begins. Not the ideal scenario for everyone but hey we're all different. Would like to try a few social events and see how they work out x |
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Understand what your saying and to some point agree.
However after being messed about, let down and disappointed we really cant be bothered. We have had very few successful meets through internet sites, infact the only successful meets we have prearranged have been at clubs as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Understand what your saying and to some point agree.
However after being messed about, let down and disappointed we really cant be bothered. We have had very few successful meets through internet sites, infact the only successful meets we have prearranged have been at clubs as well."
most of our best nights have envolved club nights |
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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago
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Having been on since jan it's been tough trying to meet ladies but got the results 6 meets so all good . Although I look forward to my next meet but don't know when that's comin . Goin to try chameleons on a guest pass to see the clubbing side of things . My advice to you would be go with the flow of things u ain't going to have with everyone on here try socials parties n clubs get Urself out there get seen n have fun |
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"For those that love your friday meets its almost time to get your glad rags on for the frisky friday at the vanilla alternative.
Come say hi and make some new friends x x"
So really, this wasn't about how best to meet but to promote the club.... |
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"For those that love your friday meets its almost time to get your glad rags on for the frisky friday at the vanilla alternative.
Come say hi and make some new friends x x
So really, this wasn't about how best to meet but to promote the club...."
Yep. Looking at the profile, it looks like advertising is the main point of the account |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Really? Please dont take this personally as that's not how it's meant but to be perfectly honest, I view profiles like yours as fake in a sense as the primary object of it is to promote the club you work in and meeting would never enter my head as you seem to simply want to boost attendance rather than meet people for who they are ...just my observation of course and I'm guessing there's no rule against it as your here, but hey....what do my thoughts on it matter ...all the best  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really? Please dont take this personally as that's not how it's meant but to be perfectly honest, I view profiles like yours as fake in a sense as the primary object of it is to promote the club you work in and meeting would never enter my head as you seem to simply want to boost attendance rather than meet people for who they are ...just my observation of course and I'm guessing there's no rule against it as your here, but hey....what do my thoughts on it matter ...all the best "
As her defense lawyer(I get my payment persk in sexual favors mmmm), my client was not being rude or dismissive, from her gatherings she can only see this post was not posted into the correct thread, and with the gathering evidence the prosecution also is aware that at least 99.9% of the verifies come from a club source.
the actual thread, claims there must be a way to meet other people..when..of course it is known that this appears commonplace with the accused.
hope VA was brill anyway lol
*and I will make sure my client gives me a gobble if she doesn't get any compensation. |
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Yes we tend to promote a certain club but we do not work for it.
my primary motive is to meet new people hopefully making new friends. If you read the rest of the threads you will notice the clubs name was not mentioned.
Im extremely laid back and dont take offence easily but please remember if you make a remark thats pointed at an individual it is pesonal by definition. ... particualy when its an insult ..... nomater how sweetly its wraped
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes we tend to promote a certain club but we do not work for it.
my primary motive is to meet new people hopefully making new friends. If you read the rest of the threads you will notice the clubs name was not mentioned.
Im extremely laid back and dont take offence easily but please remember if you make a remark thats pointed at an individual it is pesonal by definition. ... particualy when its an insult ..... nomater how sweetly its wraped
X x
x"
can u get us free entry?
me and miss bentley  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes we tend to promote a certain club but we do not work for it.
my primary motive is to meet new people hopefully making new friends. If you read the rest of the threads you will notice the clubs name was not mentioned.
Im extremely laid back and dont take offence easily but please remember if you make a remark thats pointed at an individual it is pesonal by definition. ... particualy when its an insult ..... nomater how sweetly its wraped
X x
x
can u get us free entry?
me and miss bentley "
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Lol no worries. Just out of bed blury eyed. The whole point of the thread is to discuss the best way of meeting new ppl. We have found its clubs. Although we tend to use 1 club we are open to other ideas.
we are totally social animals so always open to new ideas.
we dont work for anyone and our motives are the same as everyone else's.
A dam good time without too much fuss and definitely no hassle.
If anyone has the magic formula for it then please share lol.
must say we seam to be very close to it as the fun times keep rolling on.
x x |
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"So whats the best way of meeting new ppl. We think its going to clubs.
what do other people think
Clubs for us too"
whats the best place to goto in your area.
ive got a business trip away in a few weeks x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes we tend to promote a certain club but we do not work for it.
my primary motive is to meet new people hopefully making new friends. If you read the rest of the threads you will notice the clubs name was not mentioned.
Im extremely laid back and dont take offence easily but please remember if you make a remark thats pointed at an individual it is pesonal by definition. ... particualy when its an insult ..... nomater how sweetly its wraped
X x
x"
You say you don't work for the club. Yet in your profile it says that lexy is a hostess for the club? P |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All off our meets have been off here. We cant understand why couples and single ladys pay to go into a club for that sameclub to charge guys extra to enter to have fun to us its nothing short off paying for sex. Now I maybe wrong but these clubs are making a profit from sex or am I missing the point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I been to clubs, nude beaches, and meet off this and other sites. But what i really love, is going to "tourist" bars here and scoping out the bar for potential swingers.
For me it is a thrill, trying to find them, and then talk to them, and try to seduce them...A few times I was wrong when i brought up swinging, but they were ok with it, some even became friends who i visit when i visit the uk. |
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I think that all the options discussed have their plus and minus points, depending on a number of factors, I.e. if you are a single male, female or cpl as an example.
We have had success with all the methods we have tried, and we have enjoyed each type of meet for different reasons. We like the intimacy of home meets, we like the spontaneous nature of club meets, we love getting to make new friends and catching up with old friends at parties, and we like being able to circulate, mingle, make friends and perhaps even "pull" at socials.
For us, although we very much enjoy the chance to play, so long as we make new friends, we consider any outing a success. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Try looking in your local area Forum for a Social to attend. It's fun, friendly & gets you known as someone who is genuinely interested in learning about swinging. It also boosts your Network of Friends once folk know who you are. Worked for me. |
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We like going to socials just for the crack. Only played after party style at one but mainly use them to mingle and meet people after the same thing. We have had a couple of meets off the back of socials so a bit of networking works wonders. We not really got a club too close to us so not only the cost of clubs but the cost of hotels that put us off. We getting into the parties a little more but do prefer the intimacy of house meets but as we struggle to accomodate because of the kids we struggle for meets that way lol but it's all fun in the end even if it's on our own ha ha  |
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Hi hope your all well.
we are doing an offer on entry this friday at the va.
Get to the door before 9 and quote early bird for tenner off entry for single girls and couples x x
we are also looking to do a newbie night soon x x |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"all ways...
I hate people thinking they cant have successful meets that dont involve having to go to clubs.
there are plenty of people meeting up that dont and never will do clubs or socials.
using your brain is pretty vital and less time spent imagining the meet the better..just get off ur arse and meet.
Sometime it can be easy to meet here but more often than not it can be very tough as a guy or couple. No matter how hard you try you can get rather messed about. However going to a club you are guaranteed to meet other swingers even if only to look or socialise and not play.
Yes some people are very successful here but for those that arent social or clubs are recommended and less daunting than you think.
As always love to you all and good luck in getting meets Xx
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Couldnt agree more |
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Thinking of hosting a newbie party soon.
Not sure when or where yet but will post as soon as we can get a suitable venue.
consdering taking over a club, in talks with 3 venues at the moment. Ideal for anyone a little shy or nevious.
We will ensure its a no pressure environment with plenty of people on hand to answer questions and put people at ease. Will also be a great way to meet like minded people.
X x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thinking of hosting a newbie party soon.
Not sure when or where yet but will post as soon as we can get a suitable venue.
consdering taking over a club, in talks with 3 venues at the moment. Ideal for anyone a little shy or nevious.
We will ensure its a no pressure environment with plenty of people on hand to answer questions and put people at ease. Will also be a great way to meet like minded people.
X x"
I think quite a lot of clubs are doing this now, I know mingles had a newbie night last night and I've seen Tease are also doing a newbie night I don't really see how a night just for newbies can be all that helpful surely the best introduction would be to mingle and get to know more experienced people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have found it difficult to find a meet on here so decided a club to be the way forward and did meet afew ppl which was nice,we have met ppl from here,but think clubs are best to meet ppl still not a guarantee on having a play tho |
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