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By *picyrod OP Man
over a year ago
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Hiya thanks for looking I'm trying to find a clubbing partner To go chams with .It would be nice to go on a fri night or sat as u know membership for single men is difficult please get in touch
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There is a long waiting list for single male membership for chams.
OP I suggest you need to establish a relationship (as in fb, not as in love and marriage) first.
Single females are welcome everywhere on every night and it's generally much cheaper for us than for anyone else.
I prefer to go to clubs on my own or with guys that I already know - establishing the ground rules and being confident that he won't sulk if I play without him is much easier if I am confident about his personality. I would also feel that his behaviour would reflect on me, so I would need to be confident that he not only knew the rules but would abide by them. |
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"I'd like to visit the club for the first time
Single mans membership not available
So looking for a clubbing partner to visit chams what's wrong with that ?"
There's nothing wrong with that. But you have to approach it from a woman's point of view - what's the benefit to her?
Clubs are very single female friendly, the choice between going with someone you've never met before and know nothing about or of going alone and having lots of choice... Well, I know what most swinging women opt for. |
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over a year ago
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As I see it the woman is just being used. Id rather go alone and have the freedom to play with who i wanted rather than babysitting someone who is just using me as cheap entry. |
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"Point made thank u ladies "
Establish a swinging relationship then suggest clubs together.
Oh and look out for socials, they generally operate on a guestlist basis and membership is not required. Look in swinging club events. |
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"Why is membership for a single man difficult?
What are the benefits for the woman? The cynic in me thinks you only want to use someone to get in cheap.  "
av you seen the price for a single bloke lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd like to visit the club for the first time
Single mans membership not available
So looking for a clubbing partner to visit chams what's wrong with that ?"
Why not put your name down for the BBW event in 22nd June, you don't need membership to attend even as a single guy. You can then try Chams and see if it's for you xx |
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"Why is membership for a single man difficult?
What are the benefits for the woman? The cynic in me thinks you only want to use someone to get in cheap. av you seen the price for a single bloke lol..."
Yes I have. Have you seen the prices for a single female?
And if I go with someone I don't know will he expect me to play with him? Will he expect me to play with people he likes the look of without conferring with me? Will he abandon me as soon as we walk through the door (which is against most club rules so will reflect badly on me). Will he behave towards other club goers with courtesy and consideration? Will he drink too much? If he was my lift will he dump me cos he gets a better offer and leave me stranded at a club? Will he glower and sulk if anyone tries to talk to me let alone play? Will he spend the night in the Jacuzzi getting too close to other club goers? Will he insist we spend the night cruising the play rooms looking for action?
All of the above have happened to people I know, so considering the price of entry for a single fem and the welcome you get I would have to be very confident of someone to go with them. I do sometimes take newbies but I have to meet them and establish boundaries first.
And I object to being the equivalent of a groupon voucher!  |
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