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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi to the women out there is there something wrong with asian men or men who look asian? Now I know alot go for black men and say they get turned on by black men for various reasons and put off etc but whats stopping you from seeing an asian/asian looking fella? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We could say a similar thing about bi couples 
Some like you
Some don't
If you do a search in forums for "Asian" you will see this answered a lot before 
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I do hope the lady in your pics knows she is on here btw. I personally find that off putting on a single male profile and not sure why those pics are accepted |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well i see what you mean about personal prefs there and in answer to your question the pics are of an ex hence why ive not included a face or privacy reasons but saying that i may take them down if it appears negative  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well i see what you mean about personal prefs there and in answer to your question the pics are of an ex hence why ive not included a face or privacy reasons but saying that i may take them down if it appears negative "
Even worse if its an ex....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well i see what you mean about personal prefs there and in answer to your question the pics are of an ex hence why ive not included a face or privacy reasons but saying that i may take them down if it appears negative "
Has your ex given consent for you to use these ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok...."
as a guy on here you will get a lot of flack about everything from wording of your profile to why you like what you like. Best advice is have a browse at other profiles see which ones meet regularly and then you may get idea of what works in fab. Also since you are asian yes it is more difficult well people actually tell you that mmm probably not. If you like idea go to a few socials get to know people by chatting and being friendly not pushy and you should be fine remember you are not going to be everyones cup of tea and don't take it personally xx xx xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well i see what you mean about personal prefs there and in answer to your question the pics are of an ex hence why ive not included a face or privacy reasons but saying that i may take them down if it appears negative
Has your ex given consent for you to use these ?"
Cant remember tbh if she has or hasnt shes long gone i obv do t chat to her anymore but looking from the responses its time the pics go and its a learning curve for me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok....
as a guy on here you will get a lot of flack about everything from wording of your profile to why you like what you like. Best advice is have a browse at other profiles see which ones meet regularly and then you may get idea of what works in fab. Also since you are asian yes it is more difficult well people actually tell you that mmm probably not. If you like idea go to a few socials get to know people by chatting and being friendly not pushy and you should be fine remember you are not going to be everyones cup of tea and don't take it personally xx xx xx "
Thanks i hear you and def will try that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We could say a similar thing about bi couples
Some like you
Some don't
If you do a search in forums for "Asian" you will see this answered a lot before
As an aside ;
I do hope the lady in your pics knows she is on here btw. I personally find that off putting on a single male profile and not sure why those pics are accepted "
the pics are accepted because the OP is in the pics and the female is not identifiable..of course consent is good, but we dont subject people to questions about who is In the pics as long as they are over 18 and not identifiable
sorry just a slight defense for the OP, particularly as I have many of the same types of pics(all consenting mind lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi to the women out there is there something wrong with asian men or men who look asian? Now I know alot go for black men and say they get turned on by black men for various reasons and put off etc but whats stopping you from seeing an asian/asian looking fella?"
You mention in your profile that people shouldn't state "no blacks/pinks, yellows.." ok you actually put a variety of cultures and colours. If people have certain preferences or know who they're not attracted to, then they're saving others wasting time contacting them. Attraction is not racist.
I could talk to people of all cultures as I like to embrace diiferences, but it doesn't mean I'd have sex with them.
I have just met a gorgeous, very tall, very kinky Asian guy (non-practising Sikh), and looking forward to seeing how that develops. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We could say a similar thing about bi couples
Some like you
Some don't
If you do a search in forums for "Asian" you will see this answered a lot before
As an aside ;
I do hope the lady in your pics knows she is on here btw. I personally find that off putting on a single male profile and not sure why those pics are accepted
the pics are accepted because the OP is in the pics and the female is not identifiable..of course consent is good, but we dont subject people to questions about who is In the pics as long as they are over 18 and not identifiable
sorry just a slight defense for the OP, particularly as I have many of the same types of pics(all consenting mind lol)"
I'm just not into this to be honest and I think it puts other people off too, so my point was maybe it isn't the fact you're Asian OP , there could be other reasons. I just think it's immoral posting any photo, let alone nude photos of other people without their consent. There is enough of her shown that I'm sure she could identify herself
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think you re getting good advice in this thread and you re talking sense too I hate racism and I wish you good luck "
Indeed i am and i genuinely appreciate it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi to the women out there is there something wrong with asian men or men who look asian? Now I know alot go for black men and say they get turned on by black men for various reasons and put off etc but whats stopping you from seeing an asian/asian looking fella?
You mention in your profile that people shouldn't state "no blacks/pinks, yellows.." ok you actually put a variety of cultures and colours. If people have certain preferences or know who they're not attracted to, then they're saving others wasting time contacting them. Attraction is not racist.
I could talk to people of all cultures as I like to embrace diiferences, but it doesn't mean I'd have sex with them.
I have just met a gorgeous, very tall, very kinky Asian guy (non-practising Sikh), and looking forward to seeing how that develops."
I mentioned simply as i have in the past have had remarks based up race rather than sexual attraction to my race its a nitty gritty subject but if you get to know a person then it makes a difference. I went out with a white girl once and ahe said she would never have gone out with someone of my background but when she did she realised the doors that i had opened and said wow people of diff backgrounds are not only are amazing as people and in bed too well thats speaking about me but it can be for any man or woman of colour
I hope that made sense lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi to the women out there is there something wrong with asian men or men who look asian? Now I know alot go for black men and say they get turned on by black men for various reasons and put off etc but whats stopping you from seeing an asian/asian looking fella?
You mention in your profile that people shouldn't state "no blacks/pinks, yellows.." ok you actually put a variety of cultures and colours. If people have certain preferences or know who they're not attracted to, then they're saving others wasting time contacting them. Attraction is not racist.
I could talk to people of all cultures as I like to embrace diiferences, but it doesn't mean I'd have sex with them.
I have just met a gorgeous, very tall, very kinky Asian guy (non-practising Sikh), and looking forward to seeing how that develops.
I mentioned simply as i have in the past have had remarks based up race rather than sexual attraction to my race its a nitty gritty subject but if you get to know a person then it makes a difference. I went out with a white girl once and ahe said she would never have gone out with someone of my background but when she did she realised the doors that i had opened and said wow people of diff backgrounds are not only are amazing as people and in bed too well thats speaking about me but it can be for any man or woman of colour
I hope that made sense lol"
People who want NSA aren't generally going to want to get to know someone in great depth, so sexual attraction in this case is based on a superficial level.
I interact with a wonderful diverse community due to my job, I still am not attracted sexually to certain groups of society. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hey
I'm British Indian, born and bred in the uk and am regularly told I am a very handsome chap..... However that doesn't mean everyone will find me attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Not everyone is made for everyone! And bare in mind this is not a dating site so there has to be some animal attraction .... No one has time to get to know anyone for their personalities... As shallow as it may seem.... Also make sure you don't have plastic boxes or a messy room when taking full body shots
Happy swinging brother .... |
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