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Why Do The Men Have To Make The First Move??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just A Thought.. It Would Be Nice For The Women To Be The Hunter! Equal Rights & All That! Lol  "
On this site, women rule, and in general like to be in the driving seat.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging seems to attract a lot of people who have been hurt in past relationships, and have decided to go for self gratification, so usually come across as confident and knowing what they want. Of course underneath, they still long for love and security. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thats a Profound Answer  . But Without Sounding Like a Suckup, Again I Agree. People Can Be Who Ever They Want To Be On a Site Or Meet While minimising Any Worries Of Rejection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just A Thought.. It Would Be Nice For The Women To Be The Hunter! Equal Rights & All That! Lol "
I always did the asking cos I got fed up waiting
But on here men have to take the lead x
Simple law if supply n demand
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I m of the thought that 'You reap what you sow, '
Give it a try, see which method gives you the desired outcome,   |
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Unfortunately men assume that a message/wink will automatically lead to a meet and they become unpleasant when they get a no thank you.
I enjoy the chase, but there is not a lot of game where I am. Maybe I will expand my hunting grounds, see what lies a little further afield |
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"Swinging seems to attract a lot of people who have been hurt in past relationships, and have decided to go for self gratification, so usually come across as confident and knowing what they want. Of course underneath, they still long for love and security."
Are you basing this on your extensive knowledge of the swinging scene or just the people you meet?
Because while I suspect it may be true of supposedly straight men seeking cock behind their wife's back (arguably the very definition of fucked up) I doubt it's not true for most people we've encountered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just A Thought.. It Would Be Nice For The Women To Be The Hunter! Equal Rights & All That! Lol "
A lot are. But due to the volume of men on here you are unlikely to ever be their prey. |
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"Swinging seems to attract a lot of people who have been hurt in past relationships, and have decided to go for self gratification, so usually come across as confident and knowing what they want. Of course underneath, they still long for love and security.
Are you basing this on your extensive knowledge of the swinging scene or just the people you meet?
Because while I suspect it may be true of supposedly straight men seeking cock behind their wife's back (arguably the very definition of fucked up) I doubt it's not true for most people we've encountered. "
I am basing it on 35 years of my professional experience, supporting people with relationship issues, and it is being confirmed by the many messages received here since my post. |
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power to the ladies 
