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hiya i have a post on here and would like people's opinion's on how my profile is i'm finding it hard to meet as single guys have bad name i'm 100% genuine and hope things change as i'm finding the site to be more talk and also its hard to chat in the chat rooms as everyone chats to who they know and not new guys |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Hi
Your profile seems ok, but this post sounds very negative.
Join in on the forums, go into chat and make yourself known by chatting. People won't know you are there unless you say more than hi and be upbeat. |
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"hiya i have a post on here and would like people's opinion's on how my profile is i'm finding it hard to meet as single guys have bad name i'm 100% genuine and hope things change as i'm finding the site to be more talk and also its hard to chat in the chat rooms as everyone chats to who they know and not new guys"
Some advice ...try putting a few full stops in your posts..i ran out of breathe reading it .And all the guys who know how to converse with a lady dont get a bad name on here ,i have met some great guys and there are lots of people on here looking to meet...u just have to be worth it .. |
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"hiya i have a post on here and would like people's opinion's on how my profile is i'm finding it hard to meet as single guys have bad name i'm 100% genuine and hope things change as i'm finding the site to be more talk and also its hard to chat in the chat rooms as everyone chats to who they know and not new guys
Some advice ...try putting a few full stops in your posts..i ran out of breathe reading it .And all the guys who know how to converse with a lady dont get a bad name on here ,i have met some great guys and there are lots of people on here looking to meet...u just have to be worth it .."
well i left you breathless so i must be lol |
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"hiya i have a post on here and would like people's opinion's on how my profile is i'm finding it hard to meet as single guys have bad name i'm 100% genuine and hope things change as i'm finding the site to be more talk and also its hard to chat in the chat rooms as everyone chats to who they know and not new guys"
single guy 29 years old cant accomm.....alarm bells......
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"hiya i have a post on here and would like people's opinion's on how my profile is i'm finding it hard to meet as single guys have bad name i'm 100% genuine and hope things change as i'm finding the site to be more talk and also its hard to chat in the chat rooms as everyone chats to who they know and not new guyssingle guy 29 years old cant accomm.....alarm bells......"
The OP is asking for advice on his profile not his private life and he does say on his profile he is not married!!! |
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"hiya i have a post on here and would like people's opinion's on how my profile is i'm finding it hard to meet as single guys have bad name i'm 100% genuine and hope things change as i'm finding the site to be more talk and also its hard to chat in the chat rooms as everyone chats to who they know and not new guyssingle guy 29 years old cant accomm.....alarm bells......"
You cant accom either.. No one says.... alarm bells!!! |
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Not married which you've said twice but cant accommodate and havent said why? Think you need to say why. Disretion to me always mean that theres another significant half so guess you've a girlfriend/fiancee you live with that doesnt know hence you cant accommodate  oh yes course there are thousands of single guys on here in the same boat as you, the chat rooms will be like that as some have been on here years. |
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"hiya i have a post on here and would like people's opinion's on how my profile is i'm finding it hard to meet as single guys have bad name i'm 100% genuine and hope things change as i'm finding the site to be more talk and also its hard to chat in the chat rooms as everyone chats to who they know and not new guyssingle guy 29 years old cant accomm.....alarm bells......
The OP is asking for advice on his profile not his private life and he does say on his profile he is not married!!!"
WHERE DOES IT SAY ADVICE  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Not married which you've said twice but cant accommodate and havent said why? Think you need to say why. Disretion to me always mean that theres another significant half so guess you've a girlfriend/fiancee you live with that doesnt know hence you cant accommodate oh yes course there are thousands of single guys on here in the same boat as you, the chat rooms will be like that as some have been on here years."
I think a lot of people like discretion, you don't have to be hiding a deep dark secret for that.
For me, the man has said he is single, if a person who is considering meeting him wants to ask any more questions on that then they can do, but I don't see why he needs to put anything else on his profile about why he can't accomodate. Couples don't.
I can't see it making any difference if he did write a reason on his profile as there will probably be something in that that people will assume is a lie too.
Not every single male lives alone, when I met my husband he was lodging with someone as he had gone through a divorce and his wife got the house he was still paying for, so finances were limited.
Not everyone lies. |
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thanks to all who have put something on my post, why i have said discretion is most people don't want every tom dick and harry knowing what they do in the private life .You can always ask questions about why i can't accommodate when i ask if you want to meet ,plus we can always have a social meet first |
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"thanks to all who have put something on my post, why i have said discretion is most people don't want every tom dick and harry knowing what they do in the private life .You can always ask questions about why i can't accommodate when i ask if you want to meet ,plus we can always have a social meet first "
Might be a good idea to put on your profile why you cant accom,even tho does say on your profile that you are not married..
Dont know why whenever a single male says they cannot accom people always assume that the guy has got a wife and kids at home and think the worst??
Like been pointed out no one bats an eye lid when a couple or single fem say they cant accom..
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"Not married which you've said twice but cant accommodate and havent said why? Think you need to say why. Disretion to me always mean that theres another significant half so guess you've a girlfriend/fiancee you live with that doesnt know hence you cant accommodate oh yes course there are thousands of single guys on here in the same boat as you, the chat rooms will be like that as some have been on here years.
I think a lot of people like discretion, you don't have to be hiding a deep dark secret for that.
For me, the man has said he is single, if a person who is considering meeting him wants to ask any more questions on that then they can do, but I don't see why he needs to put anything else on his profile about why he can't accomodate. Couples don't.
I can't see it making any difference if he did write a reason on his profile as there will probably be something in that that people will assume is a lie too.
Not every single male lives alone, when I met my husband he was lodging with someone as he had gone through a divorce and his wife got the house he was still paying for, so finances were limited.
Not everyone lies."
Oh dear have i come across a bit cycnical? didnt mean to just par for the course, ive had the couple where it turns out the woman is married to someone else and many married guys cheating on their wives but yes you are right, Ive chatted to and met, some single guys who do house share and therefore cant accommodate. |
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