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is there any real people who want to meet??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has it occurred to you that you're just not what some people are looking for? You can maximise your chances by making sure your profile sells yourself and is well written. Also make sure you read profiles before sending a message tailored for the person In question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do  "
you aren't going to make any friends like this. These sites are meat markets and single guys are the meat. You have to be verified (try socials). Have a face and body pic visible and show people resect (which your tone here makes me doubt).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blah blah blah and blah!!get a grip and a life!! How many folk gonna post this up!!problem is your best just ignoring them!! Rather than giving them air time so to speak  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "
We know plenty of people that want to meet. You are talking to the wrong people. Or doing something wrong. Or both. |
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Check veris I'm sure that will tell if people are meeting I know we do and I know the smal circle of people we meet all meet different people also. So on that note
It must be you that is not actually meeting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got to graft to get meets don't know why can people check me out on profile see where I am going wrong"
why are you so angry in your pictures, the one in the yellow top makes me think you're going to kick my head in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After being on here a while now we noticed the decline in people actually meeting lol so now to save messing about and only meet at clubs or parties."
Lets be Honest your profile doesnt leave much scope for meeting tho does it 
Gary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's just you."
Give the fella a break...at the end of the day hes put a harmless question out there & been shot to pieces for it. Maybe losing the arrogance should be top of your 2014 list love!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you put a Question out there you have to Expect answers, Some may not agree but thats the Nature of the Forum Beast
Gary"
Agree Gary but killing the guy helps nobody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got to graft to get meets don't know why can people check me out on profile see where I am going wrong"
Pics do look a bit angry but there is one that is quite nice. The close up. Maybe get some where you smile a bit more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's just you.
Give the fella a break...at the end of the day hes put a harmless question out there & been shot to pieces for it. Maybe losing the arrogance should be top of your 2014 list love!!!"
Why pick on her? Others have intimated similar? 
The two guys moaning in this thread are very young. That may go against them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you
They do 
To the op. Anything worth having or doing is worth some effort in  "
So true, the only thing in his profile is a moan, so that sets him up tobe a constant moaner about every thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you
They do
To the op. Anything worth having or doing is worth some effort in
So true, the only thing in his profile is a moan, so that sets him up tobe a constant moaner about every thing "
When women moan, men love it. Or is it just me, accompanied by screaming "fuck me harder" and thrashing around the bed?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you
They do
To the op. Anything worth having or doing is worth some effort in
So true, the only thing in his profile is a moan, so that sets him up tobe a constant moaner about every thing
When women moan, men love it. Or is it just me, accompanied by screaming "fuck me harder" and thrashing around the bed?
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Mmmmmmm yes please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you
They do
To the op. Anything worth having or doing is worth some effort in
So true, the only thing in his profile is a moan, so that sets him up tobe a constant moaner about every thing
When women moan, men love it. Or is it just me, accompanied by screaming "fuck me harder" and thrashing around the bed?
Mmmmmmm yes please "
If you insist |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "
I Guess based on your experience nope they don t, based on others experience yep they do, the million dollar question is what are they doing different to you,?
For sixty four thousand pounds I ll give you the answer,,;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do
I Guess based on your experience nope they don t, based on others experience yep they do, the million dollar question is what are they doing different to you,?
For sixty four thousand pounds I ll give you the answer,,;-)"
I will do it for £63k |
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There are hundreds of people who want to meet, but also they have alot of choice who they meet.
Don't make the mistake of thinking just cos you spent 5 minutes joining that women are going to be dragging their knickers off to meet you.
YOU have to make an effort, YOU have to learn to be respectful and patient YOU have to 'sell' yourself, cos believe you me, their are hundreds of guys better looking than you, more polite than you, bigger cock than you and an alround better person than you.
make the effort, dont be pushy, be respectful and you just might have some fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are hundreds of people who want to meet, but also they have alot of choice who they meet.
Don't make the mistake of thinking just cos you spent 5 minutes joining that women are going to be dragging their knickers off to meet you.
perfect response dave & prob what the guy was looking for!
YOU have to make an effort, YOU have to learn to be respectful and patient YOU have to 'sell' yourself, cos believe you me, their are hundreds of guys better looking than you, more polite than you, bigger cock than you and an alround better person than you.
make the effort, dont be pushy, be respectful and you just might have some fun "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's just you.
Give the fella a break...at the end of the day hes put a harmless question out there & been shot to pieces for it. Maybe losing the arrogance should be top of your 2014 list love!!!
Why pick on her? Others have intimated similar?
The two guys moaning in this thread are very young. That may go against them."
She cant attack him without some recourse surely!!?? She doesnt know the guy (nor do I I should add) so wheres her right or the others for that fact to dig him out for putting that out there?? A forum is for debate, not abuse & my age being 3 weeks of 30 is relevant because...!!?? |
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I tried to quote & respond but my phone dislikes the rant . Its a public forum. Not a hand holding kindergarten.
Had the op bothered to have a quick peek at the other few (thousands) of 'help me Im not getting laid' threads. The same advice is repeated over & over & you know what over & over a few times more.
Each profile is unique.
If your profile isn't working for you. Take some time to improve it; be that forum thread research or check out profiles of active members; then..... You guessed it. Make an effort.
With a sense of humour these forums are much more fun  |
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"Maybe it's just you.
Give the fella a break...at the end of the day hes put a harmless question out there & been shot to pieces for it. Maybe losing the arrogance should be top of your 2014 list love!!!"
But he didn't ask a question, he made a statement that was blatantly untrue. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "
Got a lovely young lady at mine now ... just on a quick break while she check's her work email as she's on call.. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's just you.
Give the fella a break...at the end of the day hes put a harmless question out there & been shot to pieces for it. Maybe losing the arrogance should be top of your 2014 list love!!!
Why pick on her? Others have intimated similar?
The two guys moaning in this thread are very young. That may go against them.
She cant attack him without some recourse surely!!?? She doesnt know the guy (nor do I I should add) so wheres her right or the others for that fact to dig him out for putting that out there?? A forum is for debate, not abuse & my age being 3 weeks of 30 is relevant because...!!??"
She said maybe!
Your age is irrelevant as I wasn't talking about you!
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "
there are a lot of people on here who just like to talk about meeting, but many that do meet also.
just gotta be patient, and out the talkers, they do have a rite to be here aswell it seems its as much a social site as a swingers sex site  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - plenty of peeps meeting just check out the veris. The issue is they are not meeting you and starting a thread like this is not going to increase your chances! All the best and hope the New Year is a good one for you.
I am off to see the New Year in with a bang.  |
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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago
Derby |
"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "
You've been here over a year, got no public pics, and a two line profile.... and you wonder why nobody wants to meet you? Jeez... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "
I have a general rule...
if the rant is longer than the profile.... you bring it on yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do
I have a general rule...
if the rant is longer than the profile.... you bring it on yourself "
Funny and so true ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do
I have a general rule...
if the rant is longer than the profile.... you bring it on yourself "
Funny and so true ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Liam: Some friendly advice. Most people warm towards friendly and outgoing types. You have friend only images. In reality people are not going to be interested in someone whos very short profile write up is just a negative statement.
You are taking a bit of a verbal kicking on this thread but it's self inflicted.
If you tried chatting someone up in the pub with this attitude I dare say you wouldn't be beating them off.with a shitty stick either.
Time to change your tactics...... |
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As a single guy it takes time and patience to meet! I also can't meet at a drop of a hat and don't expect anyone else to. I had my first meet on this site a few months ago and had been on here over a year. Just be nice, friendly, and non-pushy, and have your profile reflect the same. Once you get verified it helps a lot! I get a lot more responses now |
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"As a single guy it takes time and patience to meet! I also can't meet at a drop of a hat and don't expect anyone else to. I had my first meet on this site a few months ago and had been on here over a year. Just be nice, friendly, and non-pushy, and have your profile reflect the same. Once you get verified it helps a lot! I get a lot more responses now "
Its nice to see someone being positive because they've got a meet instead of being negative because they can't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, happens to us girls all the time - had two guys this week tell me, sorry, i was out last night and met a lovely lady so i now don't want to meet you anymore even tho we had a meeting planned - for me that's as rude and timewasting as it gets!! And not good for the confidence either!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "
No public pics. Very brief and uninformative profile. You can't accommodate - not always true but interpreted by many as either married or living with parents.
Genuine observations. Make an effort with your profile or people will think you won't make an effort with them.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"oh and your bareback verification will make most people run a mile.
Why?
Because most swingers like to take their sexual health seriously."
Exactly, so it shouldn't matter, you should treat each new partner as if they are hiv + then you are as careful as possible. Applaud their honesty. The only safe sex is no sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh and your bareback verification will make most people run a mile.
Why?
Because most swingers like to take their sexual health seriously.
Exactly, so it shouldn't matter, you should treat each new partner as if they are hiv + then you are as careful as possible. Applaud their honesty. The only safe sex is no sex."
so you always wear a condom for oral? and use dental damns when giving oral? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh and your bareback verification will make most people run a mile.
Why?
Because most swingers like to take their sexual health seriously.
Exactly, so it shouldn't matter, you should treat each new partner as if they are hiv + then you are as careful as possible. Applaud their honesty. The only safe sex is no sex.
so you always wear a condom for oral? and use dental damns when giving oral?"
Have you never had bareback sex? |
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