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Is it actually possible to have great sex with no feelings?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was on this site a few years ago and was meeting a few different people having great fun.. But eventually just ended up meeting the same person. It was seriously mind blowing sex, passionate and always exciting,even after meeting her for a coupe of years it never got boring. There was an age gap, I was 24 and she was 48. I should add she was married (and still is) but her husband was also on the swinging scene and had full knowledge. It became pretty obvious feelings were developing and then the bombshell L word was dropped. We stopped meeting because it got complicated and I tried to have a normal relationship with someone my own age.
My point is, if we are all looking for that perfect sexual encounter, if you keep having meets isn't it just a matter of time before you meet someone where feelings develop? I know the lady is now unhappy, so is it really better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?
M x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No as I have had a friend with benefits for nearly 3 years, we are not in love, we love each others company but he is now kind of seeing someone else and whilst I miss him occasionally, its not the mind blowing way that accompanies the L word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cold sex can never be great sex
Never done it and never will x "
Oh I have !!!! For bloody years !!!!!  ... Going through the motions !! To be a good wife!! Done with that now !!!!! Never going to that place ever again !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it is possible, i met a guy numerous times, had amaaazing sex and had it been under other circumstances he'd have made a great bf but things werent right and hes now loved up off fab and we keep in touch not for sex but for an odd chat. so yes its possible |
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Yes you absolutely can, I've had excellent fun from playmates off Fab, but I've never felt emotionally attached to them.
Having said that, I do like to keep in touch with playmates too - even if we're not playing. Not because I need to but because I only play with people I like personality wise, so I inevitably care for them as a friend. Naturally I care for some more than others but I've never developed feelings for them.
I think loveless sex is better in lots of ways as you know the horn is all about the chemistry and desire and not about love..... And it's the chemistry and desire that's does it for me most.
Long live loveless sex!! And long live the absolutely fcking amazing love based, filth driven hot tricking reclaim sex I get when I meet back up with Jonny!!!
R xx |
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I was talking to a friend the other day about this. When you're with someone the sex can be absolutely mind blowing, and be really sensual and feel really close which I personally think is the best. On the other hand (no pun intended) you can have fb, fwb or even meet other people and have good sex, but I don't think you can beat the sex you have with a partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been seeing a man for years... he always says he loves me I also got involved with a man yrs ago who said he loved me but lied so who knows"
i met sum1 off here had 14 month relationship,, i loved him and he ssid he loved me.. then he cheated on me with ex!! |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"I have been seeing a man for years... he always says he loves me I also got involved with a man yrs ago who said he loved me but lied so who knows
i met sum1 off here had 14 month relationship,, i loved him and he ssid he loved me.. then he cheated on me with ex!!"
nice of him  |
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