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Still finding it hard on this site
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"Me too.
Something wrong when you can pull in a supermarket but not on a swingers site! 
Still I keep hoping.
Couldn't agree more. This site is a waste of time. "
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"Me too.
Something wrong when you can pull in a supermarket but not on a swingers site!
Still I keep hoping.
Couldn't agree more. This site is a waste of time. "
But your still here though, and of course it's all the site and other users fault that your not getting what you want out of it  |
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"When I go to the spa i have a great time,
I just can't understand what's going On
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Maybe you come accross better in person than you do on here. It happens. Personality can be difficult to get accross on screen. |
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"Me too.
Something wrong when you can pull in a supermarket but not on a swingers site!
Still I keep hoping."
I disagree. In a supermarket you are talking one on one with a lady, on here you are competing with thousands or other single guys so it's always going to be harder. People come on here expecting to get results because it's a swingers site and it's just not that easy for some. |
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over a year ago
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"Me too.
Something wrong when you can pull in a supermarket but not on a swingers site!
Still I keep hoping.
Couldn't agree more. This site is a waste of time. But your still here though, and of course it's all the site and other users fault that your not getting what you want out of it "
Awww poor lil lamb
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Haha, matey! It's really not that hard.
I've been too busy the past few months but its not that difficult to meet.
You do have got to play the game though.
Your profile has to portray the right type of guy. A few wrong words can destroy your chances. Your photos have to be good. Avoid dark backgrounds. Remember, you have to look like their ideal man!
But, there are many many desperate men on here. Do not be one of them, however, make use of this to stand out!
Above all, I'd suggest to gain knowledge on womens psychology. If you know what women look for/are put off by, how they work,you'll do very well!
I'm going to get grief now for suggesting that women are all the same. They are not all the same but 90% do carry certain sex specific characteristics.
A crude example of that is this:
Women do not view a man sexually at the very start and therefore are put off by cock pics and sexual advances. They view a man socially first, then you can build on it so that they have trust.... then if you show the right signs, then they can view you sexually. This is the time to get sexual with them!
There are many more of these things also!
Good luck!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I go to the spa i have a great time,
I just can't understand what's going On
Maybe you come accross better in person than you do on here. It happens. Personality can be difficult to get accross on screen. "
True it is harder on screen to get it across in the right manner, on screen words can be taken differently to how you want them to sound  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well there I was in Tescos parading my cock up and down the make-up isle when a woman came up to me and said..'take me to bed or lose me forever'
Got a good response when I stuck it in a punnet of strawberries too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you find swingers in a supermarket though?
If you mean you can find casual sex in a supermarket then you need to understand that swinging is not just casual sex.
Maybe that is the problem? "
of course swinging is very casual sex, unless you want a regular date with someone |
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"So true.people just look but never try to get sex on this site..so change the name to fabchat and not fabswingers for God's sake."
I've never lacked meets in fact, if I wanted, I could meet every night of the week. However, I prefer quality over quantity and I also actually have a life outside of Fab. |
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"Haha, matey! It's really not that hard.
I've been too busy the past few months but its not that difficult to meet.
You do have got to play the game though.
Your profile has to portray the right type of guy. A few wrong words can destroy your chances. Your photos have to be good. Avoid dark backgrounds. Remember, you have to look like their ideal man!
But, there are many many desperate men on here. Do not be one of them, however, make use of this to stand out!
Above all, I'd suggest to gain knowledge on womens psychology. If you know what women look for/are put off by, how they work,you'll do very well!
I'm going to get grief now for suggesting that women are all the same. They are not all the same but 90% do carry certain sex specific characteristics.
A crude example of that is this:
Women do not view a man sexually at the very start and therefore are put off by cock pics and sexual advances. They view a man socially first, then you can build on it so that they have trust.... then if you show the right signs, then they can view you sexually. This is the time to get sexual with them!
There are many more of these things also!
Good luck!
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There is a lot of sense in this. However, occasionally, I see a body pic of a guy and think "corrrrrrrr I want that now!" |
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"I also have better luck in supermarkets etc "
Just a point guys: in supermarkets do you wave your cock around expecting us to praise it or sidled up to women and say "wanna fuck" or "I'd love to taste you"?
Cos if it wouldn't work in person why would it work on the internet? Hello accompanied by a filled out profile and a nice body shot is always going to be more successful.
(plea note: I may have quoted but this is a general response and not directed at any one poster)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me too.
Something wrong when you can pull in a supermarket but not on a swingers site!
Still I keep hoping."
It might be a ploy to get you to push the trolley and carry the shopping. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I m going to plagiarise well more than likely bastardise a Fabio line,,
( the cheques in the post mister,,)
"This is but one avenue, there are many facets you can use "
clubs (op you say youre successful in a club, ) build on those relationships you make there to meet outside the venue,
socials allow you to build those networks, it takes time effort and perseverance,
"you get out of this what you put in,,"
Have fun folks, its why we re all here,, |
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"Haha, matey! It's really not that hard.
I've been too busy the past few months but its not that difficult to meet.
You do have got to play the game though.
Your profile has to portray the right type of guy. A few wrong words can destroy your chances. Your photos have to be good. Avoid dark backgrounds. Remember, you have to look like their ideal man!
But, there are many many desperate men on here. Do not be one of them, however, make use of this to stand out!
Above all, I'd suggest to gain knowledge on womens psychology. If you know what women look for/are put off by, how they work,you'll do very well!
I'm going to get grief now for suggesting that women are all the same. They are not all the same but 90% do carry certain sex specific characteristics.
A crude example of that is this:
Women do not view a man sexually at the very start and therefore are put off by cock pics and sexual advances. They view a man socially first, then you can build on it so that they have trust.... then if you show the right signs, then they can view you sexually. This is the time to get sexual with them!
There are many more of these things also!
Good luck!
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Adding to this prove in your first contact with her that you have read her profile. Plus mostwomen never make first contact other than a simple wink so if you get one or fabbed pics talk to her. Remember to allow the woman to start the sex talk as then you know for sure she is interested.
Hope that helps
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We find it easier to meet friends to play with at club .it's better meeting people in person .we use site just to let people know when we are attending club .there are so many fakes .time wasters .and people who cheat on their partners on here .at least at club you can get straight down to having fun as couple or solo.or arrange to have private meets together or solo .when partner present .also get some good private party invites |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I go to the spa i have a great time,
I just can't understand what's going On
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We never had a meet from the site.
However clubs are a different story.
Fab and sites like it seems to be a place to keep in touch with people we have met, find out about club party nights (such as PHUKT) and such like. |
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