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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi there... I'm new to the site and looking to get into parties, 3somes etc.
If anyone would like to chat and get to know more then drop me a message
Thanks very much!
Also any advice would be great |
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"Hi there... I'm new to the site and looking to get into parties, 3somes etc.
If anyone would like to chat and get to know more then drop me a message
Thanks very much!
Also any advice would be great "
You were given some excellent advise yesterday which you chose not too take  |
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When people on here spend precious time giving you the advice you are asking for...be respectful and act on it. Go back to the other thread you started and read what people said then apply.
I am not an expert on profiles etc... but it is unfortunately people like you that put me off from giving advice in this section.  |
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"When people on here spend precious time giving you the advice you are asking for...be respectful and act on it. Go back to the other thread you started and read what people said then apply.
I am not an expert on profiles etc... but it is unfortunately people like you that put me off from giving advice in this section. "
I don't wish to sound argumentative but why should anyone HAVE to apply any advice that's offered? The person asking should be free to read any advice given and then decide for themselves if they would like to apply it. Advice should be a suggestion - not an order. |
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"That post wouldn't let me comment  So I reported it hence why I put this on... I am on sorting my pictures out now as we speak  x"
All the 3 other threads you've started are still open for you or anyone else for that matter to post on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When people on here spend precious time giving you the advice you are asking for...be respectful and act on it. Go back to the other thread you started and read what people said then apply.
I am not an expert on profiles etc... but it is unfortunately people like you that put me off from giving advice in this section.
I don't wish to sound argumentative but why should anyone HAVE to apply any advice that's offered? The person asking should be free to read any advice given and then decide for themselves if they would like to apply it. Advice should be a suggestion - not an order."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When people on here spend precious time giving you the advice you are asking for...be respectful and act on it. Go back to the other thread you started and read what people said then apply.
I am not an expert on profiles etc... but it is unfortunately people like you that put me off from giving advice in this section.
I don't wish to sound argumentative but why should anyone HAVE to apply any advice that's offered? The person asking should be free to read any advice given and then decide for themselves if they would like to apply it. Advice should be a suggestion - not an order."
why ask for advice from experienced members and then ignore it, seems like a waste of time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When people on here spend precious time giving you the advice you are asking for...be respectful and act on it. Go back to the other thread you started and read what people said then apply.
I am not an expert on profiles etc... but it is unfortunately people like you that put me off from giving advice in this section.
I don't wish to sound argumentative but why should anyone HAVE to apply any advice that's offered? The person asking should be free to read any advice given and then decide for themselves if they would like to apply it. Advice should be a suggestion - not an order."
They dont, but surely the the answers tey get will be the same no matter how many times they ask. |
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"When people on here spend precious time giving you the advice you are asking for...be respectful and act on it. Go back to the other thread you started and read what people said then apply.
I am not an expert on profiles etc... but it is unfortunately people like you that put me off from giving advice in this section.
I don't wish to sound argumentative but why should anyone HAVE to apply any advice that's offered? The person asking should be free to read any advice given and then decide for themselves if they would like to apply it. Advice should be a suggestion - not an order.
They dont, but surely the the answers tey get will be the same no matter how many times they ask. "
It may be frustrating to see someone ask the same thing over and over only to ignore all advice given but surely the best way to deal with that is to stop offering that person any further advice. The requests would then eventually dry up. |
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Far from me to want to impose my views on anyone - I never want anyone to HAVE to abide by what I suggest but when someone asks for forumite's opinion on their profile or what they are doing wrong, they allow me to form an opinion and tell them what that is. You've heard of freedom of speech? My opinion is always respectful and polite.
what they do with it is their choice, they are indeed free to use/not use the advice given.
I am still only a newbie compared to those who have been here 3/4/5 years but I have learnt a few lessons and all I want is to help new members benefit from my mistake...why is that so bad? |
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"Far from me to want to impose my views on anyone - I never want anyone to HAVE to abide by what I suggest but when someone asks for forumite's opinion on their profile or what they are doing wrong, they allow me to form an opinion and tell them what that is. You've heard of freedom of speech? My opinion is always respectful and polite.
what they do with it is their choice, they are indeed free to use/not use the advice given.
I am still only a newbie compared to those who have been here 3/4/5 years but I have learnt a few lessons and all I want is to help new members benefit from my mistake...why is that so bad?"
Where would be without some good advice from those who have been on the scene for longer? You've taken the time to offer advice and that's a good thing. But you did say the OP should be respectful and ACT on advice given. I'm just saying he isn't required to do that - just to read it then decide whether he WANTS to act on it.
I've given advice in the past - some has been acted upon and some ignored. Such is life.
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