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New king on the block!
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Hello fab peeps
It’s king Arser here, it’s all in the name.
Yep, you’ve guessed it, I love a big bum. Plain and simple, no ifs or buts (well, ok, maybe butts  )
Want to know more, have a look at my profile (as usual, feedback is welcome)
Still want to know more, drop me a line
Still want to know more, well, meet me in person  |
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Ooh thanks, that’s very kind of you 
You’re absolutely right, it’s probably much more difficult to get a meet without a pic  .
But I’m willing to live with that, in the hope that some lovely lady will use her insight rather than her eyesight to see from my words that I'm a decent chap worth a try 
My only sin is that I like a big bum  |
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over a year ago
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Personally as I've peeped before and I know I'm on my phone but I thought it was a but too long and you talk too much in parts like the section on the twenties age group as there isn't the need to plus the size 0 next to BBW doesn't particularly flow. Just needs some tweaking here and there otherwise it does say what you are looking for and welcome to fab |
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"Hopefully you are getting the message now. X"
Affirmative Affirmative, I can hear you loud and clear
but (and it's a big butt ), in my profile I'm only asking to meet in clubs.
So if you can meet random strangers in clubs, why can't you meet someone you'd emailed or chated with online?
I can see your point, but do you see mine? |
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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago
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There's no way we would ever chat or meet anyone without pics.... club or not. Yes, we meet random strangers at clubs, but they are strangers that we are attracted to by sight. We certainly wouldn't arrange to meet someone anywhere, club or no club, without seeing what they look like first. And we agree with previous post, makes it feel like the OP is 'playing away'. |
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I think I’ve under-estimated the importance of pics
You’ve been kind enough to give advice on my profile, perhaps I can push my luck a tad further and ask for advice on pics. Here’s my dilemma, I don’t want to post:
- naked pics of myself as I find it inappropriate ( you can tell I’m a bit old fashioned!)
- face pics because of my work
- most certainly no pics of my “genitals”, that’s indecent
So, I’m left with a pic of myself clothed and with my head chopped off (new king on the chopping block, lol).
I don’t see the value of such a pic really!
What are your thoughts/advice please?
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"I think I’ve under-estimated the importance of pics
You’ve been kind enough to give advice on my profile, perhaps I can push my luck a tad further and ask for advice on pics. Here’s my dilemma, I don’t want to post:
- naked pics of myself as I find it inappropriate ( you can tell I’m a bit old fashioned!)
- face pics because of my work
- most certainly no pics of my “genitals”, that’s indecent
So, I’m left with a pic of myself clothed and with my head chopped off (new king on the chopping block, lol).
I don’t see the value of such a pic really!
What are your thoughts/advice please?
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less exposure..less meets
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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago
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"I think I’ve under-estimated the importance of pics
You’ve been kind enough to give advice on my profile, perhaps I can push my luck a tad further and ask for advice on pics. Here’s my dilemma, I don’t want to post:
- naked pics of myself as I find it inappropriate ( you can tell I’m a bit old fashioned!)
- face pics because of my work
- most certainly no pics of my “genitals”, that’s indecent
So, I’m left with a pic of myself clothed and with my head chopped off (new king on the chopping block, lol).
I don’t see the value of such a pic really!
What are your thoughts/advice please?
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Face pics you should have available in your private or friends only section.
Genital pics...not just genitals, but part of say, full body shot.
Why are you against naked pics on a swingers site? Good Lord!
And old fashioned is your excuse?
Sorry, but it feels to us that you have something to hide. |
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"I think I’ve under-estimated the importance of pics
You’ve been kind enough to give advice on my profile, perhaps I can push my luck a tad further and ask for advice on pics. Here’s my dilemma, I don’t want to post:
- naked pics of myself as I find it inappropriate ( you can tell I’m a bit old fashioned!)
- face pics because of my work
- most certainly no pics of my “genitals”, that’s indecent
So, I’m left with a pic of myself clothed and with my head chopped off (new king on the chopping block, lol).
I don’t see the value of such a pic really!
What are your thoughts/advice please?
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It's your choice of what picture(s) you feel will do you justice. You can have naked, face, genital pics on here, just keep them private - I do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I’ve under-estimated the importance of pics
You’ve been kind enough to give advice on my profile, perhaps I can push my luck a tad further and ask for advice on pics. Here’s my dilemma, I don’t want to post:
- naked pics of myself as I find it inappropriate ( you can tell I’m a bit old fashioned!)
- face pics because of my work
- most certainly no pics of my “genitals”, that’s indecent
So, I’m left with a pic of myself clothed and with my head chopped off (new king on the chopping block, lol).
I don’t see the value of such a pic really!
What are your thoughts/advice please?
Face pics you should have available in your private or friends only section.
Genital pics...not just genitals, but part of say, full body shot.
Why are you against naked pics on a swingers site? Good Lord!
And old fashioned is your excuse?
Sorry, but it feels to us that you have something to hide."
You can post anything - but most will want an idea of body shape and potentially a face pic (set to private) that can be sent by request!
No nudity required - but no pic is generally a non-starter for most. Just be creative! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I’ve under-estimated the importance of pics
You’ve been kind enough to give advice on my profile, perhaps I can push my luck a tad further and ask for advice on pics. Here’s my dilemma, I don’t want to post:
- naked pics of myself as I find it inappropriate ( you can tell I’m a bit old fashioned!)
- face pics because of my work
- most certainly no pics of my “genitals”, that’s indecent
So, I’m left with a pic of myself clothed and with my head chopped off (new king on the chopping block, lol).
I don’t see the value of such a pic really!
What are your thoughts/advice please?
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I also prefer not to have naked full on shots on my profile, I prefer the element of mystery, the tease so how about clothed frontal with the shirt and tie undone? A naked bum shot as us ladies like those, there are lots of ways of posting nice pictures without nudity.
Face pictures due to work is no excuse, an awful lot of us on here cannot display them due to work but they can be set as private and attached to a message as only you can see them, no-one else not even friends |
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Thanks again everybody. Sending pics with messages is a reasonable and fair compromise.
Just for the record though, I'm not "playing away", I've got nothing to hide, there are no skeletons in the closet, no conspiracy theory, and I don't work for M
The reason I'm hesitant is because I'm new to all this. Maybe it's not for me, I don't know, I'm just exploring and I'm certainly not desperate. I don't think people should feel pressured to do things they're not completely comfortable with just for the sake of some fun. This might've been the case for me twenty years ago, but not now.
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"Thanks again everybody. Sending pics with messages is a reasonable and fair compromise.
Just for the record though, I'm not "playing away", I've got nothing to hide, there are no skeletons in the closet, no conspiracy theory, and I don't work for M
The reason I'm hesitant is because I'm new to all this. Maybe it's not for me, I don't know, I'm just exploring and I'm certainly not desperate. I don't think people should feel pressured to do things they're not completely comfortable with just for the sake of some fun. This might've been the case for me twenty years ago, but not now.
End of speach, applause "
Fair play to you for sticking by your guns. Nutty. |
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"Tried to send a pic in an email on here, but the system didn't allow me. Said I have to be a site supporter. Am I doing something wrong or is this the way it works?
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You might have to be a site supporter to send pics by email I'm not sure. But the easiest way to upload pics is using the upload tool. |
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"Thanks again everybody. Sending pics with messages is a reasonable and fair compromise.
Just for the record though, I'm not "playing away", I've got nothing to hide, there are no skeletons in the closet, no conspiracy theory, and I don't work for M
The reason I'm hesitant is because I'm new to all this. Maybe it's not for me, I don't know, I'm just exploring and I'm certainly not desperate. I don't think people should feel pressured to do things they're not completely comfortable with just for the sake of some fun. This might've been the case for me twenty years ago, but not now.
End of speach, applause "
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To send a pic by email, yes you do have to be a site member
To send a pic privately, just compose your message and tick the private pic you wish to send |
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