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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi. Been a member for a while and had a few social meets. What I'm looking for is a regular friend male or female or even a couple that is local within 10 miles that can accommodate during the day. Must enjoy the natural look and be gentle with me. Am I looking for a needle in a haystack ,?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting  "
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do think there's someone, on here for everyone... Just may take time!
Good luck and happy hunting!
Sorry to hear your last experience wasn't great x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a nice message from a guy. Hoping to arrange a coffee soon x"
I'm sure you will find what your looking for Miss N xx
you deserve to have fun and its been ages since i've heard that naughty laughter let alone the huge smile xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Had a nice message from a guy. Hoping to arrange a coffee soon x
I'm sure you will find what your looking for Miss N xx
you deserve to have fun and its been ages since i've heard that naughty laughter let alone the huge smile xxx"
Thanks. I'm looking forward to smiling lots !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a nice message from a guy. Hoping to arrange a coffee soon x
I'm sure you will find what your looking for Miss N xx
you deserve to have fun and its been ages since i've heard that naughty laughter let alone the huge smile xxx
Thanks. I'm looking forward to smiling lots !! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a nice message from a guy. Hoping to arrange a coffee soon x
I'm sure you will find what your looking for Miss N xx
you deserve to have fun and its been ages since i've heard that naughty laughter let alone the huge smile
Thanks. I'm looking forward to smiling lots !! "
I remember are long coffee chats, surreal at times as well but the smile was all ways there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"in my experience theres loads of haystacks on here most look like the 80's wrestler and thats just the women  "
Lol!!! Think I must be a haystack then ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"in my experience theres loads of haystacks on here most look like the 80's wrestler and thats just the women
Charming!!. You say it do nicely. Wasn't sure how to respond. Lol "
Sometimes the first thing that comes into my head works nicely lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"have you thought about going to VA on a Friday night, invite willing participants and see id they pass the interview ?"
Due to family I can't escape in the evenings x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there "
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want?"
Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want?
Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??"
lol good point and at least they know you're meeting now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want?
Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??
lol good point and at least they know you're meeting now "
All ways read profiles xxx just wish other people would read mine xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want?
Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??"
Yes plenty of us do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want?
Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??"
Heaven forbid you could be pro-active in finding what you want.
Can I guess that you get lots of !"Wanna Fuck" and "great tits" type messages? I'm sorry but like, attracts like, can you not see the irony in blaming men on the site for not getting what you want because you don't see the point in stating what you want? |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want?
Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??
Heaven forbid you could be pro-active in finding what you want.
Can I guess that you get lots of !"Wanna Fuck" and "great tits" type messages? I'm sorry but like, attracts like, can you not see the irony in blaming men on the site for not getting what you want because you don't see the point in stating what you want?"
Where is the blame ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want?
Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??
Heaven forbid you could be pro-active in finding what you want.
Can I guess that you get lots of !"Wanna Fuck" and "great tits" type messages? I'm sorry but like, attracts like, can you not see the irony in blaming men on the site for not getting what you want because you don't see the point in stating what you want?
Where is the blame ?"
The blame comes from that suggesting that singlemen don't read profiles when the real problem is a profile that is shockingly bad (and would be being destroyed if it was a males) which in no way reflects what she is looking for. The OP is looking for a pretty specific but not that unusual meet, makes no suggestionm of it on her profile and justifies it by saying singlemen don;t read profiles anyway. To me that is totally shifting the blame away from themselves |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want?
Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??
Heaven forbid you could be pro-active in finding what you want.
Can I guess that you get lots of !"Wanna Fuck" and "great tits" type messages? I'm sorry but like, attracts like, can you not see the irony in blaming men on the site for not getting what you want because you don't see the point in stating what you want?
Where is the blame ?
The blame comes from that suggesting that singlemen don't read profiles when the real problem is a profile that is shockingly bad (and would be being destroyed if it was a males) which in no way reflects what she is looking for. The OP is looking for a pretty specific but not that unusual meet, makes no suggestionm of it on her profile and justifies it by saying singlemen don;t read profiles anyway. To me that is totally shifting the blame away from themselves"
In context of the thread. I think you are blowing it out of all proportion. The op isn't requesting any profile advice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want?
Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??
Heaven forbid you could be pro-active in finding what you want.
Can I guess that you get lots of !"Wanna Fuck" and "great tits" type messages? I'm sorry but like, attracts like, can you not see the irony in blaming men on the site for not getting what you want because you don't see the point in stating what you want?
Where is the blame ?
The blame comes from that suggesting that singlemen don't read profiles when the real problem is a profile that is shockingly bad (and would be being destroyed if it was a males) which in no way reflects what she is looking for. The OP is looking for a pretty specific but not that unusual meet, makes no suggestionm of it on her profile and justifies it by saying singlemen don;t read profiles anyway. To me that is totally shifting the blame away from themselves
In context of the thread. I think you are blowing it out of all proportion. The op isn't requesting any profile advice. "
Thank you. Happy to discuss in messages what I'm looking for and will message guys if they fit with what I'm looking for. Hence my forum post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You might want to change your profile text in that case as you say you're only here to chat with no intention of meeting
I changed it after a disaster of a meet last week. Will delete. Forgot it was still on there
You might want to change the profile so it reflects what you are looking for. I don't think it's a needle in a haystack, but based on your current profile how is anyone supposed to know what you actually want?
Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??
Heaven forbid you could be pro-active in finding what you want.
Can I guess that you get lots of !"Wanna Fuck" and "great tits" type messages? I'm sorry but like, attracts like, can you not see the irony in blaming men on the site for not getting what you want because you don't see the point in stating what you want?
Where is the blame ?
The blame comes from that suggesting that singlemen don't read profiles when the real problem is a profile that is shockingly bad (and would be being destroyed if it was a males) which in no way reflects what she is looking for. The OP is looking for a pretty specific but not that unusual meet, makes no suggestionm of it on her profile and justifies it by saying singlemen don;t read profiles anyway. To me that is totally shifting the blame away from themselves
In context of the thread. I think you are blowing it out of all proportion. The op isn't requesting any profile advice. "
I wasn't the first person to link the post to the profile. And I would have thought that in the context of the thread, and indeed as per forum rules critquing a profile on a thread where the op is looking for advice regarding a lack of meets is perfectly valid.
Indeed the advice update your profile to reflect what your looking for is pretty stock advice on threads like this so Im really failing to see the issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can we just close this forum posting ?"
Don't take it to heart nawty, some people get their knickers in a twist over something that isn't there. The blame isn't there but a question mark is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. Been a member for a while and had a few social meets. What I'm looking for is a regular friend male or female or even a couple that is local within 10 miles that can accommodate during the day. Must enjoy the natural look and be gentle with me. Am I looking for a needle in a haystack ,?? "
Why not state exactly that on your profile (minus haystack comment).
Btw I'm jealous of all the dressing up outfits  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi. Been a member for a while and had a few social meets. What I'm looking for is a regular friend male or female or even a couple that is local within 10 miles that can accommodate during the day. Must enjoy the natural look and be gentle with me. Am I looking for a needle in a haystack ,??
Why not state exactly that on your profile (minus haystack comment).
Btw I'm jealous of all the dressing up outfits "
I always like to dress up. Thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hmmm
do i comment as i know this young minx
naww and as for the outfits there quite tame for miss V x  
Oi!!! Cheeky!!! "
YES , mio cheeky !! hell dame right i am lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. Been a member for a while and had a few social meets. What I'm looking for is a regular friend male or female or even a couple that is local within 10 miles that can accommodate during the day. Must enjoy the natural look and be gentle with me. Am I looking for a needle in a haystack ,?? "
I'm after the same!! Just don't know if it's me or the ones I keep picking lol hope we both get what we want |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. Been a member for a while and had a few social meets. What I'm looking for is a regular friend male or female or even a couple that is local within 10 miles that can accommodate during the day. Must enjoy the natural look and be gentle with me. Am I looking for a needle in a haystack ,??
I'm after the same!! Just don't know if it's me or the ones I keep picking lol hope we both get what we want "
cant see why you would have a problem |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Gob smacked. Had a nice message from a single guy and exchanged messages and pictures and arranged a social. Social was cancelled I messaging saying shall we rearrange. Response - not interested any more and was blocked ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was going to block him but his already blocked me. Oh well wasn't meant to be! Might stick with self relief lol "
You still can. Go into your block list and just type his name in lol and self relief is more reliable at times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??"
Well yes, this single bloke does, but 99.99% of the time you are on a hiding to nothing anyway, very few people reply to single blokes, possibly due to sheer number of messages they get. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Do single guys even read profiles before messaging ??
Well yes, this single bloke does, but 99.99% of the time you are on a hiding to nothing anyway, very few people reply to single blokes, possibly due to sheer number of messages they get. "
Nonsense |
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